Communication Details Make Your Workplace Popular.

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It is often a precursor to great changes in communication. It is often a good opportunity to succeed in communication without any effort. It is often a "42" to stir up relationships.

1. Praise others.

Everyone, including those with low status and a deep sense of inferiority, are proud of them. These intoxicating "flash points" may be very small, only he himself knows clearly, and even he himself has not found it.

These "proudly small works" may be, such as being good at making a delicious sweet and sour fish, being good at folding all kinds of paper airplanes, and studying folk tales, folk customs and proverbs.

If you praise these little strengths, you will surely make them happy.

You know, from gaining popularity.

Chen Xin sat for the first time in a saloon car.

It was rush hour and traffic was heavy, but Liu's driving was steady and slow.

At this time, Chen Xin opened his mouth and said, "Master Liu, you can still drive so fast in such a situation. It's really not simple. There is a way!" can't believe that this hearty compliment made Liu master very happy.

Because he really has a superb driving skill, especially his own way of driving on busy roads. No one has ever praised Chen Xin before his ride.

Over the past 10 years, Liu has always been obsessed with the situation at that time and often praised Chen Xinyou for his vision.

Small places make great articles.

Dig out and admire others' "proudly little work". Don't look at the fact that it is small. Actually, it has become a great communication skill in a small place, and it has not been mastered by many people.

If you have this Kung Fu, you will be able to build a popular building on the ground.

2, remember other people's "random words".

Everyone's words are not the golden rule of a sentence. They are not words, but some words have been said. Soon, the speaker will forget or ignore it.

Such casual words are well written.

If you mention what he said before, say, "you once said...

I still remember it vividly.

The other party will be very happy because of your attention, and think you are a careful person, a person who can do great things, a person who cares for others very much.

If you remember not only the casual words of others, but also your random words, it will be more effective.

One day, Xiao Zhang was delighted to send a big bag of delicious Toona sinensis to Lao Yin.

Xiao Zhang said, "I have just returned from my hometown to bring you some special local products that I promised you before."

After Xiao Zhang said this, Lao Yin suddenly remembered that when he was drinking together two months ago, Xiao Zhang once said, "our hometown specialties of pickled Toona sinensis are very delicious," and Lao Yin then joked, "in that case, when you return home to visit your relatives, you can bring me a bag." in fact, this is just a joke of his, and he will forget it.

By now, Xiao Zhang has sent the pickled Toona in a very solemn way. Lao Yin is so moved that the psychological distance between the two men is greatly reduced.

"Waste gold mines" can also produce bright gold. Notice and remember other people's random words, it is actually "a pile of gold ore", if mining properly, "popularity gold" will make you extremely rich.

Other people's random words are fine, but there are plenty of things to do.

3. Do something unexpected.

The advertisement of a German bank is famous all over the world. It writes like this: you spend your day, we care for you for details.

What is the details? It is often a small matter in people's accidents.

It is said that the credibility of the bank has been greatly improved after the advertisement was released.

It is not an organization. For people, those who pay special attention to details can make people do something unexpected in time to make people feel at ease. Can they not be trusted? Doing something unexpected and small is an important trick for their own image.

When he was elected mayor of a city in, he delivered a brilliant inaugural speech at the NPC.

A deputy to congratulate him.

Song Yang said, "yes, we have all drums 18 times."

The representative immediately ran to check the minutes of the meeting. Indeed, yes, the mayor of Song Yang said the figures were very accurate.

Obviously, during the speech, Song Yang carefully noted the number of applause at the venue.

Because of this, the delegates also had the public's admiration for the new mayor.

It is thought that such a wise mayor, if he has noticed this little detail, what else will be beneficial to the city will fall behind the mayor's vision? I believe that such a mayor will surely put his glaring eyes on the joy and pain of every citizen. I believe that song yang can lead the broad masses of the people to glory.

A philosopher said: any minor details are of special importance.

In this case, do something unexpected for others. This is an important move for self image.

People will be amazed and appreciated by you.

4, pay attention to the subtle changes of others.

No one is unwilling to accept the care of others, and no one will be disgusted with people who care about themselves.

Therefore, if you want to win good reviews, you need to express your concern for others properly.

If you find subtle changes in your wearer and facial appearance, you'd better point out immediately.

If the other party changes a new tie, you say, "where did you wear this tie when you bought it for the first time?" he will happily accept your concern and feel good about you.

Especially women, especially pay attention to their own clothes. Once someone noticethe changes of her dress, she will feel heartfelt joy, then the distance between you will be shortened.

The girl Xiao Fang was very intoxicated with her boyfriend, Pang Hai. She was especially satisfied with Pang Hai's attention to small things.

For example, she came out from the hair salon and wore a new hairstyle. Pang Hai would enjoy it with great enthusiasm. She didn't sleep well last night. Pang Hai would see her tired face and look at it today.

As Pang Hai was watching her changes, Xiaofang felt very satisfied.

The effect of Pang Hai's work in a small place is much better than that of money.

Not only between men and women, any two people can find their tiny changes immediately without prompting, and sincerely tell them that their feelings must be very harmonious.

Therefore, people should not be careless in communicating with others. They should pay close attention to their trivial matters.

5, modify your own "communication details".

When you talk with others, you may raise your eyebrows when you are happy, your eyes are big when you are serious, ask questions directly, and repeat briefly after listening.

In this way, you will give people a good impression of being flexible and sociable.

If you have a well-balanced rhythm, slow movements, serious movements, and steady Taishan, you will give people the impression that you are imposing and calm.

For other people's invitation, if you can take out your notebook and record the appointment time and address carefully, others will think you are a trustworthy person.

If you change your appointment to 8:35 at 8:30, others will think you are a busy and capable person.

These are the details of communication, because you have been decorated, so it has added to your communicative image.

No small place.

This is likely to be related to whether you succeed or not.

A salesperson is very popular with customers. She sells more goods than other salesmen.

Why is it so? She had a special focus on the details of the communication.

For example, when someone wants to buy a kilogram of chocolate, she always grabs 0.9 kilograms of chocolate on the scales and then adds them one by one until the foot weighs.

Unlike other salesmen, first catch more than a kilogram of things on scales, and then take them cruelly.

Obviously, the excellent salesperson's practice is very pleasant. For example, when the customer helps her to deliver the goods, she must say thank you.

It is necessary for the customer to take the goods and do it or not.

She didn't turn a blind eye to it like other salesmen.

Therefore, she has achieved great success, not only has many bonus, but also has won the honorary title of the city model worker.

To modify the details of this kind of communication is to lubricate the gears of daily life, so that everything goes smoothly for you; it is to give you the wings to take off so as to help you succeed.