Strategy: How To Stay Away From Workplace Trouble?

First, encounter "

Such performance: everyone has privacy.

In everyone's heart, there is a territory that does not want to be violated.

But some people are out of ignorance, or out of curiosity, or out of...

Every time I meet you, I ask you "age geometry", "how much income", "how does a husband and wife feel"?

Such people, though sharp and toothless, do not know the key points of conversation.

Generally speaking, a person who respects others will not ask if he knows that something is someone else's privacy.

Conversely, knowing that it is someone else's privacy, the person who wants to ask is a person who does not know how to respect others.

They may spread right and wrong. They may be short and long.

Unique skill: it is not necessary to ask people who are interested in privacy.

People who encounter privacy can not say one thing, two says two.

The best way to treat the person who is an agent is to answer the question.

If he asks you, "who is the background of your promotion," then you say "trust your blessing".

If he asks you how much the bonus is, then you say "no more than others".

If he asks you how to pursue your girlfriend, you say, "if you are interested, I will tell you later."

In short, the questions are not answered but they are not answered.

In this way, it will neither offend nor make the other side succeed.

Two, encounter "

This kind of expression: people are not equal to nine times in their lives.

Some people who are pessimistic about future and those who talk with me tend to regard their misfortunes, worries and worries as the theme of conversation.

They were constantly complaining about the bitter water, and they kept sighing and sighing, so that they could not hear or listen.

If we analyze the disappointments of those who sigh or sigh, we will know that these things are very ordinary and not so miserable. But those who sigh and sigh are very serious about their circumstances.

Unique skill: inject vitality into those who sigh and sigh.

To communicate with such people, we must inject vitality into them.

In the hearts of those who sighed, they did not think they were weak or ambitious. Instead, they strongly hoped others would have great talent and unusual level.

To communicate with them, we should properly recognize his expertise, praise his achievements and inject vitality into it.

In this way, they will be very close to you and will be very grateful to you.

Three, encounter "Taoist right or wrong"...

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This kind of expression: "the right and wrong is the wrong person."

Do not assume that a friend who tells you other people is your friend.

Taoist right and wrong, since in front of you to talk about the disadvantages of others, naturally in front of others, say you are bad.

They are willing to say yes or no, because they are too jealous. They often feel that they are getting worse and worse.

Wise men will not talk to such people.

Unique skill: we must hum and haunt the Taoist right and wrong.

The way to stay away from this kind of person is to react coldly to any topic he says, so that he can know "wrong" and retire.

Don't offend this kind of person.

Others are right and wrong, but they can not agree with him.

It's a good idea to communicate with each other, hum and haha.

Because "hum" and "ha" are vague languages, which will make the Taoist and non right people feel your maturity and make him feel that the topic can no longer communicate with each other, thereby stopping the conversation or making the conversation develop in a healthy direction.

Under certain circumstances, it can be said that "hum ha" is a kind of worldly knowledge that can not be scorned.

Four, encounter "chatter"...

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This kind of expression: people talk with people, people often hate that kind of long talk and tell you endless people.

Some people speak a lot but they do not speak well.

They will talk about the whole morning in one breath, and they will talk about it all over the world at all times in the morning.

They can not only talk about astronomy and geography, but also talk about men and women.

They were very expressive and expressive.

They are endless and never tired.

Trick: ask the chatter questions skillfully.

If you encounter a chatter, you don't hurt your partner's feelings, and let the other person talk less.

One is to ask some questions according to his topic, such as "what is the fuel molecular formula of a missile?" "how many men and how many women are there in the book" Water Margin "? Let him not know how to answer.

In this way, he can say a few words, and you can say a few more words.

The two is to ask some questions that are not related to the current topic. For example, "excuse me, what time is it now?" "your glasses are nice. Do you have a comfortable feeling?" and so on, so that the other party will be a little shocked and stop, so that you can spare time to do something useful.

Five. Encounter "preach".

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Such performance: some people like to teach others "inculcate".

In his ten sentences, you can find seven or eight words such as "you should", "you must" and "you can't".

Such people tend to be self righteous and condescending.

In his eyes, people are ignorant children, but he is a learned professor.

It makes people feel stupid and think it is ostentatious.

The preacher is boring, but it is good for you.

First, you can learn useful sermons; two, listening to true feelings will make him feel very happy, which is beneficial to enhancing friendship.

Trick: to preach to preaches is more important than listening.

Therefore, communication with them is more important than listening.

