Workplace: No One Can'T Be Replaced.

In the work, the boss likes to say to the employee: "you are the pillar and mainstay of the company. Balabala... The guy is doing a good job. There is no way out. XX is still vacant. " After that, I will draw a big cake for you, and then talk about success study, inspirational scripts, and chicken soup of the soul. It will make you feel very happy in your heart and feel that it is almost second days after you feel like yourself.

When you are in love, there are similar situations. Boys like to say something like "you are different from other girls", "you are the most special girl I have ever seen". If you ask him, "what's the difference?" he can't answer the question. He will only say, "I can't tell you. Anyway, it's different. I'll be XXX when I see you." The man said a few words, and the woman was confused and confused. What is more, there is no two time to meet, and even the other party's personality and hobbies are not known, so they dare to directly link love and life. "You are my life", "I can't live without you" and so on. It seems absurd that someone will buy it.

But is there anyone who can't be replaced at work or in life? I say two examples are true. The first is about work, the second is about life.

I am a programmer friend, like all programmers. Diligence Simple and a little proud. When you work, you are conscientious and conscientious. You always have the spirit of giving up your own responsibility. Every day you volunteer to work overtime until 8,9, and you sit for 10+ hours in front of the computer. Scapulohumeral periarthritis, cervical spondylosis, sciatica... I'm not happy with a lot of occupational diseases. When his friend advised him to take a break, he always used a tone when Zhu Geliang wrote his teacher's table, saying, "you don't understand. There are many problems in the system. Except for me, no one can solve them. I will be finished if I go." In the end, he was for various reasons. Quit Now. After leaving, he sneak around to ask his former colleagues about the project situation, which disappointed him. After he left, the project did not collapse or even postponed. The boss quickly found a more pressing man to replace him, and everything worked normally.

He was washed away by those workplace myths and heart chicken soup. He felt that his martial arts were the first in the world and he was "indispensable". For the sake of collectivism, honor, and the interests of others (in fact, the interests of the boss), when it is clear that there is a vacation, they voluntarily give up their vacation period and feel proud. I gave up my chance to see a movie with my girlfriend, gave up the agreement to go to a party with my friends, even gave up my vacation to visit my parents. Give up too many important things to pursue the so-called "success" and put the cart before the horse.

Not only is it work There are more examples in life. Another friend of mine, a girl, studied the market, but she worked as an administrator. Her work was idle and her wages were not high. The reason why she chose so much was to take care of her boyfriend. She lived with her boyfriend. Everything in her life was surrounded by her boyfriend. The cost of living was her boyfriend, and her hobbies were boyfriends and friends. Every morning, he climbed down from the 6 floor to buy Soya bean oil frying pancake fruit, and went to the market to buy chicken for fish at night. Seven days a week, not heavy to give her boyfriend delicious good drink for. In order to wait for her boyfriend, he gave up all his hobbies and circles. Unfortunately, her boyfriend went off the rails. Although she was aggrieved and cried, she still chose to endure and did not want to break up. Her original saying was: "I am surrounded by all my life now. He is the only one for me. Without him, I do not know how to live."

Later, of course, all kinds of crying are useless. The score is still divided. She moved out of her boyfriend's house and rented a room. She quit her job and returned to her old bank. She threw her enthusiasm for her boyfriend to work. Two years later, her salary was higher than that of her ex boyfriend, and there was no lack of a better candidate. When I met a friend at a dinner party, I asked her, "didn't you say that he could not live?" She laughed herself. "It was really childish. I always thought that he could not live without him.

Indeed, those on the Internet are always dragging their lives like "lifetime", "life", "no one can't live" and so on. They can deceive the tears of young boys and girls. Many people even make friends with that standard. But those love words are like chicken soup with poppy shells. They can only harm themselves by drinking too much. They are too young to have experienced any major events. If they dare to say that they are dying for their lives, do your parents hear that, do they not feel sad? Even those who do not cherish their lives will love others?

Don't give me an example of Jobs. He really wants to climb up and work at 4 o'clock every morning, but he doesn't have a year's rest. But he's gone when he is more than 50 years old. If you hold the idea of "everyone is drunk and I wake up alone, and the whole world is muddy and I am alone", you will live and be tired and bitter. To tell you the truth, most people exist only to maintain the complexity and diversity of higher organisms.

When you think you are important, unique and indispensable. Just think about it. One day you leave the world, who will really be heartbroken, cry to death, except your father and mother. Will there be more than three others?