Five Bad Habits Of Conversation Should Be Taboo.

Key words: Workplace

Conversation is when you associate with others.

The first bad habit of conversation: sitting and sitting.

This kind of person, when you talk with him, is often shocked by his communication posture. If you are not lying on your chair, you should watch your computer with your cell phone on your side.

It's too meaningless to behave in a way that makes you doubt what you say.

Suggestion: whether you like it or not, it doesn't matter whether you like it or not, but you have to sit in front of yourself for your own image.

Second bad habits of conversation: dull and boring.

This kind of person does not speak, once you say it, it makes you drowsy.

If it wasn't for the third story, "a grain ticket story", or if he was looking for someone else to say it, he would come back to the "hot pot". Even if he told a joke, he would often laugh at himself, but others could not understand it.

Suggestion: listen to Guo Degang's cross talk frequently and learn how to shake off the burden of the audience, especially the single cross talk.

Third bad habits of conversation: when others talk, he interrupts.

When someone else talks, as long as he has a point of view, he immediately says, "I interrupt" and then I say my own views.

The result was often interrupted by him, and the speaker also forgot where he had said before.

It is not a bad idea to insert a word occasionally, but if people say something is broken up by "inserting" before and after you, it will not be "humane".

Suggestion: when you talk with people, you must wait for people to show their views, then you can talk about your views.

Because it's possible that if you interrupt, it may be what the other person will explain next.

Third bad habits of conversation: just do not listen.

Just listen to the words, let the narrator's words go nowhere.

This kind of Kung Fu can be applied to negotiations or quarrels between husband and wife, and is absolutely not suitable for normal interpersonal communication.

Listeners are allowed to express their words without a word of return, even with the basic techniques of nod approval, shake their heads and smile.

Let the heart of the speaker straighten out his hair, and in order to finish his speech, he must inflate himself.

Suggestion: conversation is a way of communication between two sides. If you do not have any expression or language response to the object, you will make the subject of the conversation unable to determine whether to continue or not to communicate.

Fourth bad habits of conversation: like the Yellow River, the water is endless and boundless.

What one says is fast and painful, and the practical and unrealistic one is useless, and others are just a machine to listen to your speech.

No matter how small you can talk about it, you must understand that such a conversation is not called communication. What is it called?

The excerpt of the "talk about it" is as follows:

[explanation] it is not realistic to describe things with exaggeration.

[provenance]: the eleventh time of Qing Dynasty Wu Jingzi's "Lin Lin Wai Shi": "enter the study door, and hear Yang Zhizhong, F F, and know that he has already come in."

Suggestion: such a person should start speaking less and less useless words from now on.

Try to practice how to polish the ten sentences you want to say. You will find that one sentence is often more than ten words.

Fifth bad habits of conversation: look left and right

When you are speaking, you can only show that you do not attach importance to others in your heart, even if you have urgent matters to deal with.

Suggestion: when you talk with others, concentrate on your spirit, whether you speak or listen to others.

If it is really because there is something to deal with and can not give consideration to each other, then it is better to tell people directly, "I am sorry, but there is something urgent that I can not continue with you now."