Women Love Shoes Are Men'S Eyes.

Soul decoding

If a diamond necklace and a classic music are sent to a woman at the same time, what do you think she will be attracted to first?

Yes, her eyes will soon be on the bright side, and will soon touch the texture of the necklace.

And she could hear the music, but it would not produce such excitement.

It's not wrong to say that a woman's fetish is something that can be grasped and touched.

Do not believe you go to shopping malls, those in front of all kinds of dazzling commodities must be women.

Because of fetish, women can take up more than half of their monthly wages to buy clothes or accessories that they like, because fetish, even if it may become a "moonlight clan", can not resist their shopping enthusiasm.

From a certain point of view, the psychology of women's Fetish seems a little overheated and a bit pathological.

Why do they still enjoy it and do not repent?

What are the psychological motives behind women's fetish?

Yes, many women are loyal fans of all kinds of fashion clothes.

Especially in buying clothes, women prefer to feel the comfort of pure cotton texture and extremely delicate clothing.

The more high-end fashion brands pay attention to the softness of clothing texture and the femininity of styles.

When you go to a variety of fashion shops, those women always get some psychological satisfaction through touching, appreciating and trying on clothes. Then what is this psychological satisfaction? Why do we seldom see men repeatedly touching and trying them on?

Anne is a 28 year old girl who runs alone in a strange land. Her boyfriend often travels away from her.

When Anne was brought back to his parents by his grandparents when he was 3 years old, his relationship with his mother was a bit rusty at the beginning.

When she was a teenager, her mother always took her to buy new clothes, and she felt very happy.

Anne's favorite clothing brand now is ZARA store in Spain.

In the ZARA store on Tian Jie street, she can take a stroll for forty or fifty minutes.

She likes the feel of this brand dress, which feels soft and soft as the sea breeze brushed the palm of her hand.

This brand is also feminine. Those big bubble sleeves, wide and wavy skirts, hand embroidery or exquisite printing, a little Posey Mia and a little romantic, make her like it.

She often tries to dress her clothes one by one and dispel loneliness.

In the imagination, she especially wanted to be in contact with a woman like this. She was gentle and considerate. She was very equal with her. She found this contact from the clothing brand.

I believe that there are many girls who are alone in a foreign country like Anne. They tend to be separated from their families at the age of seventeen and eight, and come to a foreign country to study and work. They will have a blank space in their emotions, which needs to be filled, which may include the memory of their mother.

When a girl is at least 3 years old, she needs her mother's arms most. However, many mothers choose the way of grandparents to give their children to grandparents at this time.

At this point, girls can not establish a safe emotional connection with their mothers.

When she is 3 years old, her mother may go to take her again. She may be a little strange to her mother, because she missed the best time to cultivate her sense of security and foster her sense of security.

Anne and his mother were like this. Although they had established a good relationship in Anne's adolescence, the relationship was still distant. Anne might not express her emotional desire to his mother.

When she went to a foreign country to study alone, the emotional desire was obstructed by the distance.

Many of these girls will pfer this feeling of intimacy between mother and mother to the fascination of clothes.

Because clothes represent a private activity between her and her mother, many girls go to buy clothes with their mothers at first, and girls always try to wear their mothers' clothes when they are puberty.

By buying clothes, they subconsciously feel the attachment to women and their feelings towards their mothers.

If you find yourself too fond of clothes and run all the way to a clothing store, you need to take some psychological strategies to reduce the frequency of such behavior.

Write down your feelings about clothes. Your favorite brand clothing reflects a certain aspect of your complex.

If it's some kind of Oedipus complex, you might as well try to buy a little gift from your mother instead of buying clothes.

There are many soft parts in your heart that need to be satisfied.

There is a little girl who needs motherhood. She says, "I don't want to grow up so fast. I want to get more love."

You might as well record your own shortcomings and see which ones are feasible and which are not feasible.

Tell the mother in a way that is feasible.

Lay down your hard packaging and allow yourself to show a little bit of affection in front of your mother.

Mother also wants to be needed by her daughter, not to neglect it.

Make a phone call to your mother at a fixed time, and also care about some mothers' feelings and express your love for her. She will be proud of you.

Some women prefer to choose high-grade jewelry with hard texture and elegant taste.

They are proud of wearing such ornaments, and do not consciously show their good taste in the crowd.

They like to shine like pearls and glamour on their bodies, as if this kind of sparkle added to their charm, and also enhanced their confidence in men.

Women who love jewelry often look beautiful and beautiful, but privately, they may have a rather lonely, slightly fragrant but unadorable taste.

