What Wisdom Do You Need In Workplace Relationships?

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Workplace friendships, a factor that can easily be overlooked, can give career beauty a fulcrum at a critical time. Here are some of the key points to stabilize the fulcrum, and believe that these contents will make your relationship more vulnerable.

1, do not arbitrarily reveal personal privacy.

The personal secrets of a colleague are, of course, some hidden things that are hidden or not known to others. If a colleague can tell you his privacy information, it can only show that your colleagues are reliable enough for you, and your friendship must exceed others.

If at the same time you hear your personal secrets exposed in someone's mouth, don't say, she must think you betrayed her.

The betrayed coworkers will surely curse you in the heart, and regret for the friendship and trust you have paid before.

Therefore, do not arbitrarily disclose personal privacy and consolidate the basic requirements of professional friendship. If this is not done well, I am afraid no colleague will dare to confide in you.

2, don't let love get in the way.

Song Jia and Wang Hui are a good sisters without saying anything. The two people have been living in the same dorm since they worked. They have been working together and working together almost every day. By chance, Song Jia and Wang Hui have come into contact with a man who is superior and handsome in every aspect. They almost have a crush on this man at the same time. In order to be closer to a handsome man, Song Jia and Wang Hui suddenly become personal. They are no longer inseparable but acting alone. Later, two people have turned their back on their behalf, and their feelings have vanished for years.

Obviously, love has blocked the friendship between the two people. From the beginning of their love for the handsome man, they announced that their friendship for many years began to break.

Therefore, as a career woman, you'd better deal with your emotional life alone. Even before your love is mature, don't even drag your friends to a date.

Otherwise, love will become a stumbling block to friendship.

3, small talk should be kept at a distance.

It is a normal thing for colleagues to chat with each other during office hours, while many people, especially male colleagues, are most likely to show off their knowledge in front of their colleagues while chatting with others. At the same time, they send messages to other colleagues, that is, you are familiar with me, and I am familiar with them. I am familiar with those you do not know. Actually, those who pretended to know everything are only skin and fur.

As a female, if you want to satisfy your curiosity and desire to break the sand nest to ask questions, the other party will soon be filled, so the time for gossip is not too long.

This will not only sweep everyone's interest, but also embarrass the colleagues who like "God". I believe that when I chat later, my colleagues will avoid you consciously or unconsciously.

Therefore, I suggest that female friends, when chatting on any occasion, do not want to understand everything and ask questions to stop, so that colleagues will be happy to accept you.

4. Integrate into your colleagues' hobbies.

As the saying goes, "tastes are alike", only a common hobby and interest can bring people together.

Most of the colleagues in Xiaohong are male. During the short break time at lunch, colleagues often gather together to talk about the world. Unfortunately, Xiao Hong always feels unable to plug in.

Male colleagues prefer to talk about sports and stocks, but even if they do not understand the fashion trend, they will not interfere with their communication with their female colleagues.

But if you want to do well with these male colleagues, you must first force yourself to accept some of their interests and hobbies.

So Xiao Hong began to pay attention to sports news and news consciously every day. He met the right opportunity and even went to the ball with his male colleagues.

"Now that there is a common topic, it is much easier to get along with their male colleagues. Every time they chat with them, they will exchange their feelings in their work with them. The friendship between us has improved a lot," says Xiao Hong.

5, stay away from gossip.

"Why is XX always against me? This guy is really annoying!" and "XX always sticks with me. I don't know where I offended him!"

There are such short gossip in the office that flying short gossip is a soft knife in the workplace. It is a weapon that is destructive and destructive. It can act directly on the human mind, and it will make the injured person very tired.

If you are very keen on spreading rumors of discord, at least you can't expect other colleagues to listen enthusiastically.

Frequent gossip is a way of avoiding the fear of others.

If this is the case, I believe you will not be able to enjoy your life in this unit, because no colleague has taken you seriously.

6, do not confuse your boss with your boss.

If some of them like to flatter their superiors and compete with their superiors, they will surely cause other colleagues to dislike and affect their work feelings.

If you really need to curry favor with your superiors, you should try to invite many people to join together to curry favor with your superiors.

Instead of doing some shameful little moves in private, let your colleagues doubt your loyalty to the friendship, and even suspect that you have personality problems. When your colleagues get along with you again, you will be subconsciously beware of you, because they will worry about the usual complaints about their superiors, they will be sold by you, and you can climb up the leadership positions by offering information.

Once you are found to have betrayed your colleagues, the friendship between you is declared to be finished. Even other people who want to make friends with you are afraid to rely on you.

