Want To Get Promoted? Don'T Be A Good Girl.

In the workplace, you show the professional and capable women who are capable and decisive, smart and beautiful. Every day you run around the office and the outside world nine to five times every day. 8 hours are surrounded by busy business affairs, complex interpersonal relationships and the eyes of some big men and some bad habits, plus some self psychological disadvantages and obstacles. Have you ever thought that if you do not control and solve it in time, the strong appearance will eventually be swallowed up by internal weakness until the whole army is destroyed.

Roadblock 1: unwilling to show talent, hide

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Thus, it is foolish to wait passively for others' discovery, especially your boss or boss.

Their minds do not know how much to think about, how much to deal with, and your diligent attitude.

But if you expect him to understand your real needs, it will be all Greek.

So don't be so naive. It's wise to tell your real needs at the right time after the boss confirms your devotion, which makes him feel that you are a person who understands himself and is full of self-confidence. The key is to get the job you really enjoy.

Roadblock 2: I hope everyone likes himself. He cares too much about the evaluation of his superiors and colleagues. He can blame himself for a slight mistake.

Xiao Yu is a public relations department of foreign trade company.

In fact, there are quite a few women like Xiao Yu.

This attitude towards human affairs is not only unwise.

The consequences often cause themselves to be in an awkward position.

In fact, in the workplace, there is no need to embarrass everyone in order to win the favor of everyone.

Honest work is a wise move. On the contrary, if you introduce yourself into the vortex of a social network, your performance will not be improved. It may be a question mark if you stay here for a long time.

Therefore, most of their energy is devoted to their work, and making achievements is the premise of company's foothold.

Roadblock 3: as long as you work hard, you will get results. You will not sell yourself to your boss, but you will not get the rewards you deserve.

Ting is engaged in logo design. She works very hard. For a logo design, she often bubbles on the worktable for days and nights until finalization.

Ting is not a person who is good at expressing herself. She can get enough satisfaction and self approval from her own design. Maybe it is for this reason that for every success, it is the result of the efforts of the whole enterprise design department in the eyes of the boss, without paying any attention to the role played by Ting as the overall design.

In so doing, Ting took the same salary as others, but worked more than a few times of stress and hardship.

She felt a sense of loss and injustice. After all, she had to talk and relax.

She offered to resign, fortunately her boss realized what was happening at the moment.

It's probably a tacit understanding to keep Ting Ting with a high salary.

In your work, you should not only strive to make outstanding achievements, but also let your superiors know them. Of course, this is not to let you report anything big or small.

It's about learning to express yourself in due time, because your efforts should be rewarded and you should be the boss to remember you.

Roadblock 4: not good at communication and cooperation, especially with male colleagues and male clients.

Qi is an assistant to the customer service department of a computer company. Because of the more male and female colleagues in the company, Qi has become a golden flower that everyone is competing for, and it has become an indispensable star in the company.

Many of them were born, and some bad words soon flooded the offices of computer companies.

Qi became a centre of discussion.

The most tragic thing is that her boyfriend, who had been with Qi for 3 years, entered a cold war because of some arguments and Qi.

Qi was very upset. The idea that he wanted to make a little career in this company was drowned, but he had to withdraw his troops early and leave the wrong place.

In fact, for the encounter of Qi is not a special case. Women in the workplace will encounter more or less the situation of working with male colleagues and male clients. How to deal with the relationship with the opposite sex is not only related to your image in other people's eyes, but also affects your mood.

In fact, it is also very simple.

Keep your distance, but do not lose intimacy. Do not let men feel that you are an iron fist with empty curves, and do not give people a sense of weakness. The most important thing is to eliminate office romance as much as possible.

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Roadblock 5: fall into the inner circle, swim in the office, fight for benefits in the office, do not give in to each other, inevitably lose both sides.

Yan is a manager of project development of public relations company. She and two managers are always the opposite.

One time, a sponsor of a fashion show launched a fierce competition with the East, resulting in the operation of the company in a crisis. As a result, the sponsor was suspicious of the overall cohesion of Yan Hedong's company and announced that he was withdrawing from the project.

In fact, it is extremely unwise to conduct obvious competition under the same roof. As a result, it often leads to both sides. For the people who are not accustomed to or have conflicts of interest, the best way is to choose a mutually beneficial way, unite as the foundation and avoid contradictions. This shows not only your tolerance but also your overall interests. Remember that taking the overall situation into consideration is the primary quality that the company's decision-makers enjoy.

Roadblock 6: working hard, not fun, will not be idle.

Jing is a staff member of a foreign enterprise. Every day, the job is to work out a contract, statistics the sales situation and work out a market operation plan.

Usually the last person to leave the office every day is exhausted and unable to make any coffee.

At weekends, I just want to sleep in 2 days.

As for leisure and going out, it is simply enough to spare.

Gradually, I found that I was just a working machine. The money in the credit card increased by a few percentage points, but the wrinkles in my eyes also increased exponentially.

Is this what life is all about?

The answer is, of course, negative. For professional women, work is an important part, but there are many things in your life that you can see and enjoy. Don't turn yourself into a slave to work.

Roadblock 7: fear of challenges, unwilling to take risks, and dislike change.

Mei, a gentle and considerate person, is the head of a large company.

Speaking of her secret of success, mearu said, "success requires hard work and a bit of adventure.

In the past, I worked in another department, which was inferior to the previous one.

So I was very satisfied with the status quo. Until one day, the internal reorganization of the company, the boss found me and asked if I would like to expand a new business.

Honestly, at that time, I really had no idea at all, but I finally took the lead.

So, that's the way it is today.

Of course, there are also many efforts and hardships.

There is an old saying that it is hard to succeed without hard work, but it requires hard work and courage.

Overcome fear and face challenges and believe that you can do it.

This is precisely the difference between winners and mediocrity.

Roadblock 8: negative thinking, a grievance and a complaining family.

Some women often get used to making a complaint first when they encounter problems, and rarely start from the reality of the problem, find their own shortcomings, and then solve it.

The manager of an American company is praised by his peers for his openness and openness.

Speaking of this, she said without any disguise: "I was not the way I was before. When I was very happy, when I was not happy, I would complain. It seemed that all the people in the world were against me and made myself unhappy.

Later, I realized that complaining can not solve any problem, and only facing it with positive attitude is the key to solve the problem.

Roadblock 9: what others ask for, I do what I can to say "no" to others.

Many girls often act as obedient women at work.

What other people say, she does it, but the result is often not thankless.

He once worked in a large company and began to work on documents and bank management.

Once, a colleague asked her if she could help to copy hundreds of products.

When he looked at the documents waiting to be processed, he hesitated for a moment and agreed.

I thought it would not take much time, but when he finished his work at hand, he had no time to photocopy. He felt guilty and said that his colleagues were not satisfied. In the eyes of his boss, he became an unworldly man, but he could not bear the big things.

It can be seen that when accepting the appointments of others or superiors, it is extremely important to act according to their abilities, and add too much extra pressure to them. The result can only be counterproductive.

Do a good job in front of others.

Those who are efficient and energetic are the beginning of success.

Roadblock 10: procrastination, not the master of time.

Procrastination without planning is a taboo in the workplace.

Generally speaking, women do things more carefully.

But at the same time, there is a lack of high-level planning and co-ordination arrangements.

In addition, some projects that are not up to their needs are always shelved first, and when they are in a critical juncture, they just do things carelessly and perfunctory. This is a lack of initiative.

To really overcome this obstacle, the first step should be to recognize clearly what we are capable of doing, and never do too much of our own ability. Then we should think deeply about the details, make overall plans, and remind ourselves that we should be alert and efficient.