You Need A Little Bit Of Insensitivity To Get Along With Your Boss.

< p > "dull feeling" sounds connected with negative words such as slow and dull, but it is actually "the means and wisdom to win a good life".

As a way of life and intelligence, it is easier to gain inner balance by having a sense of insensitivity.

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< p > Japanese writer Junichi Watanabe believes that "insensitivity" can be literally plated as "dull power", that is, to face the setbacks and pains in life calmly, and move forward in a firm direction.

In terms of wisdom of life, insensitivity is much stronger than oversensitivity.

No matter what circumstances and circumstances, we have the right sense of insensitivity, we can quickly change our mood and stubbornly rush through difficulties.

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< p > modern society is not short of < a href= "http://www.91se91.com/news/index_c.asp" > smart person < /a >. It also needs smart people. However, many smart people are not necessarily good things.

Smart people tend to be conceited and despise Zhang three for looking down on Lee four. Sincere cooperation is not likely; smart people always stare at the shortcuts and only use their heads.

Who is willing to cooperate with such people? But those foolish looking and stupid people are committed to doing things in a solid way, making every person who works with him full of trust.

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< p > the word "insensitive" comes from the Japanese writer Junichi Watanabe. In 2006, he published the book "obtuse force" which set the wisdom of his life, and sold 1 million copies in Japan.

Junichiro Koizumi, who had just left the post of prime minister, reminded his successor Abe Shinzo: "the prime minister should not care about everything, but the sense of indifference is very important."

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< p > this seems to be contrary to the idea of "active" being instilled from small to large.

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< p > schools need to seize opportunities and perform well, and strive to become active and challenging students. In the workplace, they need to be sensitive to their surroundings and have a keen insight into the market. In love, they need to take the initiative in finding their other half and strive for happiness in their whole life.

So we live in the present life, career, marriage and communication.

We always have to bear too much pressure and get used to being sensitive.

We are more and more calculating, do not understand tolerance and release.

More importantly, when we unconsciously repeat this "positive" habit in our lives, we find that life is busy and boring.

We are tired physically and mentally, but inevitably we are tired of life.

We pay a lot, but we never see the hope of success.

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< p >, so we began to reflect, instead of taking everything into account and taking care of everything, making others tired and tired, we should change our thinking, discard "sensitivity", cultivate "insensitive", and face life in a more relaxed and peaceful environment.

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Compared to radical, assertive and rigid, P is able to persist in the workplace for a longer time and be more resistant to stress, thus making it easier to succeed.

As Junichi Watanabe said, there is not only the ability of keen intelligence in the world, but also the most insignificant talent in life, rather than the insensitive feeling which is not shaken by adversity and setbacks. Only by having such a sense of obtuse, keen and sensitive can it become a real talent and play its due role in the way of life.

Whether a person can succeed or not depends not only on talent but also on "obtuse", which is a necessary condition for success.

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< p >, in dealing with < a href= "http://www.91se91.com/news/index_c.asp" > interpersonal relationship < /a >, "obtuse force" is more precious.

In this age of smart people, intelligence is no longer a rarity. Not many people like those who are smart enough to be smart.

On the contrary, those dull looking, blunt, kind and simple people have become the "treasure" of this astute era.

Working with such a boss, having such a colleague or even a lover will make many people feel at ease.

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< p > < strong > < < a href= > http://www.91se91.com/news/index_c.asp > > insensitive force < /a > five iron laws < /strong > /p >

< p >, how do we develop dull sense? Please remember the following five rules: < /p >

< p > 1. quickly forget the unhappy things.

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< p > 2., we must continue to challenge our goals even if we fail.

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< p > 3. calmly faced with gossip.

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< p > 4. is often grateful for jealousy and satire.

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< p > 5., in recognition of praise, be insatiable.

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