Cocoa is a public relations manager of a foreign company, and also a loyal pursuit of DIOR accessories and CHANEL accessories.

She likes DIOR's diamond necklace and CHANEL's bracelet. These two things are her own.

Wearing a valuable ornament, she felt a sense of security and self-confidence, and if she took off these ornaments, she would feel uncomfortable and even go out on dates.

She likes to see the kind of intoxicated and sought after eyes projected on her accessories, and hopes that a man can be charted by her charm and become a flower escort around her.

Although she still has no fixed boyfriend, she still can not lower her standards. She is convinced that she is shining like diamonds, just waiting for the day when a man can identify treasure.

Men sometimes feel distant when they get along with her. Though they think she is beautiful, they can not find a chance to get closer to her. She has a hard shell in her heart, which blocks between the opposite sex and herself.

Women who like to build their own jewelry through expensive jewelry show that they are more economical and able to buy and enjoy the luxury of jewelry.

Their material satisfaction is greater than mental or spiritual lack of self-confidence, because if the material has become a charm to enhance the charm, it is more or less that they lack a bit of confidence in themselves, hoping that the external foil can give themselves extra points.

This may also indicate that they have some fear in their hearts, because diamonds, platinum and other things are hard and rare objects. They may be afraid that their rare values can not be found by men, so they should be worn as a hint of charm.

They have stricter and higher requirements for themselves. They do not want to do wrong or wrong things. They are very particular about their own internal and external image creation. They will not expose their hearts easily, but maintain a sense of mystery with others (especially men). Of course, it may also come from their lack of confidence in themselves.

They do not know how to master the intimacy between men, so they choose a relatively distant self insurance distance, hoping to be "blurred".

It is this kind of self doubt that makes them miss some valuable opportunities.

There is nothing wrong with fancy jewelry, but it can not be an excessive fascination.

If you can't go out without wearing expensive jewelry, you need to take some strategies.

Relax, your personal quality is more important than jewelry.

The man opposite you does not love you because you are wearing jewelry, but because of your temperament, connotation and talent.

Don't rely too much on the goodwill that accessories bring to you, and to express yourself better, your real is the most moving weapon.

We should learn to reduce standards according to the actual situation.

Be careful. It may be your mysterious sense of dignity or reserve that keeps some people away from you.

They may be afraid that you want too much, and they fail to achieve it, which may reduce your man's fate.

In fact, love is the humility of "low dust". Although your love is conditional, you can only be more humiliated when you are overqualified.

Learn to express yourself honestly instead of habitual self preservation.

The sincere expression of self can often be exchanged for the sincerity of others. Too close self insurance only shows that you lack sense of security for others, so you can only disguise yourself with a mask.

Sometimes allowing yourself to make a mistake, occasionally making a real love of yourself, instead of controlling yourself tightly, will make you and others feel relaxed.

It's a bit of a truth to pick shoes like men.

Being able to pick up a pair of shoes that are both durable and comfortable is indeed a test of strength.

Some women always love to run to the shoe store, and they never stop trying. The pair is too high, the belt is too tight, and the other styles are a bit out of date.

Always pick and choose, and finally buy a lot of shoes, but they are not always practical. They may be thrown away or put on the shelf after a while.

The woman who loves shoes is a bit of a fickle woman. Her heart is always uncertain, especially in the choice of men.

Little love has fewer than 1000 pairs of shoes at home. Every pair of shoes is very popular when it is bought, and it is also popular in the season.

But after a while, she was tired of being able to pick out the faults of these shoes.

Her boyfriend always changes his shoes.

For a while, it was a poem writing, and later became a businessman, a sports loving athlete, and a spirit oriented environmentalist.

She thinks that a man will mature after he is over 30 years old, but too mature, she will get along with each other for a long time and feel that the other person has a generation gap with her and can not communicate. When she chooses a similar age of her, she feels that although she can communicate with each other, she doesn't have enough conditions in all aspects, especially when it is physically impossible.

She chooses men as well as shoes.

As a result, the more friends they have, the more shoes they buy.

Those who are always wandering among different men and women who choose their eyes are not consciously aware of themselves. They may be attracted by so many different types of men by their multiple personalities.

Women with multiple personalities are lovely. They are clean and mature. They are quiet and lively. They can bring different characteristics of many girls into one. No wonder they become candidates for all kinds of men's girlfriends.

Such women are generally more talented and resilient.

However, in the face of so many different types of men, they have lost their judgement.

In fact, as long as they know what qualities they think are most needed, the problem is solved.

Some men can only be teachers, some men can only be friends, others can only do career stalls. She just needs to find a man suitable for her husband.

Women who love shoes reduce themselves.