Inventory Of Five Skills Of Men And Women In Workplace
Career takes up most of our time, so it is necessary to get along well with our colleagues in the workplace.
Let's learn about the five skills of men and women in the workplace.
1, do not engage in personal
worship
:
Many years ago, our country advocated no personal cult.
Someone once made a survey and concluded that an important factor in maintaining the relationship between husband and wife is mutual admiration, or the worship of one side to another.
In the office, men and women get along with each other in the morning and evening. It is a dangerous signal for a particularly outstanding colleague (opposite sex) to feel admiration and regard it as an idol.
In fact, as long as you think about it, he does not eat? Do not sleep? Do not Moll? Do not go to the toilet? There is a joke that a boy secretly loves a girl, how to see her are good, as a fairy, for the tea do not think.
2. speak Pay attention to propriety, joke is enough:
Men do not like to listen to whine. Women do not like to listen to dirty words. This is called radish and Chinese cabbage.
When you have no opposite sex, you can do whatever you like. If you have heterosexual, you should be careful in speaking.
A man has to put up a foul mouthed, at least respecting the woman.
Otherwise, if the office is full of dirty language, do you still want to work?
3, if you want people to think you are right and sit tight,
Must
Grasp such a yardstick:
Physical contact must not be zero. According to the study of American psychologist Holzer, men and women are less than 46 centimeters apart. They are regarded as flirting or intimacy. 50-60 centimeters are private space distances, which are equivalent to self activities, and 60 centimeters are the normal distance between people.
In view of this, the body distance should be controlled at 60 centimeters away, so as not to feel the speed of the other's breathing, skin texture and subtle changes in color as the standard.
No matter what extent it is open to, it is better to maintain a sense of acceptance between men and women.
The most important thing is zero distance contact.
If there is a heterosexual expression to distance you, you might as well tell the other person that you will "Golden Bell and iron shirt", which can be extended to 60 centimeters away!
4, emotion does not exceed
friendship
Scope:
In the office, men and women are only colleagues in normal circumstances, and friends are the only ones who can be friends.
Whether men and women have any real friendship has been discussed for several years. In the end, there is no result. What kind of confidante and blue Yan friend have been in a row for a long time? They have been accepted by many people and are opposed by many people.
The package does not include the relationship between men and women in the office.
But we think that a good colleague should have a feeling of friendship.
5. Psychology There is no such thing as the opposite sex.
As the saying goes, same-sex repel and opposites attract.
This is especially true for men and women in offices.
There is often competition between the sexes, and the opposite sex can help each other and cooperate with each other.
Didn't you see that many policemen and robbers in the movie were male and female partners, and the rate of detection was very high? If two were male policemen, one of them would have died early.
This work has a beautiful name: men and women collocation, work is not tired.
In the end, tired or tired, I think who knows in his heart that it is just a beautiful excuse for his lewd.
To sum up, it's the skills of men and women in five offices.
In fact, no matter men or women, as long as the mentality is straightened out, and then generous, courteous and the opposite sex colleagues to contact, no problem.
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