Etiquette Between Lovers

The etiquette between lovers is mainly about courtship, dating, love letters, meeting the future parents and their parents.

(1) courtship etiquette, courtesy and etiquette, usually include dating, direct expression, borrowing, implicit, and simplified forms.

The date is to invite your sweetheart to go to the movies, park, dance, etc.

Generally speaking, a sensitive person will notice the signal of courtship from your appointment.

Direct expression, that is, when two people are in love with you, when I am interested, you can be frank and frank.

Borrowing things is the way to pass on things.

Implicit style is a way of courting love in action.

It is written in letters, such as "courtship letter" and "love letter".

The first date of the dating ceremony (two) is very important to the development of love.

For the first time, people should pay attention to the following aspects.

First, punctual appointment must not be broken.

Second, conversation should be natural, generous, sincere and gentle.

Excessive shyness will cause the other side to be constrained, and too free and easy, often will cause the other party to suspect.

When listening to dialects, avoid absent-minded, do not listen carefully and think about other things, or look at each other with eyes.

Third, conversation is enthusiastic and not frivolous.

According to Chinese custom, the protagonist of the first date should be the man, and the woman's performance is more implicit.

However, men are not good at speaking. Women should take the initiative to ask questions and arouse conversation.

The two sides avoided a long time.

Fourth, we must be cautious in doing things so that we can see good things and not be impolite.

Fifth, clothing is neat and unpretentious.

A successful love letter often opens up the other's heart. (three) love letters.

So how to write the first love letter?

The language is simple and unsuitable.

For the first time you write to your partner, avoid hot words such as "dear", "my" and "kiss you". Even if you are pure hearted, these words will be interpreted as "frivolous" by the other side.

Two, content is real and not false.

Three, emotion should be euphemistic and unwilling to be forced.

Generally speaking, you should express your admiration in a euphemistic tone.

When you suddenly receive a letter of courtship, what should you do?

Don't be nervous, not to talk about it everywhere, but calm down and consider it carefully.

If the two sides do not think that the foundation of love is established at all, then they should state their reasons and decline them. If they already have the right people, then they should speak openly, so as not to mislead them. If they think they are young, they do not want to consider this problem at the moment, so they can speak frankly about the situation.

We must not publicize each other's letters or circulate them or publicize them. Nor can we lightly accuse each other of being bold, or sneer at others' "self love" and "toad want to eat swan meat".

(four) pay a visit to the courtesy of the future parents in law and their parents. When your friends and parents invite you to visit your family, you will be nervous, excited, excited and happy.

Therefore, you should pay attention to the following Etiquette: first, dress up appropriately.

Too much make-up and big right need not.

Next, discuss with your friends whether you bring gifts.

Gifts should not be too costly. Gifts are not directly proportional to goodwill.

Once again, before entering the living room, you should gently tap the door and wait for permission to enter.

For those who are not familiar with the room, you should wait for your friend to introduce another warm address and greeting.

Parents of parents should be called "Uncle", "aunt", "Uncle" and "aunt".

It's too early to call "Daddy" and "mommy".

Fourth, behave with generosity.

Fifth, speak well.

We should listen more to the elderly and ask the elders to grasp the topic.

Don't be too stiff and restrained.

Sixth, stay at table and wait for the host to arrange for the table.

You must not drink too much.

When you leave, thank your host for your hospitality, and say goodbye to other guests.