Workplace Wisdom: Teaching People Who Are Laughing At The Sword.

In the workplace, people who like to laugh and hide a knife usually prefer to lower their heads, not to look squarely at other people's eyes.

When laughing, it does not seem to be relaxed enough. It is frivolous in manner and has some insensitive elements in speech.

For example, a person who will take advantage of you may be superior to others in terms of sex and evil.

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She had been depressed recently. What she could not think of was that her colleagues and dead friends who had been friends with her for two years would be openly competing with themselves in the same industry.

Chen Ran is a divorced woman. When she first came to the company, she had no experience in this industry.

As a head of the Department, ran Xi naturally became her entry teacher.

At that time, Chen Ran was very sweet to ran Xi's mouth. The left "ran sister" was called by a "ran sister" on the right. Chen Ran to the family after he left work.

Ran Xi is a very humane boss. She never understands other people's kindness.

For example, Chen Ran often buys a small gift for her two year old son. He often teaches his experience by hand.

Two years later, Chen Ran to another company. She became the biggest competitor of Ran's company.

She threw out some of the company plans that she had revealed to her.

Analysis: the most taboo in the company is

Confused with friends' roles, work is confused with life.

Because the state of a friend is likely to disturb the state of work, people should be objective, fair and clear in their work, but because of infiltration of friends, people may lack fairness and become subjective and emotional, so they must keep their distance clearly.

His (her) experience is tortuous and moving, even like the plot in the movie.

Such as the bleak life experience, gentle and beautiful love story.

He (she) often claims to be extraordinarily similar to your experience. Whenever you say something, he or she will be able to, and always create a sense of "being the same as the end of the world".

He (she) is always the same as you, and for example, there are obvious differences between you from outside to inside, but he (she) always says diligently: "we are just like two elder sisters." the mantra is: "you are just like me."

He (she) shows excessive enthusiasm and always likes to give you some small benefits. When you encounter something, he or she will ignore your need to ask for help, but never put it into practice.

He (she) did not cause you to rely on you.

Even arrange some activities for you, like to say, "let's go together..."

It sounds like he (she) seems very enthusiastic, but in fact, if you really do, he (she) will change the way to repel you.

Zhuoyan recommended fan Qing to her husband.

Fan Qing is Wen Jun's colleague. The two women were very lucky at first.

Especially after learning about Fan Qing's unhappy life, Zhuoyan produced a kind of sympathy between her sisters.

She often invited fan Qing to visit her home, and even found a house for her in her own building. At the same time, Zhuoyan also actively introduced her friend to her psychologist, hoping to help fan Qing to come out of the shadow early.

But two months later, Zhuoyan noticed that Wen Jun's mobile phone received the information from fan Qingfa repeatedly, and Wen Jung once revealed to his wife that fan Qing wanted to invite himself to a seaside city to travel together, and harassed repeatedly, and finally was refused by himself.

Zhuoyan was speechless.

Analysis: the wrong assumption is: I have to be friends with my husband's friends.

So, Zhuoyan did not have any defensive thoughts against Fan Qing. In fact, the mental world of those with mental problems can not be solved by one or two psychological counseling. If she can not promise long-term psychotherapy, she must be determined to stay away from her because she will probably invade your life.