The Minds Of Successful People

Success is the right you are born with.

Success is not a competition, nor is it an insurmountable mountain.

Of course, you have to work for it.

Even you have to develop some new habits for this purpose.

But personal growth, the natural process of creating success, is by no means an unbearable hard labor.

There is a very interesting phenomenon. If you ask anyone who has a successful and happy life, "how do you feel about developing your new abilities and achieving your best?" they tend to think about it a little bit, and then smile and tell you, "that feeling is wonderful! I can't imagine living in other ways."

I know this is true.

In my 20 years of life development work, I find it hard to work hard for success.

You can record your wishes every day -- the behavior characteristics of people who you want to be, through this way to "cultivate their own qualities" and depict the picture of future development.

And the more clear the image of the person you want to be, the more likely you are to live the kind of life you want.

This method may be one of the most profound training you will be engaged in.

Emerson once said, "desire is seeking the possibility of expression."

Your qualities are shown through your real desires.

Once you have portrayed the quality of the person you want to be, you can shift your focus to the areas you should pay attention to today, so as to realize your dream of tomorrow.

In order to grow up, you need to be like a tree, stretching the roots (in order to feel more, get more nutrition), and continue to bear fruit (with a fruitful life).

Thought Cookbook: the engine of your growth

The desire to stretch my roots and bear fruit is a tool I invented. I have been using it for 20 years.

I call it an idea cookbook, which influences your thoughts through your actions, and enriches your behavior through your thoughts.

Just like diet therapy can nourish your body.

I believe everyone should take up a job of supporting themselves.

Once you feed others, you have two jobs of the same goal: parents and children want children to become independent and free adults in the future.

I told my son a few years ago, "I am the same as your request.

I hope you can do anything you want, but you don't have to.

He said, "great, I like that!"

"Now I tell you how to achieve our goal," I told him.

"You develop the habit of learning habits and interpersonal habits.

To achieve this goal, when you cultivate habits of success, you can make a "thought cookbook card" to guide your growth.

This idea diet is to help you become the kind of person you want to be, and achieve your goal.

As long as you start cultivating the qualities of ideal people, you naturally begin to get what you want.

Read your mind cookbook card every morning and evening.

The idea diet card has three important parts.

The first part is your basic goal at present - a brief description of what is very meaningful to you at the moment.

The second part sets down the quality that you are developing - 5 kinds of qualities that you most want to cultivate, and have them, so that you can become the kind of people you want to be.

The third part is the action and action taken at least every day. Through this action, you can overcome inertia and start growing.

These are not merely the goals you should achieve, but the detailed list of behaviors that enable you to develop desired qualities.

One side of your card is target and quality.

The other side is the behavior that should be taken at least every day.

On the side of action, list 8 categories: mentality, body, spirit, emotion, friends, family, career and economy.

Next, next to each item, list the actions that should be taken to make progress in this area.

Be realistic: don't be too strict with yourself, or indulge yourself.

Not fail every day

I know that if I develop the qualities I have chosen, I will start to become the kind of person I want to be and achieve my goals.