Mentality Conscience Attitude Destiny

Why are some people more successful than others, earning more money, having good jobs, good interpersonal relationships, healthy bodies, and happily living a high quality life all day? It seems that their lives are better than others.

While many people are busy working, they can only earn their living.

In fact, there is not much difference between people.

But why do many people succeed and overcome all difficulties and make contributions?

Many psychologists have discovered that the secret is human's "state of mind".

A philosopher said, "your attitude is your real master."

A great man said, "either you control your life, or your life controls you."

Your mentality determines who is riding and who is a jockey.

About 40 years ago, two people lived in a poor village in Fujian.

Unable to withstand the poverty of the environment, they decided to leave their hometown and seek development overseas.

The elder brother seemed lucky. He was sold to the rich San Francisco by slavery, and his brother was sold to Philippines, poorer than China.

40 years later, the two brothers were lucky enough to get together.

They are no longer what they are today.

As an elder brother, he became a San Francisco overseas leader. He had two restaurants, two laundries and a grocery store, and his grandchildren were full of people, some of them inherited their duties, and some became outstanding engineers or computer engineers.

What about the younger brother?

It turned out to be a world-renowned banker, with considerable forests, rubber plantations and banks in Southeast Asia.

After decades of hard work, they succeeded.

But why is there so much difference in the achievements of the two brothers?

The brothers and sisters gathered together to talk about their experiences.

My brother said, since we Chinese have no special talent in the white society, we only use one pair of hands to cook for the white people to wash clothes for them.

In short, all the Chinese people do not want to do the work that the white people will do. Life is no problem, but they dare not expect it.

For example, my children and grandchildren, though reading a lot, do not dare to think about it. Only peace and security take part in some middle level technical work to make a living.

As for the white society to enter the upper strata, it is hard to believe.

When he saw his brother being so successful, he was envious of his brother's happiness.

The younger brother said, lucky is not.

When I first came to Philippines, I did some humble work, but I found that some of the local people were stupid and lazy. So they gave up the business they gave up, and gradually continued to buy and expand, and business grew larger.

The above stories are true stories, reflecting the history of the struggle of overseas Chinese.

It tells us that it is not just the environment that affects our lives; it controls our actions and thoughts.

At the same time, mentality also determines your vision, career and achievements.

There are two elderly women who are 70 years old. One thinks that at this age is the end of life, so they begin to take care of their affairs. Another thinks that what a person can do is not the size of his age but what he thinks.

So, at the age of 70, she began to learn mountaineering, several of which are still famous in the world.

Recently, he climbed to Mt Fuji, Japan, at the age of 95, breaking the highest record of climbing the mountain.

She is the famous old lady Huda Cruz.

It is a miracle that the 70 year old began to learn mountaineering.

But miracles are created by people.

The first sign of a successful person is his way of thinking.

If a person is a positive thinker, he can achieve positive thinking, like to accept challenges and deal with trouble.

Huda Cruz's great deeds are proving this.

Whether or not a person can succeed depends on his attitude.

The difference between successful people and losers is that successful people always dominate and control their lives with the most positive thinking, the most optimistic spirit and the most brilliant experience.

Losers are just the opposite. Their lives are dominated by all kinds of failures and doubts in the past.

Some people like to say that their current situation is caused by others.

These people often say that their ideas can not be changed.

However, our situation is not caused by the surrounding environment.

In the final analysis, how to look at life and grasp life is up to us.