Analysis Of Love Experts: Four Stages From Love To Marriage Experience

From love to marriage requires four psychological stages.

A psychologist once wrote that a mature love affair must go through four stages:

Coexistence (codependent)

Inverse dependency (counterdependent)

Independence (independent)

Symbiosis (interdependent)

The time required for conversion between stages is not necessarily easy for people.

The first stage: coexistence.

This is a period of love. Lovers always want to be bored whenever and wherever they want.

The second stage: anti dependence.

When emotion is stable, at least one party wants to have more time to do what one wants to do, and the other party will feel left out.

The third stage:

This is the continuation of the second stage, which requires more independent time.

The fourth stage: symbiosis.

At this time, the new way of getting along has already been formed, and your your (her) has become your most intimate person.

You support each other and create your own life together.

You will not tie each other up, but grow together.

However, most people fail to pass the second or third stage, and it is a great pity to choose to break up.

A lot of things will be fine as long as we communicate well. Do not play the role of individuality, do not think too much, trust each other, so that the second, third stage of time will be shortened.

It's hard to fall in love with someone you love. Don't give up easily.

The two people get together because they are destined to know each other, because they really want to cherish the blessing.

I hope to see the four stages mentioned above.

You have nothing in common with him, but are not alike in appearance.

The pace of your walk is a bit similar, and the tone of speech is becoming more and more similar.

He had a mole on his neck. One day, you noticed that there was more nevus on his neck, so we would become the people we love.

You used to like people who are down-to-earth, and he has always been rather frivolous, but you fell in love with him, and he would become an honest person without knowing it.

He used to like a lively girl but fell in love with you. You are more and more active these days, and you almost can't recognize yourself.

We will gradually become the ideal person in the other side. This change is definitely not deliberate.

The longer the two people are, the more similar they are. You once thought that he was not the type you dreamed of. However, one day, you were surprised to find that he has become the type you like, and you do not have to look for it everywhere. He is the person you are looking for.

When you love someone deeply, you really lose yourself a little bit. Why do you still feel happy?

It's probably because you lost money and earned money. You earned his temperament and smile.

Happiness is very simple...

So it is easy for a very simple person to get...