Is The Most Difficult Thing In The World? Know Yourself

　　 Friend Once asked me what is the most difficult thing in the world. I said it was the most difficult to earn money. He shook his head, Goldbach guessed. He shook his head again. I say I give up, you tell me. He said mysteriously that he knew you. Indeed, the philosophers of the mind also say so.

The question is who I am, where I come from, and where to go. From ancient Greece, people began to ask themselves questions, but none of them came to satisfactory results.

However, even so, people never stop right. self Pursuit.

Because of this, people often lose themselves in the middle of themselves. They are very easy to be hinted by the information around them, and take others' words and deeds as reference for their actions.

In fact, people are influenced and hinted by others all the time in their lives. For example, in Bus You will find such a phenomenon: a man yawned with a big mouth, and several people around him could not help yawning. Those who do not yawn are because they are not very suggestive. Which people are strongly suggestive? They can be checked out by a simple test.

Let a person extend his hands horizontally, palm up and close his eyes. Tell him now that he has a hydrogen balloon on his left hand, and keeps floating up. He has a big stone tied down on his right hand, falling down. Three minutes later, to see the difference between his hands, the greater the distance, the stronger the suggestive. Knowing oneself is called self perception in psychology. It is the process of knowing oneself. In this process, people are more likely to be hinted from the outside information, thus appearing the deviation of self perception.

In daily life, people can not reflect on themselves at all times, nor can they always place themselves in the position of outsiders to observe themselves. Because of this, individuals know themselves by outside information. When a person is aware of himself, he is easily influenced by external information, so he often can not perceive himself correctly.

Psychological research reveals that it is easy for people to believe that a general and general personality description is especially suitable for him. Even though this description is very empty, he still thinks he reflects his personality. Once a psychologist used a general, almost applicable to anyone, let college students judge whether they are suitable for themselves. As a result, the majority of college students think that this paragraph portrays itself meticulously and accurately. The following passage is used by psychologists. Do you think it is suitable for you? You really need someone else to like and respect you. You have a tendency to self criticism. You have many abilities that can make you superior, but you also have some shortcomings, but you can usually overcome them. It is difficult for you to associate with the opposite sex. Though you look calm, you are anxious. You sometimes doubt your decision or what you do is right. You like some changes in your life and hate being restricted. You are proud of your ability to think independently, and if others do not have sufficient evidence, you will not accept it. You think it is unwise to expose yourself too openly in front of others. You are sometimes outgoing, kind, sociable, and sometimes introverted, cautious and silent. Some of your ambitions are often unrealistic.

This is actually a hat suitable for everyone.

A famous miscellaneous technician named Schaumann Barnum said when he evaluated his performance, he was very popular because the program contained elements that everyone liked, so he made every minute "deceived". People often think that a general and general personality description reveals their own characteristics very accurately. This tendency is called "the banner effect" in psychology. A psychologist completed a Minnesota polyphasic personality Checklist (MMPI) for a group of people, and produced two results to allow participants to decide which one was their own result. In fact, one is the result of the participants themselves, and the other is the average answer of the majority. Participants thought that the latter expressed their personality characteristics more accurately.

The banner effect is very common in life. For fortune telling, many people have consulted fortune teller and think that fortune tellers are "right". In fact, those who seek help from fortune telling themselves are characterized by hints. When people's mood is low and frustrated, they lose control of life, so their sense of security is also affected. A person who lacks sense of security is also much more dependent on psychology, and is much more suggestive than usual. Moreover, fortune tellers are good at figuring people's inner feelings, and can understand the feelings of the help people slightly.