A Boss Wrote To A Young Woman.

Today, the administration recommends a good quality Liu Xiaojie. I went to my office for an interview. I scanned her resume and saw her through it, but I told her about it. She has been a salesperson. She has changed 3 projects in 4 years, and has been in the middle for a year. She is 28 years old. She has come to our company and hopes to continue to work in the project to receive customers.

There are three types of personnel recruited by our company, one is property consultant, the so-called marketing, one is project sales, the other is marketing, and the third is administrative clerks.

Every time I interview the ladies, they are always willing to do the administration. Secondly, they are sitting and selling. There are very few marketing choices. Even if I tell them that the property consultants have the highest salary, there will be a commission, and they can become managers in the future. It will be very easy for them to move to the administrative department or the project department. They will still not change their choices.

The order of their choice is exactly the opposite of what they earn. In fact, they choose the order of work according to the order of their work. That is to say, they prefer to find a small, stable, idle job, even if they earn little, and the opportunity for appreciation is small. It is a pity that such a person will not even employ her, because they have no devotion or learning at all, unless there is an urgent lack of job.

Their age is 25 years old, some of them are really impressive, but I really worry about their future, because it is very likely that their future will be very troublesome, and will even be miserable for the rest of their lives.

At the most difficult time, they seek comfort, and fall in love when they can learn best, because their plan is to marry and have children before they are 28 years old, so dressing up and making friends is their whole world. Of course, enjoying the happy time of youth is also the most attractive to them. Even if they ask for leave, they will not take it seriously.

Naturally, when they were 28 years old, they were married to a rich or potential man on a regular basis.

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At that time, her husband might still be in the stage of career development. She listened to her husband and resigned home. When he was a full-time wife, some were still working unintentionally until they had children.

For women who have been at the bottom level, the birth of children is almost the end of their careers.

Unless it is a public institution, if it is a general unit, they tend to resign. When they get pregnant and feed their children for half a year, when they get back to work, they will have a headache. First of all, it is not easy to find a leisurely job, because at that time, they can find a job that can be earlier than home. Otherwise, they can not take care of their children and feel uneasy. Secondly, they find that they have to employ their aunt instead of themselves, and that the aunt is more expensive than herself.

The financial burden of the whole family fell on the husband's body. Her husband kept working hard and learning in his career, and constantly kept in touch with his business relationship, improved his quality, improved his position and money, increased his circle of friends, made continuous progress in society, and kept improving his husband.

　　老婆其實也不是那么的忙，孩子上幼兒園了，她一個人，孩子上學了，她還是一個人，偶爾也會和另一個不上班的太太，一起逛街，美容，但是發現，自己和社會 越來越遠，幾次鼓起勇氣要再次步入社會，但是年齡不饒人，原來的基層工作，她不能干，原來干不了的，現在更是干不了，其實這樣的女人，也不會特別的賢惠， 料理家務慢慢的失去了興趣，畢竟是新時代的女性，哪里愿意甘心在家老這么呆著，可是，后悔呀，小得時候沒有認真的讀書，在職的時候沒有學什么，也沒有真正 潛心與任何的行業，沒有一技之長，怎么開始呢，怎么堅持呢，在可以吃苦的時候，享樂了，人生的糖果都吃光了，現在除了不斷的猶豫，影響著心情，甚至還煩擾 著老公．-

But she could bear it. After all, there was a happy home, a loving husband and lovely child.

But she often complained about the trouble of housework. She devoted all her life to the family. Her husband was too lazy to argue with her. Actually, my husband wanted to say that I was fighting for this family.

Her greatest wish is to let her husband have patience with her for a while, but he went home very late. Because of social intercourse, even if he went home, he would not talk, watch TV sleep, and the woman would not let him sleep, quarrel, the husband felt that this woman was becoming more and more difficult to understand, and the woman felt that the man did not seem to love her so much.

Quarrels, for a happy couple, are flirting, but for indifferent couples, they want to break numbness, break numbness, often annoyance, often a complete disgust.

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The different roles of two people in social life determine the great difference between the two people. This difference leads to the reduction of common language, the charm that women have attracted to men, no longer exist, and the domineering and nervous nature, constantly harassing men, until the male has really had an affair.