As long as you do not have anything urgent to do, you might as well take heart and listen to it.

Repeat one or two sentences in a timely manner or ask one or two questions on a question.

I believe this practice will bring you great benefits.

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Six, encounter "self show"...

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This kind of performance: some people see others, a mouth is my good affinity, one export is I can bear big.

Obviously, oneself is "1", it is said to be "2".

The listener felt blushed, but he did not feel ashamed.

Self flaunting is both a self abasement and a conceited one.

This kind of person is often forced to work hard, and the purpose of his "boasting" is only to arouse everyone's attention to him, so as to satisfy his vanity.

This kind of bragging gives people a kind of clever words and a sense of luxury.

The right way to communicate with them is to answer with humorous and witty words.

He said "2" on his lips, but he thought he was "1". He could not be sure of his big words. He affirmed that he would think you were an untrustworthy person, and you could not refute his remark, refuting that he would think you were an unapproachable person.

Unique skill: humor and humor for self show.

The right way is to answer humor, specious, vague, laughing and laughing, haha.

Seven, encounter "destroy people's ambition"...

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Such performance: some people are sharp and pungent.

The words from his mouth are like cold water in a basin. Regardless of whether or not you accept it, they pour hard on your head.

That drive must not extinguish your confidence.

This kind of person is often a failure, a total loss of ideas, and you look at nothing good, not like others, or a self determined person who can not do it and others can not do it, is often a good speaker, but "the son is upright, the shadow is hanging," and the people around him are respectful and far away.

To talk with him and to go all the way will make him worse.

Unique skill: to destroy people's ambition, we must attack its pain.

A proper method is to seize the opportunity to attack his pain. His stupidity, incompetence, laughability, or his current loopholes in words, improper words and logical errors make him unhappy, so that he can push himself forward and understand his current erroneous actions and control his mouth.

Eight, encounter "noisy and aggressive"...

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Such performance: when you are in high spirits, you may come in with a stick or an ulterior motive, and pick up your nose, and instantly make a good conversation atmosphere full of gunpowder.

These people think that they are superior to others. They grow up with you, do nothing, and do nothing. They themselves live on the incarnation of truth. No matter whether the problem is the big watermelon or the small sesame, he will defend the truth with the vow of death.

Once a person has prejudices against you, he will be opposite to you everywhere.

In such a situation, it is easy for you to get into a swirling debate.

The trick is to tell the truth to the noisy and aggressive.

If you want to rush out of the vortex, you must exert your strength.

This is a strong way to make every word that you have become a truer and simple truth, so that the other party can not attack you.

It won't take long before the other person will take the initiative to "retire".

Nine, encounter "full of falsehood".

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Such performance: in society, some people tell lies as if a good actor is acting on stage without feeling guilty.

Most of them do not have a very large and clear purpose.

The reason why a mouthful is full of lies may be to disguise himself, to slander himself or to beautify himself, or to feel that your ability to distinguish is very poor, so that he can talk and talk nonsense.

Communicating with such people is harmful to you.

Telling a lie ten times may make you feel that way.

Unique skill: one should correct one's falsehood.

To communicate with them, we should understand the strategy and tactics of "attacking one point and collapsing the whole line". We should seize one of the falsehood and fully raise our objection.

In this way, he would feel ashamed, and the arrogant spirit would fall immediately.

Such a way of attack will neither hurt its pride nor correct its lie.

Ten, encounter "vulgar"...

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This kind of expression: some people in order to give others a good impression, so that their words filled with flowery words, using some professional terms, appear to be affectation, flashy; some people are rude and indecent, nonsense, and Gro, monotonous, a sentence can be repeated ten times, a matter can ask nine times; some people speak without waves, no ups and downs, no flicker appearance, no attractive topic, make you tired, these are vulgar performance.

Most of them are narrowly knowledge-based and socially weak. They often laugh at others in their own life experiences and feel a sense of inferiority in their hearts.

They are eager to improve their knowledge and social skills.

Unique skill: proper advice should be given to those who are vulgar and unbearable.

Communicate with the vulgar people and make proper advice.

Give one or two correct sentences and matters to satisfy their needs, but not too much advice, so as not to hurt their pride and touch their inferiority complex.

Of course, there are more than ten kinds of boring guests. The above exchange methods can not be simply copied.

But one thing is certain that one's speech will make you feel bad again, and you should try to maintain your good communication image.

Remember, if you can accommodate everyone, you are a superman.