4 Manifestations Of Child'S Psychological Depression! Have You Noticed?

1, throw things and love beating people.

Xiao Ming, a 5 year old boy, is a headache. He always grabs children's toys in kindergartens; he can't win or lose when he plays games; otherwise he will play tricks; he will cry loudly when he wants something.

It begins to appear at around 2 to 3 years old, such as throwing things on the floor with indiscretion, or inexplicably pushing other children.

This is because children do not restrain themselves.

These behaviors of children, some parents feel funny and indulgent, but will solidify their aggressive behavior.

Reminder: parents should not be anxious to teach children. First, we should understand the whole story of the attack and the thoughts of the child, then find out where to start educating the children.

Avoid hitting children without indiscriminate white will only strengthen aggressive behavior.

For children who are only occasionally attacked, they should be given appropriate.

When children grow older and grow mentally, aggression will naturally disappear.

For children who often show aggressive behavior, parents can arrange simple and patient games to ensure that they have enough time to complete.

2, always unwilling to sleep.

A child does not want to sleep at night, listless all day, and often loses his temper for no reason.

The doctor found that he had no physical cause. He was told by a psychiatrist that he had been punished by his teacher when he saw that he had not written homework at school. This made him worry that the homework would not be finished and he would be punished by the same punishment, so he could not sleep.

Those who saw their classmates punished by the teacher might be punished, but the children could be frightened.

This is actually related to the different temperament types of children.

Some children are naturally melancholy, sensitive, emotionally susceptible and susceptible to traumatic events.

There are also children who have high demands for fairness and warmth. Once the teachers and parents have neglected them or are unfair to them, they will be hurt inside.

Therefore, parents must read their children's hearts and pay attention to their opinions on these problems.

Reminder: chat with children before bed, give them love and security, and give them the opportunity to speak their mind.

If you see something frightening, you can guide them to overcome their fears through some small stories, and let them see active and happy cartoons and books.

If there is a problem at school, parents should communicate with their teachers and reach a consensus with the teacher.

Give them some encouragement.

3. Tell a lie frequently.

Lying is a normal phenomenon in the process of children's psychological development.

In growing up, children find their behaviors attract parents' attention, and sometimes lie to attract parents' attention.

Adults often use white lies to deal with interpersonal relationships, but many parents do not pay attention to avoid children, they will be imitated.

Because some wishes can not be realized, such lies as brag and big talk are common in children's growth experience.

Reminding: parents should act according to circumstances and encourage children to tell the truth, which is very important for children's psychological development.

Parents also need to give their children enough support to tell them: "don't be afraid, tell your parents and tell the truth, share your problems and difficulties with us, and we will face everything with you."

With the support of parents, children will not choose to escape by telling lies.

In addition, parents should not easily relate lies to the quality of their children. They think that children do not learn well. These ideas will affect children's evaluation of themselves and position themselves as bad children.

4, school cry stomach pain

Some children complain of abdominal pain, dizziness, vomiting and syncope when they go to school.

This is the child's physical handicap.

In anxiety, people often present some physical symptoms, such as stomach ache, fever, diarrhea, sweating and so on.

This is not a manifestation of physical disability, but a manifestation of physical disability.

Other children have a lot of psychological pressure, which not only constrain their ability to develop, stifle creativity, but also reduce self-esteem and self-confidence, resulting in psychological imbalance and physical handicap.

Remind: parents need to take their children to the hospital first, eliminate organic diseases.

If there is no problem, it may be that the child is mentally ill.

Parents need to ask in detail so that their children feel that their parents can trust them, so as to find out the causes of their anxiety and find ways to solve them.

If parents find their children are too self reproach, they should promptly adjust their expectations and demands, and suspend all kinds of extreme and unreasonable "high standards and strict demands".

Parents should learn to affirm children through their evaluation of their efforts, fully affirming their hardships and progress.

For children in the process of development, the process is more important than the result.