How To Improve Your Communication Quality In The Process Of Communication And Communication

Describe manners: be polite and polite.

Wen Zhibinbin, then gentleman.

A man can be a respectable civilization only if he is polite and polite from appearance to essence.

Civility and politeness include basic elements such as neat appearance, proper manners, civilized language, and polite manners.

In the process of interpersonal communication, only by forming a tacit agreement and harmony between respect and respect can communication be carried out smoothly and continuously.

Civility and politeness are the foundation of all interpersonal communication, and also make your communication more.

Basic requirements.

Taking an interview as an example, it is important to show your ability.

The details of appearance and manners are also not allowed to show their abilities, but the importance of talent is not negligible.

Be generous and decent; sit in your body and lean forward, not easily on the back of your chair; when you sit down, you should pay attention to your legs, otherwise you will be especially ugly when you wear skirts; avoid too much gestures when you wear your speech, so as not to leave people with a light and unruly impression; when you formally interview, you should stop eating, such as chewing gum or smoking; drinking water should not be spilled or accidentally sprinkled on the table or floor; even sneezing, before or after all, you should say sorry, and so on, which can be said to be polite and polite. It seems simple and trivial, but it is a manifestation of a person's culture and character at any time, anywhere, concise and profound. Such as wearing

Appearance, manners, civility and politeness is a self recommendation book of four sides, which will surely win the respect and favor of others.

If we don't pay attention to the habit of being polite and courteous, we will be self defeating by acting deliberately.

Language communication: permeating cultural atmosphere

Yu Qiuyu, a famous writer, talked about such an experience in "Taiwan speech collection": "an excellent middle-aged entrepreneur in Taipei invited me to dinner. He also invited several famous scholars and political leaders. I did not expect that the topic of" Flowing Clouds and flowing water "between the banquet and dinner finally turned to study. The feeling of entrepreneur was stirring, and the experience of reading" conqueror of the world "was mentioned.

All the guests present have a good sense of culture. Just a few questions and echoes, everyone's heart is connected at a very high level.

The protagonist of the conversation is an entrepreneur. He will not be too sour and pedantic.

Everyone felt this evening interesting when we left.

The second day also received the "conqueror of the world" sent by the entrepreneur.

Autumn rain sighed: "this city can be so elegant in the night of the cup and plate, I have been very impressed by Taiwan entrepreneurs."

The topic raised by a book made the meal full of cultural atmosphere and endless aftertaste.

Compared with those "deep feelings, a stuffy", "emotional iron, stomach bleeding" Lake eating sea to drink, autumn rain gentleman's meal undoubtedly eat civilization.

Elegant and tasteful.

Culture is permeated in our life and is loved by us. To activate the cultural precipitation in life or to have a strong cultural atmosphere in communication is indeed a good way to make your communication more tasteful.

Courtesy and communication: real feelings

To come and not to be impolite, courtesy and reciprocity are unavoidable things in interpersonal communication. What is the gift to send? This is a very thought-provoking question.

In our daily courtesy, there is a phenomenon of "raging but not killing". "Long" is a high standard and rich type. Killing is frugal and simple. Many people think that the greater the courtesy, the better the friends can be. The more we can explain the relationship, the less we know the excessive etiquette. As a means of expression, courtesy has become an intolerable burden.

The ancients have "thousand miles to send goose feather, etiquette and light feelings", the gift is just a form or carrier, the real gold content lies in whether it contains deep feelings and kindness, true feelings.

For example, when Armin was a college friend, Xiaowen had a child, and his friends and friends went to see it. The goose played a red envelope, some brought the baby's clothes, and some sent fruit milk powder.

Armin had some brains for giving gifts. She was a stranger. She knew that in October, though it was hard to conceive, it was not easy to be a good mother. So she bought a mother's flower and a new book, "finding mother" to Xiaowen, and sincerely wished her to be as beautiful as flowers and become a great mother.

This special gift is very happy for Xiaowen.

Since then, two people have met and exchanged experiences about motherhood, and often talked about that book. Both sides have benefited greatly from it.

Facing contradictions: keeping a sensible attitude

Because of the subjective or objective reasons, we often fall into the contradiction of communication. These contradictions are some problems that do not matter whether they are right or wrong. However, we can often avoid an elephant but hide from a fly. The reason is that we lose our cool head, lack of rational attitude, reckless impulse and impetuous in the face of contradictions. Instead, we not only resolve but intensify contradictions, and turn the little problems that are easy to solve into difficult and difficult problems, which plunge ourselves into a passive and embarrassing situation and bring many unhappy feelings to others.

Eisenhower's mother warned him: "those who can control their feelings are greater than those who can take a city."

This sentence is very enlightening for us to deal with the contradiction of communication.

As a famous philosopher in ancient Greece, Socrates, once, when he talked with his friends enthusiastically, his wife burst into a big row and splashed a basin of water on his head and drilled him like a drowned rat.

When the friend saw this scene, he could not help being shocked to see that there was going to be a fight.

Socrates, however, was not angry. Instead, he said humorously, "I had expected that after thunder, it would be a downpour."

My friends laughed and made the embarrassing scene alive. Socrates wife shrank out of shame.

A seemingly inescapable family fight is the key of Socrates facing the conflicting and embarrassing problems of the test, keeping a rational attitude and demeanor, adopting humor instead of tit for tat, and turning embarrassment into activity and passivity as the initiative.

If at that time, Su's impetuous impulse, he must fight with his wife for what is wrong. If you win or lose, then the conversation with friends will become a family farce, and the consequences are funny and ridiculous.

Hand in hand with others: enhance spiritual attraction

One of the important functions of our spiritual life is to put our spiritual life on the monotonous monotony of everyday things, giving ordinary life meaning, making it have a spiritual projection, a mild pcendence, an interesting sublimation, and a friend who wants to make friends. C puts forward a point of view. He says: "people will accept any kind of change, so long as it creates beauty, it will not matter how far away it is from the artistic outlook of the regular art appearance.

Beauty is a noble personal feeling and depends on the audience just like an artist. "

Those "divine bonds" that are often talked about are often beyond the limits of age, sex, region, belief and so on. They reach the point of life and death, and they are astonishing and trying to weep.

In fact, the so-called "divine friendship" is the spiritual intersection of spiritual Concord, mutual attraction and promotion.

When Roland Rolland was 23 years old, he met with Mason, 70, in Fort Lauren, Rome, and later in Mason's book, she gave a deep description of this "forget the years and friends" in her book: "you know, in the late years, the greatest satisfaction is to find in the mind of the youth the same as you do to the ideal, the higher goal, the contempt for the vulgar taste, the brave spirit shown in the struggle for personal freedom......

Thanks to the arrival of the young man, I have been able to communicate with him for the highest level in the past two years. Through this continuous stimulation, I have gained the youth of my mind and my strong interest in all good things... "

The spirit of communication can enhance interpersonal relationship to such a wonderful state. It is indeed worth people's admiration and devotion.