The Most Important Thing In Life Is Not Struggle, But Choice.

The thing we do most everyday is actually choice, so we are talking about it.

I always believe that in a very large scope, we will become what kind of people we are, and decide what we are going to be. We are making all kinds of choices every day. I can not write this article, go to other people's posts to clap the bricks, or write down these words, help others while also organize their own thinking. I can pay more attention to the format so that others can read easily or write a bunch. I can send it up like this, and I can look at it a few times before sending it. You can choose to go to the interview without shaving, and you can choose to look in the mirror before going out.

Every day, every moment we make decisions like this, we can be careless and we can spend more time thinking about it. The accumulation of thousands of small choices determines what kind of people we are ultimately.

In a sense, our future is not given by others, it is our own choice, many people will say I am bitter, no choice. If you think "go to Microsoft or go to IBM", "Shang Tsinghua" or "Peking University" "when the sales vice president or the director of the factory" is called choice, you do not have any choice, most people have no choice.

But every day, you can choose whether you are more considerate for your customers, whether you are more patient with your colleagues, whether you are doing more meticulous work, whether you understand the situation better or not, and whether you can clarify some unclear questions.

You can also choose whether to persist in your pain, whether to abandon your negative thoughts, whether to forgive a person's mistake, whether you believe what I write here, and whether you should not make the same mistake again.

Every day life gives you the opportunity to choose, every day to change your life opportunities, you can choose to fall on the ground, or you can choose to bite your teeth and stand up.

You always have a choice.

Some choices are not vertical and shadow. They need to be accumulated. For example, farmers can choose to irrigate their land frequently, or they can choose to let the heavens go to the fields. If you water them today, they will not grow out today, but they will often be watered. Most seedlings will eventually come out. If you do not irrigate, the harvest will be very bad.

Every day life gives you a chance. He will not give you a pile of cash or give you a good job, but in fact, he is still giving you the chance.

My family is an ordinary family without any great social relationship. My father was assigned to the border area after graduating from university. There was only one street in that small town. Their generation had more reason to complain than we did. They didn't get anything. When the young people did not read the cultural revolution, they supported the border to queue up and settled down, but when they got old, they had to give young people a chance.

He has every reason to sit there, like thousands of young people, to complain about being born out of time and complaining.

However, ten years after the assignment to the border area, the state returned to recruit graduate students, and he returned to his old school.

After graduating from graduate school, he was assigned to a small unit in Anhui. 3 years later, the first country enrolled a Ph.D. student. He returned to his former school and became the first generation of Chinese doctor. He was older than I am now.

Life did not give up on him, nor did he give up life.

10 years of waiting, he made his choice. He didn't give up. He didn't break the pot, so he changed his life when the time came.

You will decide what kind of person you are going to be, and decide between your small choices.

What do you choose to believe?

Who do you choose to make friends with?

What do you choose to do?

What do you choose to do?

We are faced with too many choices. In these choices, the choice of ideology is far more important than the choice of objective conditions. For example, choosing what products to make is not so important, and choosing what to do is important.

It doesn't matter who you choose to use, and how you choose to bring them is important.

Most of the time, it is not important to choose objective conditions. Most of the choice of objective conditions is not right or wrong. The most important thing is to choose what to do.

A university graduate, he wants to go to Microsoft, he wants to sell pork, he wants to start a business, he has to do a game of training, or as long as he does not violate the law, does not harm people, it has nothing to do with it. What matters is how to do well after choosing the future.

In addition to these, you can choose the time and environment. For example, you can choose to put the greatest difficulty in your life in the most energetic and energetic time. You can take a look at it one step at a time. When you are 40 years old, you will only be more than 40 years old. That is the most vulnerable time of your life.

I dare not say that you have choices for everything, but most of you have a choice, but you often do not regard it as a kind of thing.