Girls' Communicative Art

In daily life, there is such a phenomenon.

A girl has a lively personality and a warm and generous nature. She often laughs, chatting, going to the ballroom and playing outside with men.

In the face of these, she was so perplexed that she was innocent, pure and kind. I had no intention of finding the object, nor did I show any love to them. Why did it happen? Yes, how could the words and deeds of girls be misunderstood by a few men? What should she do? This is the problem of making friends.

First of all, dare to face reality, to show off.

Don't avoid those men.

From a psychological point of view, most people have strong rebellious psychology. The more they can't get, the more they feel the smell. The more they want to succeed, especially boys, the stronger they are.

In this regard, girls may wish to take the opportunity to openly and openly show their reasons or difficulties for their refusal, hope that they will understand and desire to be friendly.

Under such a confession, the crazy pursuers will feel repentant and will generally face the reality.

But when we talk, we should pay attention to the following points: stand firm and not say something paradoxical, such as "let me think about it again."

Be sincere and gentle and smile as much as possible.

Using your soft words and actions to express your resolution is better.

Second, we should stop and grasp the yardstick.

Friends, after all, are not lovers. They must have a sense of propriety in communicating with friends.

In normal interpersonal relationships, caring for others, helping each other, and being gentle and generous are the beautiful and gentle expressions of girls, but do not show too much intimacy (whether they are intentionally or unintentionally).

Such as sweet words, passionate eyes, extraordinary enthusiasm and so on.

On the other hand, we should make clear attitude towards men's intimacy and stop them in time.

This is flexible, rigid, tough and soft.

In work study, it is best to form a partner with one or two girls, talk to each other and take care of each other.

This does not give men the chance to take advantage of "Crazy". Do they dare to ask for trouble when others are present? This way, they express the meaning of "Gang" in the form of "softness".

In short, girls have different ways of making friends, and the law of hardness and softness is one of them.

When you are attacked by love and don't want to get involved in love too early, please use your "rigid" and "soft" flexibly, and use your soft heart, soft smile, soft language, and your "just" independent consciousness and timely "rigid" attitude to make your behavior "soft" with "rigid" and "rigid" in "soft". This way, it will not hurt your friendship with men, but also make friendship grow and make you more attractive.