Travel Outside &Nbsp; Control Your World.

In the journey, the so-called "will be outside, the fate of the emperor is not."

But when you come back from business, you find that in a few days, the office may have changed suddenly. Your customers are being picked up by others. The hard work you have negotiated is signed by others. There are also some unexpected personnel changes and your gossip.

The new situation makes you feel confused and overwhelmed. All the signs start with your business trip. It seems that you were in the "blind spot" when you broke up with your office.

Although it may help to recover the consequences, a rainy day may help you a lot.

Even if you don't win the battle, at least you will have a good start and a good ending because of your prior arrangement and planning.

First, bring more lubricants to colleagues in the office.

Business travel after a long period of preparation is rare. Most travel tasks are "urgent". From accepting tasks to sorting materials and packing, the process is short and hurried. It is like the beginning of a masquerade.

The "invitation" in your hand only indicates the time, place and wearing requirements. The details of the operation require you to make bold ideas, careful foreshadowing and careful layout in the preliminary work.

Xu Yan, 34, a Senior Salesperson in charge of logistics development of a multinational company, calls herself "flying Peter" every week because she runs around the Dahua North District where she is responsible. Her most cordial home testimony is the green palm of the capital airport terminal.

"My goal is to tap as many potential market sources as possible and to distribute our distribution points in full swing. I have devoted all my efforts to this, and my perseverance is also very popular with my boss.

But in the past half a year, I have encountered many obstacles. The colleagues in the Department are both members of the whole team, and there is regional competition. Of course, I can understand, but some contradictions and conflicts directly affect the boss's recognition of my work, so as to Yu Bo's relationship with my client, I really want to refuse any business trip and stay in the company.

Anyone who meets Xu Yan's troubles must be very "wishful thinking" and work hard, but she will be left behind. It is no wonder that she suffers from "travel phobia", but "marking defense" is not the best policy in modern workplace, but also contrary to her career development direction.

Later, intelligent Xu Yan found the solution to the problem, that is, before the business trip, do the corresponding preparatory work:

1, communicate with the boss in time, understand the purpose of the trip, listen to further suggestions from the higher authorities, and ask if anyone familiar with her in the local area can recommend, so that she can ask for help when needed.

2, find a colleague who has better relationship. Please contact her when you are away on business, and keep you informed of the latest developments.

3. Hand over your work to your temporary colleagues and leave your detailed contact. When you arrive at a business trip, be sure to inform your resident phone and itinerary in time.

4, active and less frequent "long-distance friend" to greet, mobilize the unique charm of women, increase the affinity effect, to add weight to success.

Before stepping back on the road, it is suggested that careful women choose some appropriate souvenirs to be sent to colleagues in the office. They should also pay close attention to their feelings. If they bring some special and delicate gifts to those who have taken care of you, good friendship will come true.

Everyone has such an experience. When you break away from the original environment for a period of time and then come back, it seems that you have replaced the fresh air in your body and go back to the office. You can't help but be excited. When you look at your face and talk, you must not exaggerate, show off, exaggerate your achievements, and bury the enviable shadows for your return.

You may as well mention the hardships of your business trip, and at the same time greeting your colleagues, you can quickly understand the big things that are happening in your absence.

You know, the vast majority of gossip is accurate. From gossip, analyze and summarize what are good for you and which are the minefields you should avoid.

Two, let the boss know your situation.

Although the schedules are full and spare time, you still need to bear in mind that regardless of business negotiations, promotion activities, training courses or other business areas, the success or failure of all independent work is closely related to whether you are conscientious or conscientious.

Is there really no time to keep in touch with the "family"? In fact, the more busy and tense, the more need for "family" to understand your situation.

If you are leader, convenient communication means you can confidently plan your strategy and control your company operation anytime and anywhere. If you are the backbone of the company, believe your boss is also confident that you are competent enough for all the heavy responsibilities when considering expatriates, but you will also put yourself in a difficult environment to protect yourself.

It is very necessary to inform the supervisor in time that you have arrived safely and entered the work procedure. During the short notice, you not only have the initiative to speak, but also know about the company's various situations during your business trip.

