The Act Of Putting An End To The Office

You have always considered yourself an unmatched employee - not late, not leaving early, finishing the work on time, and never taking care of the stationery in the company.

But don't forget that measuring a person's work performance is not just a matter of personal performance, but also an important element of coordination with the surrounding environment.

It is good to be strict with yourself in your work, but if you have too many arguments with your colleagues, it will become a Hidden Reef for your success.

Paying attention to working relationships does not mean that you have to work hard with the whole office.

But generally speaking, good interpersonal relationships can no doubt make the work go smoothly and make your efforts twice the result with half the effort.

Therefore, no one wants to be an "office hated bug" without people.

Here is a mirror. Please compare it with yourself to see if you have committed any prohibition.

Office hate insect number one

Liar

Some small jokes in the workplace are harmless, but watch out for them to develop into awful gossip and even rumors of hurting people.

A lot of people who do not know how to think carefully and speak later become unaware of all kinds of rumors.

A reporter of mine always has nothing to do with my desk and talk about the sex scandal of the editor in chief. You think, such a sensitive place, such a sensitive topic, I really don't know what to do.

Jing Yi, a 29 year old journalist, complained that her source was reliable. She never cared about my interest in her inside story.

If you are extremely keen on spreading some low-level gossip, at least you should not expect others to be equally keen on listening.

Sooner or later, those colleagues who are different from each other will not be afraid of you.

Even if you use all kinds of grapevine news to become the red man in the tea room for a time, no one will ever be sincere about a mouthing talker.

Rescue plan

Learn to be secretive - especially on topics related to the private life of your colleagues.

Remember, dripping can wear stones. At the critical moment, you will realize how valuable your colleagues' trust is.

Office bug second

Seeding agent

Grumbled and angry, these are the most striking characteristics of the sowing people.

Despite the fact that occasionally some sincere complaints can build up an illusion of office friendships, endless complaints can make people miserable around you - you have cloned your own depression and imposed it on innocent people in an unconscious way.

A project manager in the same department as long as I was in the office, we could not escape the psychological torture that lasted for several hours.

At the age of 24, Dai Fei is the client director of a company. It is obviously something that has nothing to do with her, but under her continuous bombing, we have to try our best to get rid of her infectious negative emotions.

Perhaps you regard complaint as a way of openness, but the end of litigation will rise to anger.

People will wonder if you are so dissatisfied with the status quo, why don't you just change your environment and go away.

Rescue plan

How to hate in the heart is higher than the sky. You must also remember a motto: silence is golden.

If you have made an impression of "office worm", it is hard to get any response from colleagues no matter what you say.

In the future, if there is more complaining and waiting for vent, try to put all the unpleasant words in the form of E-MAIL to a friend and friend who has no working relationship. She will solve your worries for you.

The main advantage of this is that your resentment has been unwittingly released in a most low-key way.