Female Salesmen Refusing Alcohol In The Process Of Entertainment

It is inevitable that there will be some entertainment in sales, and many Chinese people talk about it at table, and wine is unavoidable at table.

But if it's a woman, how should we deal with them at the wine table and with the big boys?

Alcohol and customers

Saleswoman, it is best to drink, such as alcohol, but also make people feel very smart, and do business, is bold and open-minded. And some customers, mentality is not right, it will be very difficult to deal with. Therefore, a good amount of wine is the most safe.

There are usually three ways to propose a toast to others: the first is to take some non alcoholic beverages and explain why they do not drink.

The second way is to let the other party slightly pour some wine in the cup in front of you, then gently push the bottle open with your hand.

According to etiquette, the wine in the glass is not allowed to drink.

The third way is when the toaster poured wine into his glass, and gently knocked the edge of the glass with his hand. This means "I don't drink, thank you."

"When your host or friends give you a warm toast, do not hide away from them. Do not turn over the glass, or pour the wine that others respect on the ground.

Don't refuse to drink. If you don't drink to others, it's rude, especially if you drink with your superiors or clients.

If you can't drink strong spirits, you can put the cup on your lips to make a symbolic move.

If you have wine in your glass, you can not drink it. When you propose a toast, you will embarrass your host by holding an empty cup.

These are only theoretical ones. They really get the truth. To be honest, they can understand people if they understand them. If they really encounter people who do not drink, they will be useless.

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The advice for female salesmen is:

One is to shield the child by spear.

The advocates of alcohol use the tactics of restraining the first to raise. First, flatter you as "superior" and "friend". The implication is that if you do not drink, you are not worthy of being a "superior man" and not worthy of being a friend.

Then you can say in reverse: "if you want me to drink, it's killing me.

If you take me as a friend, do not harm me.

"The implication is that if you want me to drink, you are not good enough friends! Because the wine users have a mentality: to drink or to drink, they must be friends and brothers.

To seize this weakness and fight back, the persuaded man is forced to shut up because of his friend's feelings.

Second: pretend to be foolish.

If the other person tries to persuade you to drink, you can put on a bold look and say, "I wouldn't drink, but the brotherly feelings of your brothers make me drink."

Today, I will sacrifice my life to be a gentleman, and I will be drunk for you! "

Then you are drunkenness and inaction, and you will not let anyone push or shout.

If the other person thinks you are making a fool of yourself, he will never come to you again.

Third: Thirty-six plan to go.

When the above two methods are not able to cope, there is only one excuse to "go away".

This excuse is better than an unexpected situation. It makes people feel that you have the necessity of temporary withdrawal ("temporary" is very important).

If you arrange third things before, let him call you at a critical moment: "Mr., you have an urgent call.

"You can do it and leave it:" I'm sorry, everyone! I'll go straight away and come right away.

"Just hide away from the banquet and come back to say a few apologies when the banquet is over.

The other side will not care too much about your good faith deception.

However, these are only used by friends or peers, but not for superiors or clients.

Then you have to think of another way: the smile refuses the wine, the wisdom is flexible.

Many people find that quite a number of alcoholics who refuse to drink alcohol are allowed to make a big move to persuade you. He is smiling and drinking frequently.

On the day of Zhang's relocation, he invited his relatives and friends to congratulate Xiao Li, but Li seldom drank alcohol, and he could not afford to drink.

At the banquet, Xiao Wang proposed to separate the meaning with Xiao Li. Xiao Li was very aware of the depth of his drinking volume. He was busy getting up and smiling as a whole.

Don't mention it.

"You see, I am so full of face that I can't help you."

Highlight facts, refrain from alcohol, and wisdom in affirming the situation.

Facts speak louder than words.

If we can refrain from drinking, if we can highlight the facts, declare the actual situation, and match proper language, we will persuade the urge to stop and stop.

A Jun participated in a birthday party, B Jun has not met with Mr. A for a long time, he proposed to drink three glasses with A Jun.

A Jun said, "your kindness has been brought to me. Unfortunately, I have been in a bad mood for a while. I am taking medicine. I have been drinking for a long time, so I have to ask you to take care of it.

Fortunately, there will be a long day. I will meet with you later, and I will be drunk with you in the future. OK? "This statement, guests have praised, B Jun has to give up.

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In view of the consequences, refusing to drink, wisdom is a warning to others.

Of course, drinking is to drink well but not to drink, so that the guests will come to enjoy it and enjoy it.

In the final analysis, that kind of unrealistic urge to drink is only for the purpose of pouring people down, which at best can only be said to be a low interest wine making technique, which is a taboo for drinking.

As a passive person, when the wine has been drunk to half the quantity, we should explain the situation to the host or the wine users.

For example, "thank you for your kindness to me. I only had 32 of the wine. Because I was very satisfied with it today, I drank a few more cups, and I drank it again."

After such an excuse, no more drink.

This kind of refusal to drink with real consequences and hidden dangers will be good as long as those who urge them to understand the truth of "joy and sorrow".

Instead of defending, attacking wine, wisdom is playing a leading role.

Instead of defending, it means to remain silent, listen to its words and wait for the opportunity. Once the time is ripe, we should seize the "breakthrough point" in the dialects, so as to cut into the opposite direction and make the other side incapable of arguing, so as to make wine.

On the day of Liu's wedding anniversary, when a banquet comes to a climax, a "brewmaster" seems to be drunk but not drunk. He asks three guests to blow a bottle together.

Facing the aggressive words of "immortals", one of the three guests stood up and said, "I would like to ask you a question," three people go, there must be my teacher. "Is this Confucius's words?" the "immortals" immediately answered, "yes.

"The visitor sees his already person" trap, then said: "since the sage said," three people walk, there must be my teacher ", and you propose that we two people together drink, you are now our two best teachers, please show the bottle first. How about this?" this sudden blow made the "immortals" helpless, speechless, and had to lift the "wine order". This refusal to drink is wonderful.

Quietly put a "trap", to induce it to say (or agree) with their own similar views, invaded the urn, then "gather traps", "Nuo" attack "noo", fighting against the strike, to achieve the goal of winning the wine.

Finally, it is even more difficult for you to pay attention to the amount of alcohol you can't afford.

Sometimes alcohol is not acceptable. You still need to drink at that time.

It is recommended that you take some waking medicine with you (such as the kind of food you eat in advance), such as the king of the sea king, the vitamin C of Amway or the B family. You can see that the situation is really out of the way. It is to eat 3 grains first.

The effect is different from person to person, but it can protect the intestines and stomach.