Communication Psychology: "Interpersonal Bubble" Needs "Dehydration"

In view of the confusion of interpersonal bubble, experts in psychology and sociology suggest that we should appropriately and effectively carry out "interpersonal bubble". dehydration In order to get rid of the frustration and trouble of "interpersonal bubble" to a certain extent, we must reasonably plan the communication category.

Listening to a group of strangers, saying irrelevant words, drinking irrelevant wine, putting a drawer of business cards, but unable to remember the strange face... Like the "financial bubble" and "real estate bubble", this seemingly dilated and vacuous "interpersonal bubble" is starting to hit the workplace.

Many people know but few friends.

Ms. Jiang, the administrative manager of IT company, graduated from university 8 years ago. She has worked as a teacher, an employee and so on. In the past eight years, three jobs have been changed, and more and more people are known.

"The nature of work determines that I know new people almost every day," Jiang said. But in fact, most of these people are only facet or stay at work level. If there is something to be contacted, some people are actually strangers. Once she met with something urgent and needed help. She could hold several big business cards, but she could not think of anyone who could turn to him for help.

Meeting with strangers is a helpless communication.

Mr. Wang (senior media worker), whether in work or in life, Lao Wang is often invited to meet and exchange cards with each other. He can not remember how many cards he has received and sent out. He often listens to a group of strangers and talks irrelevant, drinking irrelevant wine. When Lao Wang took part in an activity, the host asked everyone to fill out three contacts in the "emergency contact" column except for their parents' spouse. Lao Wang filled in one place and then could not think of second or third.

Lao Wang said that he had a deep feeling about that. Now he is consciously "streamlining" his circle of communication, besides getting time and space. Quiet Besides, I want to get peace of mind.

Tired of entertainment, family members are often ignored.

Mr. Tan, the regional manager of electrical appliance company, said that after all these years, he thought he was most ashamed of his family and his parents. On one Lantern Festival, he bought a midnight lantern for his parents during his lunch break. But for an important entertainment, until ten o'clock in the evening, these lanterns still lie in the food box of the trunk of the car. Watching a box of slowly defrosting yuanxiao, my heart is not taste. Mr. Tan said that he knew that too many of these people were "bubbles" and had no great use for their work, but they could not refuse them.

Dehydration is necessary.

The "bubble" that appears to be inflated is empty, similar to the performance of a drama, which will make the workplace weary.

In view of the confusion of interpersonal bubble, experts in psychology and sociology suggest that we should properly and effectively dehydrate "interpersonal bubbles". reasonable In the field of planning communication, we can get rid of the frustration and trouble of "interpersonal bubble" to a certain extent. For example, by setting the business cards of office telephones, fax and public mailboxes as "basic editions", adding different versions of mobile phones and personal mailboxes as "upgraded editions" to meet and filter "interpersonal bubbles".