Be Sure To Stay Away From Those Who Are Cold Hearted.

We often encounter such a kind of people in their lives. They are good at communication and passion, and have the ability to quickly integrate into the unknown environment. In a relatively unfamiliar occasion, they can also properly activate the atmosphere and alleviate embarrassment.

Such a person usually has a high EQ and comes from his own enthusiasm and good nature.

But there are also a group of people who are not usually close to you. They are just nodding acquaintances, or even strangers who are completely strangers in the last second, but they can open up their best friends to you at any time.

And unlike ordinary self acquaintance, their self maturity usually happens when they try, or even ill will.

Such people call them self ripe bitch.

01

Before the company's cashier, usually make-up is more dedicated than the son of chastity, nickname Sun Erniang.

It is said that she is a relative of a vice general of the company, and we have to go through her hand first because our travel expenses are reimbursed.

So usually in the company, meet the general workers below the position, she is a pair of owe you two million appearance (after all, now owe money is the grandfather uncle), in front of our new people, is dragged with two or five million.

Every time I go back to her, I have to constipate for three days.

But for a time, she suddenly became very enthusiastic. When she went to repay the accounts, she was very pleasant, but she also made fun of me from time to time.

At the beginning, I thought she was a big temper, but with the rapid rise of her enthusiasm, I began to panic. This TM picture is still money or money. She should not be able to see me, but if it's a graphic person, I can't give in so easily.

But this problem did not let me too long, one day when I went to the report, she suddenly called me, "Xiao Yin, I heard that your writing is good?"

Without waiting for me to be modest, she went on to say, "my daughter is going to take an exam in three months, and the composition is not good. If you have nothing to do, do you help?"

For a nine to five office worker, the importance of a double break is self-evident, and it is also a free compulsory counselling.

I gently refused: "sister sun, I am not good at the exam composition. You can help her find a tutor."

The subtext is obvious. I am very busy and I am going to pay for it.

But she turned a deaf ear to it and said, "no problem, you can do your best."

For such a shameless disregard, I had to categorically refuse, "sister sun, I have my own affairs on weekends, I'm sorry."

Finally, she received my expense account almost in a black face.

And since then, the money she owed me has surged from two million straight to twenty million.

However, for her, I am more money - free than I am.

02

When I was training in a certain industry, a friend of mine met a beautiful woman and told her family that she was very intimate.

After two days of training, the beauty also asked for leave of contact.

In the following days, the two men were closely connected, and they were playing with words and words.

When he met with a fortune teller in the Martyrs Park, he was surprised to catch him. He said that his peach blossoms were hidden in his eyes. At that time, in order to get away, he left a ten yuan and left.

Now I want to come, that money should not be taken out. This is no TM nonsense.

One day, the warm and beautiful belle spoke to him. This contrast made her friends wild with joy and quickly prepared several words.

Just when he thought it was time to come, the other side sent a line.

"Was your company built in the first half of the year?"

The brothers replied, "yes, and I am responsible."

The phone seemed very happy at the other end and said, "I have just received a similar project some time ago. Can you give me a reference?"

The brothers immediately became vigilant. "This is not very good. If there is any problem, I am liable."

The beautiful woman whispered: "no matter, I will refer to it, and we will know about the two of us."

Fortunately, the brothers were not blinded by hormones. They pressed the overwhelming dopamine and swallowed a mouthful to cut the railway: "absolutely not!"

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Later, the beautiful woman hung up the phone with disappointment, and never found my buddy again.

Later, the brothers talked about it and said with emotion, "Luckily, she was eager for success, and her purpose was so strong.

If it's a little longer, I'll give it to him. "

I said, people have reached the limit, flirting with people who do not feel at all.

My brother fiercely poured a drink.

03

Last time I was waiting for a ticket at the station, a mother came up to me and said with a brilliant face, "boy, I will have something to do later. Let me row ahead of you."

The tone is warm and firm.

At that time, I had been standing for half an hour, waiting for the ticket to get on the train.

I said, "sorry, everyone is in line, and even if I allow, the people behind will not agree."

She said, "nothing, you agree, they can't manage."

For such intelligence and quality, I feel sick and helpless, "aunt, you took the ticket, but there are many people rush to pick up tickets."

She is still reluctant to give up: "I will be in front of you, it will not take long, you can delay it."

I no longer speak. According to their daily experience, many of their age, narrow ego consciousness has long been "evolving" into their life instincts. They may not be anxious, but they prefer to wander around the square or wait in the waiting hall after finishing their tickets, and do not want to follow the rules of civilization, nor will they consider those who really need it.

In this kind of people's eyes, truth and civilization never belong to the principle category, and they can only serve their interests forever.

When I saw no more, my aunt immediately changed her tone. "Why don't you have such a courtesy, your parents didn't teach you to help others?" and then walked away with a face full of displeasure.

My parents taught me to help others, but they taught me not to help them.

04

When we were in University, our class had a Bacchus who was notorious in the Department.

The reason is that the wine is too bad, but in my opinion, it is a character problem.

This person likes to drink well, likes to deliberately intoxicated people, and then watch others drink and behave in a bad way.

The most hated is to like to pick the soft persimmon and knead it. In his words, it is better to make a dizzy one.

Last year's national day, the university professional classmates gathering, just sat down, as usual, the meal did not move, drinks first.

There was a boy in class two who would not drink when he was on the table, and he was strongly allergic to alcohol.

I have an impression of this guy. I used to belong to the school tyrant type. In addition to interacting with my classmates in class, there was basically no friendship between our classmates and the other two classes.

We did not care much about this.

Originally, at ordinary times, everyone was drinking at work, so it was hard to get drunk. Now it's hard for students to get together and drink to have fun, and naturally no one will force to persuade him.

But the wine god in my class has been working for several years and still has not changed the bad smell of the pit man.

As soon as everyone walked around, he rose with a bottle. The goal was unexpected. He aimed at the two class student who said he would not drink.

He walked over and immediately put on the shoulders of his family. His face was full of enthusiasm. "Man, we were not familiar with it before.

After talking about his neck, a glass of wine has been poured down.

The two class had no choice but to give up their lives to accompany the gentleman.

It was obvious that it would not really drink. When I finished drinking, my face would be red at once.

It was time to end up here, but the God of wine was holding the shoulders of other people. After a few words, he was looking up to the bottom of his glass.

At that time, the boy's face was obviously not able to hang up. The rest of us said that it was almost done. We ran over to try to pull him back, but the God of the Bacchus was not able to comply.

The student's face was cloudy and cloudy, and his face was drawn at last. "I am not familiar with you," said the cold voice.

Then he sat down without saying a word.

The remaining Bacchus stood there with cups, embarrassed.

05

Feng Tang has a famous literary gold thread, saying that it is equally applicable to live in the interpersonal relationship. What is the relationship between the two people? It may be hidden in the eyes of others, but the parties are absolutely clear about the situation.

What kind of relationship and what kind of fit?

Others don't understand, don't you know?

Life is so difficult that for those who are cold and self satisfied, they can hardly bypass and have no need to produce intersect. They are really stickers. It is much better to refuse simply and rudely than polite politeness.

If they are unhappy about that, it doesn't matter.

Anyway, you are not living to make them happy.