A Pioneering Story Of A Cerebral Palsy

You can imagine a situation where a good university graduate with two degrees will send out more than 200 resumes and attend dozens of interviews, but eventually nothing will happen.

What kind of feeling will this job seekers feel and what kind of actions will they make?

Such an experience took place in the hero He Zhixiong.

He Zhixiong, a small child suffering from cerebellar hemiplegia, has great difficulties in life and learning.

If there were no mother's help, it would take him at least 10 minutes to wear the shirt.

You probably didn't expect such a cerebral palsy to go to university and graduate from a double degree University.

But because of such a disability, he encountered great difficulties when he applied for a job.

He Zhixiong: when I was applying for a job fair, people were crowded. I felt that you didn't move forward. Others were pushing you.

To see a company, I want to achieve professional counterparts, I will apply for an electronic company.

The man looked at me, looked at my resume, and then said, "your company is not needed.

Why do I say so?

He said you could not even speak clearly, so we could not accept it.

Do you think that as an enterprise, do you need people like you to work for the company?

He Zhixiong seemed to have been hit by a blow. He was deeply aware that he was different from others.

He Zhixiong: I argued with him. I said that the teachers and classmates had a good impression on me. In school, I was a very sunny person. They handled the relationship with them very well. When I had many help to others, I was still very capable.

Coupled with my efforts and my positive attitude, I can do everything I can to do my best.

Then he said, that's all.

He handed me my resume, and later I saw this, and there were many people around, so he took my resume back.

And then say, then you wait for me to tell you, with a poker face and an indifferent attitude.

At that time, I really wanted to cry.

Everything is in expectation.

But He Zhixiong was not discouraged, carrying two certificates of bachelor's degree and a large number of award certificates. He continued his job search.

Again and again in the online resume, run again and again, but three months later, but no result.

For half a year, He Zhixiong threw out more than 200 resumes and ran countless times, countless times in vain, countless times politely or impolitely refusing him, causing him to be physically and mentally exhausted.

He Zhixiong said that when he applied for a job, he often encountered such a situation: when asked other applicants, the recruiters would ask some very important and professional questions, but when they came to him, they would only ask him how he studied before.

Do you need family members to take care of them? No one cares about his professional ability.

However, these recruiters' doubts can also be understood. So many healthy college students haven't arrived yet. Who wants to have a person who can't even take care of themselves?

We also want to know this point.

Then, how did he get to university and insist on finishing his studies in the condition of He Zhixiong?

He Zhixiong was born shortly after he was born. He was found to have congenital cerebellar hemiplegia accompanied by poliomyelitis.

Doctors had no hope for such a child, but a strong mother grew up with her son day after day, and began studying as a normal child.

He Zhixiong: I am not only slow to write, but also slow in my legs and feet. At half past seven in the morning, we study at half past seven.

And I spend two or three hours on the road every day, walking around every day, and then I have a time to read Crazy English every day while walking.

When He Zhixiong was in junior high school, his father died of a sudden heart attack.

In order to keep him studying, the unemployed mother had worked hard and worked hard.

The hardships of life have made He Zhixiong particularly sensible and his strong and independent personality.

In this insistence and effort, He Zhixiong read high school.

When the college entrance examination was completed, He Zhixiong failed to complete all the examination contents within the prescribed time.

But he did not give up. Two years later, in the upgraded examination, he was admitted to Wuhan University of Science and Engineering in the name of the whole school.

Yan Danniang, a teacher of Wuhan University of Science and Engineering, said: this student studied very hard and showed a strong willpower. He really showed more intelligence than ordinary students. His thinking was very clear and his speech was very organized. Although he was slow, he was slow because he didn't want to slow down. It was his illness that caused him to slow down. At the same time, his thinking expression was very clear and his thought was very deep.

Li Dejun, Wuhan University of Science and Engineering teacher: he worked with me in the graduation project. At that time, he arranged a question for him to cooperate with another student. This problem has a higher demand for hands-on ability. From our teacher, he has always treated him as a very ordinary student. He also did not consider his disability or anything to lighten his burden.

He Zhixiong's efforts have won the respect and trust of his teachers and classmates, and his care has made him gradually become cheerful and confident.

In the school, He Zhixiong took an active part in various social activities and technology competitions. He also spent second hours in his spare time: information management and information engineering. The bright future seemed to beckon to him.

But at the critical moment of his job search, all his efforts were vanished.

In the twinkling of an eye, He Zhixiong has been graduated for over a month and still has not found a job.

In order to help him find a job to earn a living, his mother also actively seeks acquaintance, hoping to have a unit to accept her son.

He said to me, "my acquaintance told me that people are now making contributions to the enterprise. Your child has no experience and is not good at hand and foot. People will not want it."

He Zhixiong was deeply stabbed by several words, which were buried in the bottom of his heart.

In primary school, he was always the last student to finish class work in the class, which made him feel inferior.