A woman who lives in fear is unwilling to admit her inferiority. When her husband is asleep, she secretly searches her husband's cell phone. What a pity scene it finds and what it can do.

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A woman's miserable life has begun, and it has long since begun. At this time, she will grow old in loneliness. She will be accompanied by housework, accompanied by television. If she is energetic, she will still be with her family. Of course, in revenge, she will even squander her husband's money. She is not happy or even surfing the Internet. In fact, she can not find anything on the Internet. There may be a rather bored person who will chat with her for her husband.

Her husband not only talked with her little, but also seemed to move very little. In short, hopeless suffering was unsuspense.

If divorced, she would be in despair because life was her whole life.

If a woman has no career and no study at a young age, life has become more and more miserable since her birth.

And career women, constantly enrich themselves, love is not all her life, he and men, too common language, giving birth to her is just a small delay, because she has been in management, I have a decoration company friend, deputy general manager, look like a weak woman, she was before delivery, the boss drove her home, she naturally produced, less than a month ago, I called her, she was on a business trip in Wuhan. The child was very healthy, the family arranged very well. Her example may be extreme, but it shows a lot of questions.

If a man is having an affair, it's really not all because of lewd. To tell you the truth, if you are annoyed at the crux of your career, your wife and you are always nagging at the same time because of your trivial family. You tell her about business management, and you tell her that you are very sleepy because of the discount on the mall. Because of the pressure, she hits you with a pillow, you say how annoying you are, you look at it again, the woman facing the other side is ugly and mouthful. What can you say about such a woman, not only her own suffering, but also her husband's responsibility.

Women who have careers are beautiful to see them move in the world of men. Women in learning are beautiful, talented and comfortable, and live with such women. Joy is unspeakable. They may not be gorgeous as vases, but they will make you quiet, make you sweet, make you happy, and make you respect.

In modern society, the economy is so developed. When a woman is a full-time wife, if it is a woman's decision, it is because she has withdrawn, if it is a man's decision, it is selfish to make a mistake for herself.

I said this to the girl who interviewed me. She said she knew it would be like this, but she still felt that she did not want to endure hardship and take risks. She believed that the man who loved her would not.

What is hardship?

You really haven't seen any hard work. Look at the moving company and the workers on the construction site. Can you make a lot of phone calls in the office?

Is it hard to visit customers in air-conditioned senior office buildings?

Listen to the boss, seriously read the book, check the data on the Internet, calculate hardship?

Such female staff members see their interpersonal relationships very interesting. Their friends in the company are not conducive to business progress, but men are attractive, not to work together, but to play a piece or chat.

This is why the divorce rate is high in China. The so-called Chinese style divorce is constantly occurring, and it seems to me that it will continue to happen.

What is a woman's tool for giving birth to a child? Why should she become a babysitter after giving birth to a child? Should she use all her energy for home? Don't forget, she has been well educated, and she has had dreams. But what has changed her trajectory?

Of course, a man without a career will be even more miserable. His misery is that he has never eaten sugar in his life.

People will feel that the words are extreme and the whole family is the same. After all, the happy family is the same. Unfortunately, families have their own misfortunes. Women should be brought to love. Men should educate their women to be enterprising and look so cold and inconsiderate. Only the boss will be so mean and pragmatic, but this despicable boss gives women equal opportunities to be promoted as men in the company. He grieves over those women who have fought with him, and the female employees who have the talent of business with their blood and blood, quit the stage of career early, and those women who seek equality in their mouths secretly think that women are weak. This article is dedicated to the female employees of the company, because the world is complex.

How attractive a woman is in pursuit of a career, the charm is so heavy, her hard working figure, and the talented talent at any time, how enchanting, and how much she can withstand the scrutiny of the years.

Those who are still innocent, who are good at working and complain of melancholy, if you have no career goal, how can I ask you not to be late for work? I really don't know which day your boyfriend will let you quit if you have a word. They have too much love. They have plenty of time to rest and play. Their future will be spent in the lazy life. What else can I talk with them? I don't think they have any charisma, especially for me. When they quit, I was almost too lazy to pretend to stay.

Because of my jokes, they do not understand, I say the tragedy, they act as a joke.