How To Deal With Boring Topics?

How can you eat this kind of food?

The other person asks this sentence, usually when you are eating something in your mouth, you can chew your food slowly and swallow it, then answer him.

A. "very easy, you see, that's how to eat."

(at the same time, you can have another demonstration).

B. said seriously, "I think so many people in Africa are starving, and I have an appetite."

C. told him a reason not to be known to others: "because it can cure a cold!"

I am not disturbing you.

A. "I don't know. You can tell me what you are doing before I decide."

"Sorry, I didn't notice."

B. you can't bear to be fed up with him. You can say it more seriously: "you didn't ask before. Why do you ask today?"

C. "not yet."

After answering, you continue to speak to another person, whether he walks away or asks you, you have won.

I heard that you were divorced?

Such people are too concerned about other's private affairs.

If you are a good friend, you should have known your actual situation.

Since he is "heard", you can not see that you have never told him, of course, do not want people to know the meaning of this matter.

A. said to him, "I heard about that too."

B. asked him, "really?

When?

He must not be able to answer.

C. when it was a business, he said seriously, "Oh, you have to ask my legal adviser. He knows the most."

Why didn't your husband come with you?

In social situations, people who hear irrelevant people or especially nosy people ask questions about this sentence, and you will feel tired of answering them.

The other side may not be malicious, depending on his attitude and tone, he can make the following different answers.

A. didn't bother to say, "he didn't tell me."

B. or naughty: "the family is full of banknotes, and someone must take care of it."

"On weekends and Sunday, he dared not go out."

C. has a slight edge: "he finds it boring to make such an occasion, and decides to save some effort."

"You look ugly. What's wrong?"

People who say such words often do not worry too much about your feelings, nor are there many elements of concern.

Whether we have concerns or not, we always do not like to hear irrelevant people say "ugly face" or something like that.

A. when this is a joke, you can listen to your headache, lumbago and leg pain.

B. said with a heavy voice, "XXX passed away."

You can use the name of a dead person.

C. asked him, "what do you say?"

D. pretended to be kind enough to tell him the truth: "I have a problem: it's always the same every year."

E. pretended to be careless and said, "people are so bored that their faces don't look good."

Have you considered the consequences?

No matter what the consequences may be, you need not consider it. It's all your own business. There's someone in the world who cares about others. If you want to accept his "good intentions," the initiative lies with you.

A. suddenly said, "yes!

It seems that one thing has been forgotten. It turned out to be the consequence.

I really want to remind you. "

B. said seriously, "your brain is turning fast. You help me think about it."

C. said pretending, "Allah will consider it for me."

D. has the necessary step by step: "no, that's the next question."

"It's boring."

Do you work more important than us?

This kind of speech makes a lot of trouble.

Needless to say, duty is where you have to go to work. This is the foundation of your life.

A. when it's a question: "yes, this question is very interesting. I have to go to the computer to answer it."

B. since he has decided that you can't answer it for a moment, he can shirk his responsibility: "our boss certainly thinks that work is more important."

C. measures the value of both: "of course, it's important for us both, but how can we live without going to work?"

D. ironically said, "we are together, of course, business.

I work to relieve boredom and boredom.

"It's better not to work, but it's a sad day."

How do you feel?

Why don't you keep silent? "

You do not speak because he has been talking all the time. Whenever we encounter such a person in any situation, we can at least not listen to what he says. Silence is golden.

However, he was unwilling to be lonely, and he wanted to test whether you were listening to his talk.

A. "My Mandarin is not very good."

(it's best to speak in Mandarin).

B. asked him, "guess what?"

C. wrote his question: "what do you want me to see?"

Do you want me to tell you? "

D. has some sarcasm: "I will tell you, but let me think it over."

"I want you to snatch everything I want to say."

"You beautiful girl, why don't you have a boyfriend?"

In general, there are only two kinds of people asking this word: first, the speech does not go through the brain; the other is driven by curiosity.

A. came to a broken pot and broke: "can't marry out."

B. poses a problem for the other side: "some men say beautiful women are a curse."

Do you not understand this?

C. "why do you ask my mother why I am so beautiful?"

D. intentionally shows "secret": "do you want to know?

I don't understand the weird thing. "

I know you are angry.

Usually, the other side will say something that makes you unhappy.

His attitude may belong to any of the following:

First, he expressed his good intentions; second, by this sentence, I hope you deny that he is no longer in a state of conscience when he is angry, and third, if he is interested in making fun of you, whether he is angry or not, he aims to tease you if you are really angry, he will gloat over it.

A. encouraged him to talk again and see if he could continue: "don't get to the point, I'm glad to hear it."

"You say, I am angry is another matter."

B. "everyone is angry, but I'm not sure if I'm angry now."

C. "you needn't feel embarrassed."

D. "I didn't blame you."

E. "do you know how to get angry?"

Are you in love with XX?

If a friend doesn't ask this question, he is generally fond of gossiping.

A. replied, "I don't understand. Can you help me ask XX?"

"You keep looking."

"Guess?

Are we going to fall in love? "

B. is ambiguous: "I said yes, do you believe it?"

C. is right: "do you have anything to do with it?"

D. is humorous: "are you jealous?

I don't want to explain. "

"You say you like me, who knows if you are sincere?"

A. firmly and unassailable tone: "believe it or not is your right, like without reason."

B. moved away from the topic: "I don't understand why you have no confidence in me.

Am I wrong?

C. shaman: "how much sincerity do you want?

I'll give it to you. "

"My mouth is stupid, I can't express it. Can you teach me?"