He Zhixiong: at four o'clock p.m., the students went away after school. The teacher waited for me in the office alone for me. I made it to half past six o'clock. It was almost time for dinner. When I handed my homework to the teacher, the teacher said to me, alas, I have to work overtime every day for you. I have to wait for you. Why do you hurt yourself so much?

He Zhixiong's mental state has always been very sensitive to his defects.

It was not until efforts were made to admit everyone's ability that He Zhixiong managed to get rid of that sensitive and fragile state of mind.

However, job hunting has repeatedly run into a wall, but his courage and self-confidence have been disintegrated.

When He Zhixiong almost lost all confidence, he suddenly had a chance to work: there was an Internet cafe recruitment manager.

Although the monthly salary is only 500 yuan, and he takes 12 hours of night shift every day, he is still very happy.

He Zhixiong took great efforts in dealing with hard won jobs.

But only four days later, he lost his job.

He Zhixiong: later, on the fourth day, I realized that I was constantly picking up garbage, and my computer knowledge and computer skills had no chance to display. I saw those computers, just kept tidying up trash for those who surfed the Internet, their leftover bags, drinking bottles and smoking cigarettes. I realized that I was a cleaner, and I felt that if I did it again, it would be disrespectful to me for so many years of education.

I don't think we should go on like this.

He Zhixiong took the initiative and resigned. After returning home, he did not continue to complain and despair. Instead, he had new ideas.

He Zhixiong: I later went back to think, I said maybe my body, coupled with my education, there may be no other stage set up for me to show, no company will want me, I think, others do not want me, I can not give up.

I can't be an employee. I want to be a boss.

He Zhixiong was very interested in computers when he was in college. Many teachers and classmates asked him to help repair computers. He decided to use this specialty to open his own shop.

If you have no capital, borrow it from your mother.

I feel that I still have a fixed job and a fixed income. I feel better.

I feel that there is a guarantee for him.

He Zhixiong: I am worried that no matter how much I invest, if I float my money in the water, there will be nothing in return. What should I do?

It was another blow for him, she said to the people around him.

Finally, the mother decided to support her son's shop.

Holding 1000 yuan from her mother's support, He Zhixiong rented a house in the community, specializing in computer maintenance. The shop name is called "creative thinking".

He Zhixiong: I think others can create miracles. Why can't I?

I can't find a job today. It's okay to run around. I don't want to give up. I can't give up. I have to be a miracle worker.

I think, my computer company, the name must have the meaning of creation. Later, I think again, my body is disabled, but my mind is not disabled, even I want to be a very valuable person, a very thoughtful person.

I think the fundamental difference between people is thought, not your appearance, not your name, nor your appearance. It is your thinking that determines the nature and nature of your person.

[pager used to play with computers just after He Zhixiong's hobby. Now he has to rely on this skill to eat. He still has a little bit of drums in his heart.

He Zhixiong is opening up his business while improving his skills.

On the second day of the business, He Zhixiong ushered in his pile up business: a neighbor asked him to help reinstall the system.

Although he has found the general price of the system installed on the Internet is 40 yuan, but how embarrassed to open mouth, only received 20 yuan.

He Zhixiong: when I felt that I was respected by others, I felt as if I could earn 20 yuan in more than two hours. I feel great. I don't think money is so hard as I imagined.

But it's not as easy as He Zhixiong to imagine being a boss.

For two months, the customers were poor.

He Zhixiong's heart dropped to the freezing point before the excitement was over.

At this time, He Zhixiong has always had another regret: after all, computer maintenance and his major are out of line, and many professional knowledge is useless.

With such pity, what will he do if he looks at a shop half dead?

For two months, there has been no customer coming to He Zhixiong's shop.

Is this to be abandoned?

In a hurry, he bought a bunch of books about business and stayed at home every day.

This is a way of seeing things. He thinks his own shop is in the community, and few people know about it except the neighbors.

So he decided to advertise his small company.

He didn't have enough money to do the advertising. He used his brains to find a newspaper distribution station nearby.

He Zhixiong: because they asked me to subscribe to a newspaper, I said they could make a newspaper. You have to do me a favor. I printed some leaflets, and you helped me to put them in the newspaper.

With the mentality of trying to see, He Zhixiong printed 2000 publicity materials and did not expect it to work.

That night, a customer called to find him.

Many of the customers are worried about the trouble of repairing and moving computers. He Zhixiong has started on-site service.

Because his service attitude is good and his technology is good, his shop has gradually gained word of mouth, and his business is getting better and better. He often stays busy until midnight.

He Zhixiong said that the customer was reassured by him that there was another reason for his lack of sincerity, that is, he was physically handicapped, so he wouldn't mind staying at home until late.

He proudly said that he turned his weakness into advantage.

Because of the busy shop, he recruited several part-time employees, all of whom were college students.

For He Zhixiong, repairing computers is not an easy job.

But to be able to feed himself, he can get the recognition of his clients and make him feel that life is valuable.

Now, He Zhixiong needs to constantly deal with customers and constantly strengthen his management ability. He increasingly feels that university's knowledge reserves and structure are a kind of wealth.