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Traditional Office Encounter

2009/4/10 16:13:00 42000

In the summer of July, some office workers began to break free from the hot weather and follow the trend.

Women took the lead in liberating the body of the previous package, the suspenders,

The Mini Skirt

The hot pants and the perspective dress were all put on the stage, while the men liberated the language and all kinds of personal belongings. At the same time, the joke of "meat piece" and "flirting" began to appear, and the exposed beauty diagram unconsciously climbed up their computer screensavers.

In the face of various "exposures", traditional office culture is challenged and exposed.

The eight parties' opinions are beginning to diverge.

盛夏時(shí)節(jié)，裸露爆棚

Unlike in previous years, this year's heat in Guangzhou was somewhat tardy and several times round. The air temperature finally settled on 30 degrees in July. Yang Siyuan, who was engaged in the design industry, was somewhat confused and absent-minded in his office recently. The reason was embarrassed, not because of the hot weather and hard work, but because of the colorful and hot clothes of several female colleagues in the office, which made him love and hate.

"One summer, they all changed their ways.

Clothing

Exposure, the past two years' belly dress, to this year's hot pants, they never pull down, once into the office, feeling is a word - the wave of meat!

Yang Siyuan shrugged his shoulders and said with some reluctantly.

Yang Siyuan was somewhat in a dilemma. Girls exposed their bare limbs and fragrance, and could not distract themselves. But if they always looked up, they would appear "disrespectful". Instead, they would be looked down upon by their female colleagues.

"It's hard to be a man."

Yang Siyuan complained in some frantic way.

Yang Siyuan's female colleague, Xiao Q, is a native Guangzhou born 80 after beautiful MM, complained to male colleagues also many: "I actually do not like summer, the boys are all malicious eyes, often do not speak separately Huang Duanzi, hate death!"

Little Q loves to wear suspenders in summer. There are more than 20 suspenders in her wardrobe. "Girls wear like this in summer. Most of us are naked on the part. They are very exposed to their minds and souls. They don't know much exposure of beautiful pictures in their computers."

Little Q said quickly.

For a while, in the office, because of the "exposure" problem, there was a strong smell of gunpowder between men and women.

心理：過(guò)分“暴露”需審視內(nèi)心

"If a person is too fond of exposure,

clothes

If clothes are not exposed, then she should wake up her inner world.

Shang Dongmei, a senior psychological consultant, cautioned.

Behind the clothing that exposes exposures, often hide the need to be attracted, need to be concerned about the psychological, and such psychological, often because of their extreme self-confidence and frustration.

Women who are too fond of exposure are often unaware of the "boundaries" between people. They are full of insecurity and lack of confidence. They are eager to divide the boundaries, prove their differences and make up for their inner anxieties. They choose clothes that are bold to expose and follow the trend.

clothing clashing

"Abhorrence.

"When the love of beauty has entered the blind pursuit of the misunderstandings of the exposure, often the mentality has shifted. At this time, although the surface is full of confidence and dressed boldly, the person is often very fragile, easily angered, and his emotions become extremely unstable."

Shang Dongmei concluded.

Men who are exposed to extreme speech acts often cause psychological depression due to their monotonous work or life, or stress and hard work. "Words and deeds are exposed to ease their emotions and achieve psychological balance."

In addition, if the daily sexual psychology or needs are not released, men as "visual animals" will often choose nude women's screen savers and verbal exposure.

"These are all marginal sexual behaviors that can satisfy their psychological needs and release their inner energy."

Shang Dongmei said.

挺“露”派：我選擇，我喜歡

Of the 30 white-collar workers surveyed in the survey, 26% thought that as adults, whether they choose to expose clothes or expose some jokes with colleagues, they are all motivated by personality choices.

People who are very "exposed" believe that in some industries, such as advertising design, media, clothing, jewelry, hairstyle design, art, etc., their professional characteristics are relatively free and loose, so the personalities of practitioners are relatively open and bold. Therefore, exposure is a way to expose them. This is a personal choice, as long as one likes it.

