Being A Boss Is Hard And Precious.

Many people want to be bosses before they become bosses. Entrepreneurs college It seems that if you want to be a boss, you must make preparations for the ten major torture.

1, the pain of choice.

To achieve a certain scale, bosses are natural. However, it is followed by the choice of the direction of enterprise development. The pain of such thinking is incomprehensible to employees.

Should enterprises grow or expand? If the enterprises need further development, do their own job or invite professional managers, and face all kinds of contradictions between dealing with bosses and professional managers. When the contradiction occurs, professional managers can go on the butt of their butt, but the boss still has to pick up a mess. It will be a big shadow like Huang Hongsheng and Lu Qianghua's leaving the boss.

2, the pain of risk

The bigger the business, the greater the risk of making mistakes. Now, most of the owners of small and medium-sized enterprises are successful on the basis of China's reform and opening up opportunities.

If the boss succeeds, there must be some success. For example, some people are diligent and some are smart. But they inevitably have short cultivation, including knowledge accomplishment and realm culture. Many times, he did not know whether his approach was right or wrong. Even touching the law, the final legal consequences must be borne by the boss himself.

　 3, the pain of family

In such a position, the boss pays much more than the average person. Calculate the boss's working hours, arrive at the office at eight o'clock in the morning, meet at noon or accompany people to eat, receive various kinds of people in the afternoon, and entertain in the evenings, even more painful than the ordinary three escorts.

By the time we got home, the baby slept and the wife slept. The roles of the boss and wife were like two professions, one was the professional boss, the other was a professional housewife. Because of lack of communication, it is increasingly impossible for them to resonate.

In addition to family members, brothers and so on. After being a boss, some brothers and sisters became enemies because of the conflict of interests. Some are good friends who do business together. They start very well. To a certain extent, everyone's ideas are different. Some say that they have to continue to develop and are in urgent need of money. Investment No money back. Finally, the pain of the broken arm of Hu Zhi - style.

4, physical pain

I'd rather have a small hole in my stomach, or a small seam in my feelings. Many bosses not only work at their brains, but also interact with people of all kinds. As a result, the belly is big, the hair is gone, and the body is broken.

The boss's success cost him a lot of money. In fact, the boss's time is arranged by the secretary. The boss often becomes the slave of the secretary. The bigger the boss, the more he has no time to arrange his life. So a boss like Wang Junyao is absolutely dead tired.

　 5, the pain of loneliness

The boss has a wide circle of communication, but the scenery is only on the surface. It is not clear about the relationship between the government and the government and officials, but there may be cracks in communication with family members and family members.

When the enterprise develops to a certain extent, it is impossible for the company's worried boss to talk with his wife about the company's affairs, nor can he tell her friends, because this is a business secret. The boss can only discuss with several important leaders, but the relationship between subordinates and bosses is always superior and subordinate. Apart from the distance, the boss can not tell all his subordinates. With worries, you can't tell your family, you can't talk to your friends, and you can't tell your subordinates that they are cold.

There are a lot of people who play games with professional managers on Saturday, but they seldom find them, because no one wants to be with their boss. You can't just go out, you can't do things casually. The boss's every move must take into account the image of the company and enjoy the so-called normal happiness.

　 6, the pain of wealth

Many bosses have more money than money. In particular, the owners of small and medium-sized enterprises, taking into account the safety of wealth, wear and eat more than before.

Some bosses are getting numb on holidays because disguised blackmail is always happening. Sometimes the boss looks big, actually smaller than anyone else. He has to go to black and white two ways, and the big and small departments are going to burn incense. Who let you have billions of dollars? Even small bully gamble gambling lose, see where the boss is big, tell him directly, how much money I lost, how much money do you get for me? This is very common in the Pearl River Delta.

　　 7, the pain of safety

Which boss does not offend people in his business? Therefore, the boss is always worried about his own safety, and even arranges bodyguards at home. Some employers even have their own places to wash their heads and eat, and so on. They can't enjoy the colorful life of ordinary people.

Many bosses, especially the owners of small and medium-sized businesses, have become a form of malformation for their children's education. They dare not let their children play with other children, send their children to the noble school, instead of considering the good educational environment of the school, but considering the high safety coefficient, the children will be sent in, and the gate will not be safe if they fail. On Saturday, many bosses take their children to work, not to cultivate them, but to place their children in any place. Their origins were destined for their lives.

8, the pain of metamorphosis.

There is a popular saying in the PRD circle: bosses are not people. Chinese bosses, especially small and medium-sized enterprises, are increasingly unable to get along with normal life, including abnormal interpersonal relationships and abnormal mentality.

For example, some bosses will have a second wife. In a sense, this may be an outlet for their own suppression of life, but in fact, this is an abnormal life. Such things are often traded in money rather than real feelings. The cost of such a practice may be very big for the boss, so the extortion is so heavy that the boss will introduce the person into the company and become the two master, which will probably cause a lot of cracks to the management of the whole enterprise.

For example, some bosses will gamble or even take drugs. From the perspective of Buddhist interpretation, this kind of life is a disease - labor and disease. Having money and not knowing what to do, excessive enjoyment of eating, drinking, whoring and gambling is labor and disease.

For example, some bosses are very superstitious. Due to congenital inadequacy of knowledge structure, there are always Boss Inexplicably earned money, and somehow baffled his own business. Because of the lack of vision of the problem of thinking, the boss, like the ancient people, can only turn to superstition and worship when he does not understand natural phenomena.

9, the pain of responsibility

Anyone can die, but the boss can't die. No matter what boss, big or small, there are hundreds of people, thousands of people, tens of thousands of people waiting for him to beg for food. If his departure leads to the bankruptcy of enterprises, many people are faced with the re selection of posts, and even the whole industry may have an impact. The invisible boss has made great contributions to the society, but it is these missions that make the boss have to face other pain: the society's hatred of the rich and his physical and mental exhaustion.

Because of the wealth culture that has been formed in Chinese Society for a long time, these capitalists are under considerable pressure from the public opinion. In addition, when everyone is tired, social responsibilities, market competition and all kinds of interpersonal relationships force the bosses to quit their career stage freely. When the giant failed, everyone was scolding Shi Yuzhu. The pressure and social pressure he had assumed were not what ordinary people could imagine. He had smoked five packs of cigarettes a night.

10, the pain of learning

whether enterprise As a learning organization, or the boss himself needs to change his learning, many bosses are working and studying. But a successful person often uses past experience to measure today's experience. Before it can be successful, is it possible to do it now? However, a person who is eager to surpass himself has to face the pain of reforming himself.