Fatal Mistakes That You Must Never Make In Your Career.

Many people have just entered the society, do not really realize the existence of the crisis, or the current work is relatively stable, although do not know what the future looks like, but at least the current work can support their families, at least to ensure that there is no problem of survival.

They do not know what they should be like after five years, nor will they go deep into it, because it is very tiring.

At least the present job can make the year very stable. As for the next year, they haven't considered it at all.

They always feel that young people should enjoy their time, so that they will not fail to live up to their good times.

Even if there are problems now, they always say, "don't worry now, let's talk about problems later.

Once encountered such a case: a 35 year old man, 12 years of work, wife, children, the only thing is stable work.

In the past 12 years, an average of less than a year has changed jobs.

Now that the age is big, the family's responsibility is also big, wants to find the work to stabilize for a long time, but discovered is very difficult.

I asked him why he didn't think about it earlier. He said, at that time, he was young and ignorant. Now he realized it, but he found it difficult and deeply regretted that he had not made any plans before.

Are you still aware of your career growth path? Are you aware of your career growth path? Do you have a goal that you can at least fight for 5 years? Do you know why you grow up a year later? Why do you grow up after five years? Do you know how to achieve your goals? What is more fatal is whether you still hold the mentality of "later on"? After reading this passage, are you responding to immediate action or repeating the present state? If all the problems are waiting for "later on", then I'm sure that within 5 years, you will encounter problems that can't be solved again! Do you have problems now? Are you wasting your youth in confusion and confusion? Compared with a year ago, your year has improved.

Some people will learn from others' experiences and lessons in an open mind, for fear that they may go wrong. Others say that they should make mistakes in person and encounter setbacks in person.

These people seem strong on the surface, willing to discipline themselves and grow up in difficulties, but in fact they subconsciously avoid the mistakes they are experiencing and are making, and are unwilling to admit and change the reality from their bones.

This kind of person is stubborn and self opinionated. He is willing to act arbitrarily and can not listen to others' opinions.

It is true that through difficulties and setbacks, one can grow.

But not all difficulties and setbacks should be experienced.

If you can avoid it in advance, why do you have to try it in person? No coffin does not shed tears.

And when you see the coffin, it will be useless to drop more tears.

For young people, "trial and error" is actually the most stupid.

Even if you think you are young, you still have a chance, but in fact, time is not as much as you imagine.

Take Beijing as an example.

If you graduate from college at 23, plan to buy a house at 30.

The house is not very good, but in Beijing, at least 1 million.

This is the most conservative estimate in the case of soaring housing prices.

Down payment 200 thousand, decoration 20 thousand, home appliances 20 thousand, marriage 30 thousand, other reserve funds 30 thousand, which will need 300 thousand total.

If you get an annual salary of 100 thousand, excluding rent, living expenses, telephone charges, entertainment and so on, and deposit 70 thousand a year, you will need at least 4 years.

But for the newcomers, without 3 years of experience accumulation, it is impossible to get 100 thousand of the monthly salary.

In this way, even if you don't take a detour, from graduation to marriage, you will have to run like a tight spring, which will not allow you to have time to do nothing or walk around.

And if you take a slight deviation and take a 1 or 2 year detour (for many people, this is normal), then for you, once you buy a house, you will fall into the brink of bankruptcy.

Many people think of it when they really can't see hope.

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Like the example listed in the first error above.

But what I want to tell you is that career planning is not a life-saving straw when you are cornered.

Because the core of successful career planning is to help you find your career orientation and build your core competitiveness in this direction to ensure that you can grow smoothly in this direction.

These two points are indispensable.

If it is only to find a direction without considering the possibility of realizing the direction in real work, such planning is of no significance.

To ensure the possibility of career orientation, we must consider the influence of external objective factors.

The pressure of family, the gap of age, the imbalance of mind caused by the unsatisfactory work.

And so on, will affect the best implementation effect of career planning.

Just like a doctor sees a doctor, if you are already ill, there is no way for a wise doctor to return.

For students at school, they should establish direction before the third year, and then build their own knowledge system with the rest of their time. After graduation, they can find a suitable job for themselves.

In three years, we must establish our own direction, though we have to pay losses and costs, but we still have the possibility of turning to success.

If work is unstable within three years or even longer, career planning will be much more difficult at this time, not only because you have to shoulder bigger losses and to pay higher opportunity costs, but also the biggest obstacle to your career growth because of the serious mental imbalance caused by unstable work.

Take the average two years' roundabout road as an example. Two years later, changing careers and starting a line with others means that your previous work is basically a waste.

If you earn 2500 per month, you will lose 60 thousand of the direct material loss in two years, at least 60-120 times the amount of your career planning input. If you make career planning early, you will invest the most, that is, your 1-2 week salary.

You lose at the same time, there is two years of growth opportunities, this time will never be able to make up for it.

At the same time, your mindset will become very negative, unable to actively face the new work, this loss is also incalculable.

More importantly, once you get used to confusion or get used to job hopping, this loss will expand to more than 200 times of career planning input.

Many people who have worked for many years but still have no direction come to us for consultation. After assessing their overall situation, if I feel that there is really nothing I can do to give them their due help, I will say to them, "I am sorry, we can not solve your problem."

Although there are not many such thorny problems, we should take the warning as early as possible. We must make early plans, and never wait for a desperate solution to solve the problem.

At that time, you might be in a desperate position.