How far away from home and communication with the boss is as face-to-face? You Yali, a consultant who often travels, has a lot of experience.

"Call, fax, send e-mail, ask your boss for some data problems, not a naive question. Let him feel that you are sending out a generals instead of a wrong.

But you can't go all in to the details of your achievements. Otherwise, there will be no new report on your return, and the boss will think you are happy.

If you don't do well in your own way, you will give people a good deal of advice. Therefore, the degree of contact must be properly handled.

Three, build close friendships with colleagues.

People with strong abilities often like to be independent, but many large case must cooperate with their colleagues. Sometimes, traveling with colleagues is unavoidable and sometimes there will be some trouble.

Yang Mei, a newspaper reporter who interviewed the domestic news, often took part in the mission of the press corps. She complained privately: "when you are in a foreign country, your heart needs comfort and warmth. The distance between your colleagues who are not familiar with you and your distance is suddenly brought to an unlimited distance. You completely lose your personal space. Everyone's strengths and weaknesses can not be hidden."

At the end of the task, everyone went back to the same time.

Back to the unit, some privacy that I do not want to reveal also spread like wildfire. The original personal image of maintenance has been damaged. Now it has been a long time, but it is hard to find traces. I am like a dustman, who is always worrying about where to rub and where to wipe it.

There are still a lot of "peach storm" coming from business.

For example, when a male superior chooses a smart and capable person to travel together, a normal thing often comes out of hidden jealousy. When you are unknowingly on the edge of the vortex, you are swallowed up by office rumours.

Practice has proved that friendship in different places is usually longer. If you want to find a good friend on a business trip instead of setting up an enemy, let's see how well your peace keeping operation has been done.

1, you can take a more positive view of traveling colleagues.

At ordinary times, everyone is busy in the company, and this is the time to support each other and help each other in the same boat.

When you get along with each other, if you care more about your work and life, you will feel that you are a good coworker and a good boss when you are in a different place. You can always tell your heart and even your opinions on your work at this time. Is this not a good opportunity for you to improve your work? Maybe it is a question you never realized before.

2, as for the "peach trouble" which is still hidden, it is often counterproductive to hide and evasive. In fact, the men and women who travel together are just walking together because of their work needs. They are not afraid of the shadow.

The most direct way to deal with rumours and unwarranted speculation is to make more jokes and laugh at yourself, to satisfy the bad curiosity.

If there is no temptation in the journey, what will be involved in it? If there is anyone who has the ability to understand the truth of being unable to recover the water, it will be tempted to taste the bitter fruit of unwisdom.

Four, resist emotional vacuum and control yourself.

More and more career women are carrying simple bags to shuttle between different cities and countries. In the daytime, they are a smart professional woman. In the evening, apart from their proper entertainment, they should consider the next day's action and plan the next working process. There is really a sense of helplessness that "a thousand pressures can get together". At this time, the harder the inside armor is, the softer it is.

Being able to live in a foreign land and unable to release their feelings of density, no one's cheering loneliness is likely to cause a very traditional woman in the bone to behave in Kaminobu Mayu, which is the reason why one night stands easily.

Resisting emotional vacuum is not something that can be solved by one or two great principles.

It's easy to control the world, and it's hard to control your own heart.

Many people who rely on the "interest shifting method" to help them to get involved in the voyage of Yue Xin have summed up the effective ways:

1, finding friends and chatting with old classmates is a good way to relieve stress and gain spiritual comfort.

2, go shopping, feel the exotic scenery, be intoxicated with a "material woman", and enjoy the full load.

3, if you want to stay in the room quietly at the moment and get tired of those discs and videos pmitted by satellite, you might as well sit in a soft bed, call your beloved husband in your home, send a love email, let the feminine flowers bloom at this moment, soothe the two sleepless hearts, and also be the best way to control the family and husband.

More and more career women no longer regard business as an unshirkable "torture". They find that frequent business trips can actually broaden their horizons, extend their abilities, expand their business and make friends with many useful foreign friends.

Walking along the way, we can see more fresh insights, and accumulate life experiences. This is the benefits brought by business trips.

Temporarily lost contact with familiar environment, as long as you follow the appropriate rules of the game, you can manage your world with ease.