Duan Mu: Love Equality Is More Attractive.

In the era of women's economy, many women are internationally capable. But in terms of love and emotion, they often stay in the agricultural era. They still want to marry a man who is more Gao Gengqiang than himself.

　　
Eventually falling in love with the "old foreigner"

　　
Drifting abroad for 8 years, Duan has been to 9 countries in Western Europe. Duan wood inherited the temperament of an elegant mother. However, when a man in Shanghai saw her, she was moved and sat down and fled, because Duan was a serious person. She pursued a romantic marriage. Her beauty and elegance made her boyfriend not dare to fight because Shanghai men could only afford the women they could afford.

　　
On the wedding of "returnees" friends, Duan met George, the golden haired American. He was fascinated by the natural beauty of Duan, which was typical of his imagination of Oriental beauty. They fell in love.

　　
George came from a traditional middle class family in the United States. He is a class that feels, feels positive and intellectually. Within three months, their love grew rapidly, and George suggested that duen should go to see his parents. Of course, the quasi mother-in-law and all elder brothers and sisters all like duomu, Duan meets their family's curiosity about mysterious Orient.

　　
Duan did not expect that he had always wanted to find a compatriot and eventually loved foreigners.

　　
Two months after cohabitation, the cold war appeared.

　　
George invited duomu to live with him. Duan wood is a clothing designer, has its own studio, belongs to flexible working system. George is a workaholic, often returning late, and not accustomed to paying attention to the life of Duan mu. Duan feels that he has been ignored and frequently texted him to express his feelings. George was not used to it and objected to it. Duan was even more aggrieved and doubted that his love had declined.

　　
Duan became sad, and her often depressed expression corrupted George's mood. George is a simple man and can not stand the Oriental style of work. What's more, his impromptu "love" and impromptu "sex" are hindered by Duan wood. When duen's request for his love was "inappropriate" or "inappropriate", he was hit hard every time. After many setbacks, George no longer took the initiative to show her love. Duan was also a reserved woman. She never asked for anything.

　　
Two months after cohabitation, the cold war between them began. George often travels on business. After the cold war, business trips become more frequent. Once, on the second day after he left, Duanmu found "women's tools" in his bedside cupboard. She found that her heart was sinking into the abyss. This is a sign of rejection of love.

　　
Distance surmounting

　　
When George returned from business, Duan had moved back to his apartment. George went there, Duanmu was very polite, very polite, very cold, very sad. Deep into the night, George had no intention of leaving. Duan placed him in another room, so that he could endure the pain and spend the whole night alone. Although there is no tolerance for each other, but the distance is beyond the limits, but it is a foregone conclusion. The separation of that night's room is the last love mourning under the same roof. It is really like "why do we meet each other and get along with each other?"

　　
Duan and George met for the last time in an indoor ski resort. When George pulled out a foreign girl from behind her, she knew that this love was officially ended.

　　
Traditional love and modern marriage

　　
The marriage is to unload the wreath and expose the true face. Time turns the advantages into a natural habit but brings the shortcomings to each other. Duan Mu and American boyfriends had a faster curtain call because of cultural differences. Just a few days have already been intolerable to the bad habits of both sides. This is the role of differences between customs and psychological structures among nations.

　　
Marriage is nothing more than attracting and complying with the same direction, while exotic sentiment is undoubtedly a great temptation and challenge. Conventional marriage and marriage are gradually bridged by contrast and new relationships are gradually established, while foreign love is always stimulated and collided because of the different situations.

　　
Deviation after contrast stimulation

　　
The psychological structure of a nation is related to customs and society. The social customs are related to the natural environment and the customs. Time and space not only cause physical distance, but also have a long history and deep subconscious values behind the local conditions. Physical distance is closely related to psychological distance. Therefore, the same people and the same information and technology have deep and long gaps in their psychology and habits.

　　
High expectations for foreign lovers or psychological impediment caused by inferiority can lead to frustration in love and marriage. On the other hand, equal love is the most attractive. True psychological equality is the most reliable and lasting charm of love.

　　
In the international city of Shanghai, "exotic love" has long been known. Traditional love is based on marriage. However, there are great differences between love and marriage. The difference between foreign love and marriage is especially obvious. Love pays more attention to the feeling of spirit and sex, and that state is very self and very * * * * * *. In love, one can ignore all discordant factors, but magnify the advantages of both sides, and regard scars as flowers.