A Mother Is More Defeated Than A Child.

It is impossible for a man to do anything if he can not bear it.

The idea of fully appreciating, not beating, not scolding, and disciplining children is actually the wrong way of saying, "loving mother is more defeated."

One taxi stopped at the middle of the bridge. A young man got off the train without saying a word. He jumped over the rail and jumped into the river.

Then a young woman followed.

A quarrelling little couple left, leaving the old couple and a child who did not grow up.

Two, a man stabbed someone with a knife. The reason why he was told at the police station was that when he was young, the man bullied him.

Lens three. A school forbids boys to wear long hair. A boy cuts two times and fails to get it. Third times he cries and cuts his hair. Then he goes to the river to kill himself.

Four, a girl who voluntarily lent her own money to a student who lost money is suspected of being stolen by her. She jumped upstairs and died to prove innocence.

How can people nowadays be so impulsive and so fragile? So we have a problem: the volume of human beings!

As the saying goes: the prime minister can support a boat in his belly; he has a large number of adults; he has great fortune.

Let's talk about Clinton. Who is Clinton? The president of the United States.

Who is the president of the United States? It is the focus of attention all over the world.

After the exposure of the zipper door event, the flash lights all over the world face him everyday.

Every bit of talk is not a few days, not a dozen days, but nearly a year. People with a slightly weaker nerve have collapsed. Think of ordinary people, do something bad, see neighbors, colleagues and acquaintances dare not raise their heads, where can withstand such tremendous pressure?

If Clinton committed suicide for this reason, then he would freeze to be a loser and a cowardly president. If he was mentioned in the future, he would be linked to the zipper door.

But he survived. He is still one of the most popular presidents, and the so-called zipper event is just a small episode in his political career.

Big men really have the ability to endure more than ordinary people.

It is impossible for a man to do anything if he can not bear it.

If all of the modern people are so fragile, Gou Jian has been suspended in the morning, and Han Xin has jumped the river early.

Character determines destiny.

A man of great quantity is also a great success; a small minded person is bound by trivial matters, so it is difficult to achieve great success.

The couple quarrelled.

The man said, "the old man sends a piece of mind. Whatever you send, you should grin and laugh."

After a while, I heard the woman crying. "My mother didn't yell at me from a young age. Why are you so cruel to me?"

Oh, the problem is, "your mother didn't yell at you."

Your mother spoil you like a princess, so you are accustomed to everything in the sense of self centred, ignoring the feelings of others, but now living as a wife, but still living in the princess's fairy tales.

It's time to wake up!

The better the living conditions and the more care they receive, the more self and vain the people become, the more fastidious and narrower they are.

There was a little girl who bought it every time.

The new toys will go to the neighbor's house and ask each other, "do I have beautiful clothes? Do you have it?" "I have new toys, do you have it?" if others say no, she will be very happy; if others say, "I have, ah, beautiful than yours, haven't you seen my toy?"

The little girl ran home immediately, crying and quarrelling to buy it. The parents said, "baby, don't cry, don't cry, let's go and buy a bigger, better and prettier one, okay?" so the little girl smiled through tears! - see? Vanity and weakness are so formed!

The ancients said: "painstakingly painstakingly, struggling with their muscles and bones, and messing up what they have done, therefore, it is beneficial to have patience."

It means that his inner pain makes his bones tired, so that what he does can not be easily fulfilled. Through the grinding of this adversity, his character is strengthened and his talent is not increased.

Now parents are just the opposite.

They treat their children: pleasing their minds, only for their children to be happy; they are comfortable with their bones, for fear that their children will be tired; and that everything is done according to their wishes, so that their children are spoiled and spoiled.

So it's no surprise that there are all kinds of impulsive actions.

A middle school student said in the post bar: "if they don't buy me an Apple phone, I'm bored. I'll jump down the building!"

Staring at this sentence, I pondered for a long time: originally, the child knew that he was your favorite, he is your weakness, your life gate, the most effective holding is to destroy your most precious things.

Originally, jumping building is

One way, the most lasting and lasting way to hurt them.

When the deceased is suffering from pain for a while, there is no end to this life.

Because I have been satisfied with my requirements, this time, you must also meet my requirements.

Others have always regarded me as a treasure. Why do you want me to be a grass?

Why do you hurt me when others keep boasting about me?

This is the psychological inertia! When inertia reaches a certain level, it turns to bend.

In the long run, we can not adapt to the contrast of adversity.

Can children be punished? Long term punishment will affect children's mental health and personality growth.

Here is a key word: "long term".

That is, years of criticism, criticism and abuse can lead to psychological distortion.

Occasional punishment is not only necessary but also essential.

A foreign educational research institution recently published an article: too much praise for children has negative effects. So we must not go to extremes.

Ten of seven or eight encouragement, ten of two or three punishment, is most conducive to shaping children's healthy personality.

From time to time to let the child be stingy, a little bit of a twist, in fact, is a kind of psychological setbacks.

As the old saying goes, "if you get angry, you will become somebody."

Some parents, because

After a bad temper, I still confess: Alas, I am not calm enough. I should not hold on to it next time.

Some parents said, "I can't bear internal injuries!"

Why bother? You should give your temper a little bit, as long as you don't overdo it.

In this way, parents will not feel sick, and children will know the seriousness of the problem.

After losing temper, he made clear the truth in time, and then did something happy. All of the things vanished, and the children were tempered.

The idea of fully appreciating, not beating, not scolding, and disciplining children is actually the wrong way of saying, "loving mother is more defeated."