Exposure is a kind of

fashion

Attitude

Yin Yan, 32, magazine editor.

"Our studio has no special rules for wearing. On the contrary, the boss thinks that the style of dress will directly reflect the openness and activity of the person. She will encourage everyone even in meetings. Magazines need to be sexier, so we must be sexy first.

Therefore, colleagues wearing some perspective, sling or mini skirt are normal.

As for exposure to language such as Huang Duanzi, it is not a problem for us. Even in our magazine, there are both sexes in the magazine.

Let the exposure be more violent.

Zhao Jinnan 29 years old IT industry

"On behalf of all our fellow men here, I would like to say something: because office beauties are too few and not hot enough, so work has attracted much less attraction to us.

I believe that if our female colleagues are more exposed and beautiful, our enthusiasm for work and unity and hospitality for our female colleagues will be more than just a little bit! "

倒“露”派：關(guān)乎形象，茲事體大

About 30% of the respondents expressed their opposition. They believed that the workplace was a serious job, and individuals should have some convergence in their preferences so as to match professional identity and appearance and create professional image.

They pointed out that in some posts, such as civil servants, teachers, public relations, and receptionist, their dress and behavior are mainly conservative and appropriate. No matter what kind of exposure they are, they are taboo.

穿錯(cuò)衫說(shuō)錯(cuò)話，后果很嚴(yán)重

Hao Jianv, 25 years old civil servant

"In our government organs, the unit has some specific provisions: formal occasions to dress, not more than two pairs of earrings, more than three rings, male comrades can not leave long hair, beard; female comrades can not wear short skirts to work, not heavy make-up.

So, basically, all my colleagues are wearing conservative clothes.

When I graduated from University for the first time to report to the Department, I accidentally wore a sling skirt. The result not only attracted a lot of strict eyes of my predecessors, but also led me to learn discipline on the spot, which is really embarrassing.

Usually in our office, the level is very clear, everyone speaks language, expression is also very cautious, even jokes are rarely opened, speech exposure is even more unlikely.

辦公室與暴露無(wú)緣

Yan Zhou Kai Nan, 29 year old Airlines

"Our company has tooling. From Monday to Thursday, men and women both wear tooling, which is a violation of a fine of 500 yuan.

Friday is a casual day, but men can not wear shorts, and women can not wear clothes with bare shoulders.

Usually people seldom gossip in offices, so the exposure of speech acts basically does not exist.

中立派：不出格即合理

In the survey, 44% of the respondents expressed neutrality. They believed that the existence was reasonable and the nature of different jobs had different requirements for dressing and words and deeds, and there was no absolute rationality or irrationality.

Conservative, cautious words and deeds are job needs and professional habits. In different areas of the workplace, they are encouraged and needed to dress boldly and freely.

They believe that no matter exposure is not exposed, as long as they do not harm social order and do not affect other people's emotions, they will be reasonable.

百花齊放才是美

Zhao River Mountain male 36 years old private enterprise owner

"My personal acceptance of clothing is very wide, but if I want to divide the work together and work normally, I hope you can't dress up too casual or exaggerated, such as miniskirt or perspective dress.

But when the company is having a big party or going out for a holiday, I hope that the female colleagues will be more interested in it. Male colleagues will laugh at some jokes or meat phrases at this time, and they can also play a role in eliminating the estrangement.

People are diverse, and immutable is unreasonable. "

健康：暴露還需量力而為

Every summer, Su Peiqiang, a bone surgeon of the Second Affiliated Hospital of Zhongshan University in Guangzhou, will receive a large number of cervical spondylosis and arthritis patients, most of whom are beautiful female white-collar workers.

"These fashionable female white-collar workers are mostly slim, with long neck and love to wear sling and high-heeled shoes. Shoulder and neck are exposed to air-conditioned environment for a long time. Muscles and joints are particularly vulnerable to strain."

Dr. Su introduced.

When Su Peiqiang studied and studied in Hongkong early, she began to pay attention to the health protection of female office workers.

"In Hongkong, in order to control" Hong Kong foot "