Smart Women, The Wisdom Of Success In The Workplace

Among many career women, there are many beautiful women who have graceful and capable professional images or white collar beauties who have excellent working skills. However, these professional beauties are not enough to rely on their own personal image and the achievements of their personal work in order to work well in the workplace. Workplace friendships, a factor that can easily be overlooked, can be a successful fulcrum for professional beauty at the critical time. Below are some key points to consolidate the fulcrum, believing that these contents will make your relationship more successful.

As the saying goes, "tastes are alike", only a common hobby and interest can bring people together.

Most of the colleagues in Xiaohong are male. During the short break time at lunch, colleagues often gather together to talk about the world. Unfortunately, Xiao Hong always feels unable to plug in.

Male colleagues prefer to talk about sports and stocks, but even if they do not understand the fashion trend, they will not interfere with their communication with their female colleagues.

But if you want to do well with these male colleagues, you must first force yourself to accept some of their interests and hobbies.

So Xiao Hong began to pay attention to sports news and news consciously every day. He met the right opportunity and even went to the ball with his male colleagues.

"Now that there is a common topic, it is much easier to get along with their male colleagues. Every time they chat with them, they will exchange their feelings in their work with them. The friendship between us has improved a lot," says Xiao Hong.

The personal secrets of a colleague are, of course, some hidden things that are hidden or not known to others. If a colleague can tell you his privacy information, it can only show that your colleagues are reliable enough for you, and your friendship must exceed others.

If at the same time you hear your personal secrets exposed in someone's mouth, don't say, she must think you betrayed her.

The betrayed coworkers will surely curse you in the heart, and regret for the friendship and trust you have paid before.

Therefore, do not arbitrarily disclose personal privacy and consolidate the basic requirements of professional friendship. If this is not done well, I am afraid no colleague will dare to confide in you.

Song Jia and Wang Hui are a good sisters without saying anything. The two people have been living in the same dorm since they worked. They have been working together and working together almost every day. By chance, Song Jia and Wang Hui have come into contact with a man who is superior and handsome in every aspect. They almost have a crush on this man at the same time. In order to be closer to a handsome man, Song Jia and Wang Hui suddenly become personal. They are no longer inseparable but acting alone. Later, two people have turned their back on their behalf, and their feelings have vanished for years.

Obviously, love has blocked the friendship between the two people. From the beginning of their love for the handsome man, they announced that their friendship for many years began to break.

Therefore, as a career woman, you'd better deal with your emotional life alone. Even before your love is mature, don't even drag your friends to a date.

Otherwise, love will become a stumbling block to friendship.

After office hours,

It's a normal thing to chat with one another; while many people, especially male colleagues, are most likely to show off their knowledge in front of their colleagues while chatting, and to convey information to other colleagues, that is, I am familiar with what you are familiar with. I am familiar with those you do not know. Actually, those who pretended to know everything are only skin and fur.

As a female, if you want to satisfy your curiosity and desire to break the sand nest to ask questions, the other party will soon be filled, so the time for gossip is not too long.

This will not only sweep everyone's interest, but also embarrass the colleagues who like "God". I believe that when I chat later, my colleagues will avoid you consciously or unconsciously.

Therefore, I suggest that female friends, when chatting on any occasion, do not want to understand everything and ask questions to stop, so that colleagues will be happy to accept you.

"Why is XX always against me? This guy is really annoying!" and "XX always sticks with me. I don't know where I offended him!"

There are such short gossip in the office that flying short gossip is a soft knife in the workplace. It is a weapon that is destructive and destructive. It can act directly on the human mind, and it will make the injured person very tired.

If you are very keen on spreading rumors of discord, at least you can't expect other colleagues to listen enthusiastically.

Frequent gossip is a way of avoiding the fear of others.

If this is the case, I believe you will not be able to enjoy your life in this unit, because no colleague has taken you seriously.

It is normal to have some minor contradictions with colleagues during the long time of work. However, in dealing with these contradictions, we should pay attention to methods and try to make the contradictions between you open to the public.

Office space is also a public place. Although there are some minor frictions between colleagues, there must be rational handling of friction events.

Don't show your arrogant appearance. You must make a break with your colleagues.

To put it another way, even if you are reasonable, your colleagues will be very respectful to you if you have to forgive yourself, and feel that you are a man who does not give room to colleagues and does not give others face. He will always be on guard against you in the future, so that you may lose the support of a large number of colleagues.

Besides, your colleagues will hate you and your career will be more than an enemy.

In the impression of colleagues, Wu Jing is a big man, whether a good colleague or a colleague with a general relationship, she can lend money to them, and sometimes colleagues do not bring money, Wu Jing will complain that his colleagues are not enough, that they are all colleagues, so difficult to borrow money, and that the relationship between colleagues is only superficial; and the colleagues who are borrowed money think that friendship appears to be impurities, and even fear that her money will not go back and forth.

In particular, Wu Jing once did not return money to her colleagues as scheduled, and her colleagues immediately disliked her. He thought Wu Jing was too much to play with her as a colleague, and Wu Jing thought he could not repay the money on time. It was not her intention. She had some difficulties with her colleagues. Should she not lend her her hand? It was because of borrowing money casually and not paying back in time that Wu Jing soon lost her popularity among her colleagues.

Therefore, we must never lend money to others when we have to do so. Even if we borrow money, we must remember to return it in time.

Many people no matter what their job is.

They are always angry and complaining. They always pour bitter water on everyone, though occasionally some sad complaints can build up a little illusion of office friendships, but chattering Like Xiang Lin's wife will keep their colleagues around.

Perhaps you think of complaining and bitter water as a way of communicating sincerely with your colleagues, but excessive complaints can make colleagues feel that you are so dissatisfied with your current job, why not?

Do you want to go elsewhere?

Often, when the boss does not announce the situation, he will go about in the office for four times to flaunt, or make a mysterious and intimate contact with his colleagues. Once the news is spread out, these people will surely envy their colleagues, hate them, and cause unnecessary trouble; of course, they should not publicize other than when they are complacent; even when they are frustrated, they can not tell other people about their superiors' faults in public, or even involve others in making the same mistake. How can they not be punished? If so, not only will the boss be tired of you, but your colleagues will be even more annoyed at you, and you will be better off in the future. Many people are praised or promoted when their work is successful.

So don't overdo it when you are complacent or frustrated, otherwise you can only bring obstacles to your work friendship.

If some of them like to flatter their superiors and compete with their superiors, they will surely cause other colleagues to dislike and affect their work feelings.

If you really need to curry favor with your superiors, you should try to invite many people to join together to curry favor with your superiors.

Instead of doing some shameful little moves in private, let your colleagues doubt your loyalty to the friendship, and even suspect that you have personality problems. When your colleagues get along with you again, you will be subconsciously beware of you, because they will worry about the usual complaints about their superiors, they will be sold by you, and you can climb up the leadership positions by offering information.

Once you are found to have betrayed your colleagues, the friendship between you is declared to be finished. Even other people who want to make friends with you are afraid to rely on you.

Therefore, it is one of the ways to ensure the friendship between colleagues.