Should A Man Be A Gentleman?

Just like the earth itself is pear shaped, and earth instrument is the standard sphere.

From a cultural sense, gentlemen and ladies concentrate on the aesthetic interest of men and women, the tendency to be aesthetical, and the yearning for a plain and refined......

It's not easy to be a gentleman.

Although there is no astonishing act, manners and manners are polite and polite, showing gentle manners and modest manners in every small place.

Although this is probably his character, sometimes in his current society, he must be restrained.

When the fire broke out in Karamay in Xinjiang a few years ago, some people shouted loudly, "let the leaders go first". The leaders who should be the most gentlemen should step past the suffering pupils.

Gentlemen, of course, be respectable, but decent can be disguised.

A man who acts greedy can disguise himself as a gentleman on the surface. He sees a beautiful woman looking straight ahead, and never sees a gluttonous face when he sees the delicacies of mountains and rivers.

But if he was alone in the room with the beautiful woman, or if the mountain flavor was just to let him enjoy it with a few very close people, he would probably not be able to care for any gentlemanly manners.

Sometimes even such camouflage can be avoided. People with identity openly maintain "little secrets", and cultural people gather together to make rude remarks.

Nowadays, it has become commonplace and become a fashionable fashion. When suddenly one or two men of gentry like suddenly appear, they will surely stare at him like a monster.

Look at how men treat women now. They know how scarce a gentleman is.

He knows how to appreciate, love and hurt women. He does not use those vulgar things to sully the feelings of women and the women they respect.

How many of the men in the world are so open and aboveboard nowadays?

What they do in front of women is nothing more than the thickness and operation of the material foundation, and they often become the winners in the love field. Those gentlemen who are beautiful and virtuous are not optimistic.

No need to be a gentleman on the surface. At that time, those men who seem to be real gentlemen from inside to outside are mostly embarrassed and ridiculous.

A professor is always courteous to people. He is gentle and respectful to both the school doorman and the waiter in the restaurant.

One day when he saw a broken old woman, he stumbled along and rolled out an empty can from the plastic bag on her shoulder. He quickly bent down to pick up the old woman, and smiled and handed it to her.

The professor can often see people with official status and status, but he sees big and small, and sees little. He never sympathies with the weak.

On one occasion, he had just received a written fee and went to the school attached to the hospital to see a doctor. He met a tearful young woman and pulled a sick girl to ask for help.

He took out the contribution fee plus the pocket money of his body, a total of more than 500 yuan, into the girl's hands.

When the young woman walked away, he was reminded that he might have met a liar. He did not believe it.

He followed her to a guest house. The young woman came down from upstairs and became a modern girl, but the little girl disappeared.

The professor indignantly drew her at the door and asked her why she had to evaluate it like this.

Not only did she deny it, but she took out a "big cell phone" from her arms, and in a few minutes she brought two young men out of the arms, swearing them aside, and then the three men beat them away.

The professor trembled with anger and could not say a word.

A gentleman, a poor old man!

Can't we find a gentleman today?

We have trained many white-collar men who seem to be most qualified to be gentlemen. They have clean instruments and decent clothes. They can operate computers, understand one or two foreign languages, speak elegant and behave well.

But their minds are full of money. In the fierce competition, they are afraid of losing a good job. They always visit someone else in their heart, and they should "hand in hand when they are ready".

Even the alumni of my two high school, just like giving up and caring for others in life, can not be done by others, let alone those gentlemen who play the violin in Titanic.

The so-called gentleman man, I am afraid, can only be a beautiful dream!

(from Chinese family network)