Neutral Wind Spread On Campus, Parents Panic.

Girl: suit and short haircut boy: long hair and long hair for beauty. "Daughter, like a boy, does not like braids, does not like to wear skirts, will there be sexual orientation?"

The "neutral" trend of children's behavior and costumes has become one of parents' worries about growing up.

Reporters found that fashion girls cut short hair, wear a suit and tie, and love beautiful boys with long hair and clothes.

Relevant experts said that as long as we set up the correct gender view from childhood, "neutral wind" as a fashion trend is a manifestation of social pluralism, and it is not a bad thing.

The "neutral wind" sprouted at school and worried about children's sexual orientation. "Daughters, like boys, do not like braids and do not like to wear skirts."

When I was young, I was very cute, but I didn't mind being a son.

As my daughter grew up, physical changes took place, but still I was dressed up so masculine.

Moreover, men dressed up and boys' characters seldom associate with the opposite sex. They even hate to go with boys, but they are just like the same sex friends.

Mother suspected that her daughter had homosexual tendencies and did not dare to say more. She was afraid to say more about her daughter's learning, not to mention that she was afraid of letting herself go.

Mother is in a dilemma... "

Last week, 12355 Shanghai youth public service platform and Shanghai public mail box website jointly released questionnaires, including 21 common scenes of adolescent family education, to explore the joys and sorrows of adolescent family education.

The above case is one of 21 typical cases of adolescence.

For children with similar performance, some parents choose to tell their children directly, which is not right. They do not allow their daughters to be too close to each other. Some parents turn to their teachers for teachers to intervene with themselves. Only a few parents say they will encourage children to interact with the opposite sex and find out the answers to their questions from their children's quest.

12355 Chen Xiaoya, a member of the expert committee, told reporters that the most important thing for parents to talk about is to interact with the opposite sex.

"Many parents do not understand the psychological growth of puberty children, and taboos in traditional culture have constrained parents' thinking."

Chen Xiaoya said that although parents know that there is a standardized and limited opposite sex interaction is not a bad thing, but it is difficult to grasp, so we can only take a "stick kill", "just in case" a simple way of education, constantly pushing themselves and children to the peak of conflict.

At the same time, many parents believe that children usually wear school uniforms in school. Girls cut their short hair for the purpose of physical education. "Even if the children are dressed very neutral, as long as the child is not" puppy love "and does not affect learning, the problem is not big.

Therefore, more and more female middle school students follow the trend, and dress up with jeans, military boots, baseball caps, men's bags, etc., and parents are allowed to let themselves go, making this "neutral wind" spread rapidly in schools.

The reporter investigates "crossover" consumption, dressing style, anti sex "this" neutral dress "makes me very bright at parties.

Yesterday afternoon, Miss Li, who worked in a public relations company in the city, was wearing a man's white shirt and black jacket, which was bought in a men's clothing brand.

"Since the 90s of last century, the" neutral trend "has always been the main style of the fashion industry. With the diversification of clothing styles," women's men's wear "has been accepted by more people.

Liu Xiaogang, vice president of Fashion Design College of Donghua University, said.

Reporters then learned from many men's clothing stores in the city that dressing up trumpet clothes in men's clothing stores has become the new favorite of many fashionable women.

Miss Zhang, a famous brand marketing manager, told reporters that "women wear men's wear" has become a very normal phenomenon. It is also a way for fashion lovers to express their individuality and give people a refreshing feeling.

And women who are keen on wearing men's clothing are usually young people between 15-30 years old.

"In fact, the fashion design is no longer a strict distinction between men's clothing and women's wear."

Vice President Liu Xiaogang said that from a professional point of view, some design elements of men's clothing and women's clothing have actually been integrated with each other.

For example, the bright colors such as yellow, red, green and so on commonly used in women's clothing also began to appear in men's wear design; some men's wear design adopted the waist cultivation's tailoring, and patterns, stripes and sequins began to be embodied in men's clothing design.

Men's beauty is very popular. Many children cut their hair shorter than boys, and appear more rigid. But men often go to hairdresser to care for "soft curly hair" and become a "hair toss" family.

Going to beauty salons is no longer a patent for women. More and more men who love beauty regularly go to beauty salons to do basic skin care.

On the Luo Jin Road in Minhang District, a professional beauty salon, which produced "men's beauty and skin care", attracted many male customers.

The head of the beauty shop told reporters that beauty care services for men can also dispel worries from many men who love beauty. "Many men worry that if they go to a beauty shop dominated by female customers, they will attract attention and feel embarrassed."

In the shopping mall cosmetics area, men's figure is no longer rare.

According to a cosmetics saleswoman, men buy skin care products nowadays, and they are very generous.

As male consumers increased, they also added men's cosmetics counters.

Many girls like to use men's perfume, because the perfume of women's perfume is strong, while men's perfume is more quiet and dignified, and is very popular with professional women.

Masculine shopping guide cosmetics into the high-end shopping malls, the cosmetics counters for female customers not only have more male customers, but also increase the number of sales men.

Yesterday, reporters at nine sea Baisheng saw that at least 6 cosmetics counters had men's shopping guide.

Yesterday afternoon, the reporter saw a famous cosmetics cosmetics shop on the two floor of nine sea Baisheng. A young male salesperson was very "overlooking". Tight pants, short boots, smoked makeup and long eyelashes made many customers unable to distinguish his gender.

"This nail polish matches your complexion very well. Let me try it for you."

Not only is he wearing amazing clothes, but also the men's shopping guide's skin care and make-up skills are very skilled, and his passion makes it more difficult for female customers to refuse.

"Now many makeup artists and beauticians are men, and of course, there will be men involved in the shopping guide."

A male shopping guide said he liked the job very much.

Reporters learned that many high-end cosmetics counters have male shopping guide, on the one hand is to better communicate with male customers, on the other hand, I hope this way can attract women.

"Of course, as a guide, the most basic thing is to understand the beauty make-up skills, good at communicating with people."

Relevant staff of a brand marketing department said that many men are very interested in make-up and Cosmetology, which is the main reason for the increasing number of male cosmetics shopping guide.

[expert opinion] the misconception of "gender neutral" and "neutral wind" are related to the only child generation.

Psychological experts at the Shanghai youth service platform say that girls wear men's clothing and boys' skin care and beauty, which are the embodiment of individuality and hope that parents and society can be tolerant.

"This trend is actually related to the only child generation."

After 80 or 90 years of age, the only child is gradually moving towards society. Their childhood education tends to be relatively neutral.

Girls must learn to be strong when they are young, and sometimes too indulgent for boys' education.

This tendency is normal, because in reality, both men and women are equal in school, job hunting and work.

However, it does not exclude that the "Neutralization" of a few people is due to the dislocation of gender education in the process of growth, such as fear and heterosexual communication, which requires psychological intervention.

"It is best to cultivate healthy gender attitudes from childhood."