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Talking Skills On Wine Table

2008/12/24 15:47:00 41942

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Q: what should I pay attention to at the wine table?

Ceremony

What do you need to pay attention to and what you have to say?

Skill

Answer: almost all of us have experienced personal experience when talking about drinking. Wine culture is also an old and fresh topic.

Modern people have discovered the role of wine more and more in the process of communication.

Indeed, wine as a kind of

Communicative medium

Welcome guests, gather friends and friends.

Communicate

To convey friendship has played a unique role. Therefore, exploring the mystery of wine table can help you to succeed in communication.

　　1、眾歡同樂，切忌私語

Most guests have more guests, so they should talk about topics that most people can participate in as much as possible.

Because personal interests and knowledge are different, the topic should not be too biased and avoid being overcautious.

In particular, try to avoid whispering with people, giving people a sense of mystery, which often produces jealousy on both of you and affects the effect of drinking.

　　2、瞄準(zhǔn)賓主，把握大局

Most of the parties have a theme, that is, the purpose of drinking.

At the banquet, you should first look around your faces, distinguish between the primary and secondary, do not drink simply for drinking, but lose the good opportunity to make friends, not to let some popular wine drinkers mess up the host's meaning.

　　3、語言得當(dāng)，詼諧幽默

Sprinkles on the table can show a person's talent, common sense, self-cultivation and communicative demeanor. Sometimes a humorous language will leave a deep impression on the guests and make people feel good about you.

Therefore, it is important to know when to speak, how to speak and how to humor.

　　4、勸酒適度，切莫強(qiáng)求

　　在酒桌上往往會遇到勸酒的現(xiàn)象，有的人總喜歡把酒場當(dāng)戰(zhàn)場，想方設(shè)法勸別人多喝幾杯，認(rèn)為不喝到量就是不實(shí)在。以酒論英雄，對酒量大的人還可以，酒量小的就犯難了，有時(shí)過分地勸酒，會將原有的朋友感情完全破壞。

　　5、敬酒有序，主次分明

Toasting is also a learning.

Generally speaking, toast should be based on age, position and guest status. Before drinking, we must give full consideration to the order of toasting.

In order to drink with people who are not familiar with it, they should first ask for their identity or pay attention to what others call. This is a must to avoid embarrassing or hurting feelings.

In toasting, we must grasp the order of toasting.

It is natural for him to be respectful when he asks for a guest to sit on the table. But pay attention to the fact that if a person with a higher status or age is present, he should not only be respectful to those who can help you.

　　6、察言觀色，了解人心

If you want to get everyone's appreciation on the wine table, you must learn to look at it.

Because communication with people, we must understand the hearts of the people, right and left, so that we can play the role of wine table.

　　7、鋒芒漸射，穩(wěn)坐泰山

Banquet feast to see the occasion, the correct evaluation of their strength, not too impulsive, try to retain some of the alcohol and the proportion of speaking, do not let others look down on themselves and do not expose themselves too much, choose the right opportunity to gradually radiate their own edge, in order to sit in Taishan, do not give others the ability to produce this idea, so that we dare not underestimate your strength.

Editor: vivi