First Or First?

Or that sentence, there is a certain material basis, then make a good plan, and when you have sufficient conditions, do not need to worry too much, many things will come true.

Feeling this is a very meaningful question, I asked many of my opposite sex friends to come up with four answers.

First: first Entrepreneurship after marry 。 Marriage without reason can not last long and occupy the majority.

Two: start business after marriage. The reasons for the joint efforts of both husband and wife are better and the number of people is also quite good.

Three: get married and start to get married again. When I first heard it, I was very surprised to hear it explain, that is to say, "a man has money to go bad". A few.

Four: do not start a business or get married. It's not appropriate to say that we should play with suitable ones. Less.

The above answers should be quite representative, basically, that's all. If you are a man, which one will you choose? Or is there no one suitable for you?

The above answers have their own reasons, and also have some practical significance. They can not be defined as the right and wrong points. However, I think people are neglecting a very important question when they discuss this topic. What do we mean by "entrepreneurship"? Is it necessary to become a millionaire? The billionaire's kind of talent is "entrepreneurship". So I'm afraid everyone doesn't have to get married. You may struggle for ten years, twenty years or a lifetime. What should I do? Continue fighting and suffering? I am afraid that when the flowers are too grateful, I will not be able to join hands with you.

There is always a category before any discussion. There are some prerequisites for the significance of the discussion. Here, too, how does "entrepreneurship" mean "entrepreneurship"? I think this should refer to "a certain material basis", that is, to solve the problem of food, clothing and housing, and so on. The basic life can be guaranteed, and a little savings can be used for emergencies. If you can't even maintain a normal life, you are certainly not qualified to talk about marriage. It takes too much money to maintain a marriage, and money is also essential. And in such a realistic society, there is no money to stop your love. Most people hold the attitude of "starting a business first and then getting married" on this issue. They probably have suffered from this loss before. The frustration of real life also determines the universality of this mentality.

I remember a time when the company resigned, a colleague was not envious, and then complained about the trouble of work. I said, if you're not happy, you can go. He sighed with emotion. "If it was really possible before, now there is a family burden that can do whatever it wants, and how it wants." At this time, maybe you will realize the benefits of a person's life, but it's really free and easy. Think of the fact that he has mixed up with a manager's position. No one else dare to walk away. If you are just an ordinary employee, let alone. If you do not have the ability to work and the foundation of your career, you will be in a dilemma if you get married. As a woman, I support this view.

Besides, if you first marry and start your own business, if your own life is a problem, it will be too difficult for you to take a marriage to restrain the pace of progress, especially if you have children to bear it. Of course, people who choose this way are not not. If two people really love each other, they are willing to work together and work together, and because of the power of love, they can achieve twice the result with half the effort. Differ from man to man.

The latter two cases are relatively rare. Although there are many things in real life, I believe that most people will not agree with them.

This problem should be the most troublesome problem for many unmarried men nowadays, especially for older men. In fact, it does not bother itself, it must come from the pressure of family and society. Often listen to a lot of opposite sex friends complain, do not want to call home, holidays do not want to go back from that crime. Family members hurry up, and parents want to see their children have a good home in their lifetime. All kinds of problems in life have not yet been solved, or have not yet met the right ones. The pressure on men is far greater than that of women. Escaping is not an effective solution to the problem. What to do?

At this time, some people may compromise and choose a marriage that is not what they want. It is also a dangerous signal. After marriage quality, do it yourself. A friend who had been in danger when his parents were in danger, had to find a man to marry to fulfill his family's wishes. The husband and wife had bad feelings, often noisy, and could not say one thing. They had no responsibility for their marriage. They had only one responsibility and obligation. What was worse was that after he got married, he met the one who suited himself. But he had already lost the qualification and right to win, and regret and regret all his life.

Besides, when someone posted "rent a girlfriend to go home for the Spring Festival" on the Internet, it had a great response. It caused a great sensation in the society. The so-called social demand will lead to the emergence of an industry. To some extent, this phenomenon is not unreasonable. Though a lie is bound to hurt the heart of the old man, it is also a helpless policy. It is impossible to drag a person to get married just to cope with his parents. Of course, this is not a permanent solution. It's just a temporary relief. The best option is of course. Career love Double harvest.