Therefore, it is one of the ways to ensure friendship between colleagues.

7, low-key handling of internal disputes

It is normal to have some minor contradictions with colleagues during the long time of work. However, in dealing with these contradictions, we should pay attention to methods and try to make the contradictions between you open to the public.

Office space is also a public place. Although there are some minor frictions between colleagues, there must be rational handling of friction events.

Don't show your arrogant appearance. You must make a break with your colleagues.

To put it another way, even if you are reasonable, your colleagues will be very respectful to you if you have to forgive yourself, and feel that you are a man who does not give room to colleagues and does not give others face. He will always be on guard against you in the future, so that you may lose the support of a large number of colleagues.

Besides, your colleagues will hate you and your career will be more than an enemy.

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8, do not lend money freely.

In the impression of colleagues, Wu Jing is a careless person. No matter it is a good colleague or a general colleague, she can freely borrow money from them. Sometimes, colleagues do not have money with them. Wu Jing will complain to her colleagues that they are not friendly enough. They feel that they are all colleagues, and that borrowing money is so difficult.

In particular, Wu Jing once did not return money to her colleagues as scheduled, and her colleagues immediately disliked her. He thought Wu Jing was too much to play with her as a colleague, and Wu Jing thought he could not repay the money on time. It was not her intention. She had some difficulties with her colleagues. Should she not lend her her hand? It was because of borrowing money casually and not paying back in time that Wu Jing soon lost her popularity among her colleagues.

Therefore, we must never lend money to others when we have to do so. Even if we borrow money, we must remember to return it in time.

9, complain and keep away from your mouth.

Many people, regardless of their working environment, are always angry and complaining. They always pour bitter water on everyone, though occasionally some bitter complaints can build up a little illusion of office friendships, but chattering Like Xiang Lin's wife will make the things around him miserable.

Perhaps you think of complaining and bitter water as a way of communicating sincerely with your colleagues, but excessive complaints and grumbling will make colleagues feel that since you are so dissatisfied with your current job, why don't you job hopping and find another job?

10, be proud when you are proud.

Often, when the boss does not announce the situation, he will go about in the office for four times to flaunt, or make a mysterious and intimate contact with his colleagues. Once the news is spread out, these people will surely envy their colleagues, hate them, and cause unnecessary trouble; of course, they should not publicize other than when they are complacent; even when they are frustrated, they can not tell other people about their superiors' faults in public, or even involve others in making the same mistake. How can they not be punished? If so, not only will the boss be tired of you, but your colleagues will be even more annoyed at you, and you will be better off in the future. Many people are praised or promoted when their work is successful.

Therefore, no matter when you are complacent or frustrated, don't overdo it. Otherwise, you can only bring obstacles to your work friendship.

People must have connections in rivers and lakes. Some popular expressions actually play a role in lubricating human relationships, and there is always a market for pleasant words.

In this era's office, interpersonal lubrication includes the following words:

Highlights of workplace interpersonal lubrication:

"Dear"

The term "ferromagnetic".

But using objects is not necessarily "ferromagnetic".

In the face of all the friends who have had friendship or even a single face, they can be used to indicate whether the other person takes you seriously or not.

The initial use of the word may be somewhat abrupt, but usually after two times, it can be assimilated to the other person and will not be talked about with you in the future.

You call him with such a close word, which means that you can't take him as the most intimate person from him.

"Handsome man" and "beautiful woman"

No matter whether this person meets for the first time or whether the appearance of the other person is in the wrong direction, remember that when you meet a handshake, you must use a stunning tone, admiration eyes and auxiliary word "Wow!" and call out one of the two words above, if added, "really..."

Ah, a few words better.

As long as you don't use the wrong gender, the effect is absolutely amazing.

Generally speaking, both men and women will make a smile with a shy smile. Immediately they will feel good about you, and the atmosphere of harmony will permeate from now on. What else can I talk about? Success index will rise.

"You are thinner again" = "you are getting better and better."

It has been thought that this language is only applicable to women, but it has been proved that men attach importance to their appearance.

So, "you are thin again" is absolutely comparable to "handsome" and "beautiful woman". Even the higher realm of vocabulary, the other party will definitely smile, pull your hand first, say you seem to lose weight and really succeed, then report to you the history of weight loss experience, so the topic is opened, so the two hearts are getting closer and closer.

Finally, I would like to say a few words: the above are all supplementary and even a bit of fun.

Really want to have a good pulse, or "old-fashioned" (that is old and earth) method better use: hard work, sincere help.