Personal External Image

Whether in public or private gatherings, as long as you interact with people, you are dressed and talked and behaved. It can be said that the quality of a person's external image is directly related to the success and failure of his social activities.

(1) solve the problem of "focus" in image.

Clothes and meters first came into the eyes of people, especially when they first met, because the two sides did not understand that clothes and meters occupied a large part of people's mind.

That is the most basic requirement for dressing. As long as it is suitable for its body shape, beautiful and innovative clothes, it should be bold to wear. The personality of clothing can also make people judge your aesthetic and personality characteristics. Fashion styles are out of date. People will think that you are stereotyped and too advanced. They will make people feel indiscreet and stubborn. These two situations all make people draw the conclusion that "this person is not easy to approach", which naturally affects the image in social interaction.

(2) magnify your speech and behavior.

Speech and behavior is the embodiment of a person's mental outlook. He should be cheerful and enthusiastic, and make people feel easy-going, approachable and easy to contact.

Many people are worried about the lack of outstanding conversation in social interaction to attract everyone's attention, so as to cause mental stress, and make facial expressions and movements become very rigid. This is due to the strong self-esteem. Therefore, we should relax and maintain our own characteristics rather than deliberately affectation. Some people are swagger and imposing when they are "appearing". When they shake hands with others, they should be forceful as a forceps, and they will stare at each other when they talk with others. Such gestures not only make others feel uncomfortable, but also feel uncomfortable about yourself. The best way is to keep your original personality and character.

You should have a sense of humor in speaking. In social life, people who talk humorously usually win. People who do not have a sense of humor often fail in social life. In communicative occasions, humorous language is easy to open up communication quickly and make the atmosphere relaxed, active and harmonious. When there are embarrassing disagreements, humor and humor can become a buffer in tense situations, so that friends and colleagues can extricate themselves from embarrassment or eliminate hostility. In addition, humor and humor are also used to implicitly reject the request of the other party or conduct a kind criticism in good faith. In peacetime, we should accumulate some interesting humorous stories.

(3) full display of gender beauty

Men must not be too narrow minded and jealous. They should not be fussy about each other. The sex beauty of a man is a kind of rough beauty and connotation beauty. A real man should have character, angularity, strength, and masculinity, and those little twisted little cream students are hard to accept by most people. The image of female beauty has always been demure, gentle and sweet. The feminine appearance is delicate and beautiful, the lines are soft, and the pulse and warmth emanating from the speech and manner are strong and moving. In communication, if women can use their gender characteristics skillfully, showing humility and kindness, warmth and gentleness, they can always arouse the love and protection desire of men. The social strength of women's natural softness is sometimes much greater than that of "strong".

Smart women always consciously highlight their gender image. If the former British Prime Minister, Mrs. Thatcher, has the reputation of "Iron Lady", the political arena is a good housewife, but she is still a good housewife at home, making breakfast for her family, painting her walls for her daughter, and being considerate and considerate to her husband.

(4) give full play to the charm of "No. two smile".

When dancers perform relaxed and cheerful dances on stage, they should keep "two smiles". The so-called "two smile" is "smile not to show your teeth", no voice, let a person feel a smile on his face, keep "two smile", make people feel relaxed and happy.

On social occasions, a gentle smile can attract others' attention, but also make yourself and others feel lighthearted.