Chinese Lies (Too Talented!) All Kinds Of Celebrity Children'S "Pit Daddy" Behavior!!!

Today, the media are reporting every day of all kinds of celebrity children.

Behavior, netizens are also strange, such as "creating sexual relations in turn" by creations of Li Tianyi, obedient son Jaycee Chan, drug jailed, Zhang Mo of national actor Guoli Zhang's two degree imprisonment, etc., all of which can be regarded as the most "pit father" star two generation of entertainment circle in the past year, but conversely, the son is not a godfather, the star son takes the wrong road, in essence, is the responsibility of her parents, especially from the media "Jackie Chan" and "Guoli Zhang" and other stars in the growth of children's "wonderful" education mode.

The case of Chinese parents "pit children" is not in the minority.

Recently, the tall hat of "China's good son" was firmly placed on the 7 year old boy in Guangxi: a man was unconscious after being drunk at night, and his 7 year old son returned to his drunken father for more than 20 kilometers in a motorized tricycle, and the boy seemed to be accustomed to being a skilled tricycle.

Perhaps this is not a big deal for a drunken father. It is obvious that he did not realize how dangerous the child's behavior is. It is illegal. Even from the inside, he may feel honored and proud of the young child's driving on the road.

Therefore, after tracing the root, the behavior of the little boy was approved by his father, which was guided by the false success of his father's heart.

As a matter of fact, a 7 year old child belongs to a person without legal capacity in China's law.

Speaking of this, Xiaobian had to mention the "children pit" behavior of the stars at the beginning.

It is reported that Jackie Chan is busy with his work. Jaycee Chan has been urinating with Joan Lin since he was urinating. Jaycee Chan wrote in prison that he was born in a celebrity's home. Although he had no worries from his childhood, he had no plans for future and had invisible pressure when he grew up. His father did not care.

And he seldom saw his father from small to large, so he could not get his father like other children in time.

And care.

Therefore, when the heart is depressed, there is no place to talk about, no one can communicate, can not get timely guidance and catharsis, leading to the road of drug abuse.

There is no one, Zhang Mo drug abuse, but also because of the divorce of their own parents, father Guoli Zhang feel ashamed of their son particularly spoiled Zhang Mo, almost everything is responsive.

In an interview show, Guoli Zhang mentioned his son's drug abuse and repeatedly claimed responsibility.

It can be imagined that the importance of the role of a father in the growth of Chinese children may not even be known to the father. In the traditional culture, fathers are in an authoritative position. In some families, the concept of "Jun Jun Chen Chen, father and son" is deep-rooted. Sometimes the father is not convinced of his lack of education in his children, but I do not know that it is your "Absence" that causes the child's lifelong regret.

Therefore, the child education circle Xiaobian feel that it is necessary to give your fathers a list of the ten educational concepts of "pit children" in their father's education.

Dad quickly opened his eyes to see if he was shooting himself.

A man is responsible for earning money outside the family.

This pattern is not difficult to find in many families. Some fathers are busy with their work all day. They never participate in their parents' meetings or school activities. They feel that making money and supporting their families is what they should do as a father.

This is a very wrong idea. Jackie's family is an example.

According to Jaycee Chan once mentioned, when Jackie Chan was young, he was busy with his work and was not very disciplined. Once, Jackie Chan suddenly remembered to pick him up from school, and waited for a long time at the school gate. He didn't see anyone until he learned that Jaycee Chan had been in high school and had never studied in that school.

Even if his son had been absent from high school for a long time, he could not see how much responsibility Jackie Chan had in his children's education. He could not blame Jaycee Chan for all the "accusations" that Jackie Chan finally had in prison.

Two, the patriarchal power is high above all, and must not be touched.

The times are changing, and the traditional patriarchal concept of China is no longer suitable for the development of modern family education. Children are more eager to be friends with their fathers and communicate with their fathers about learning and living problems. If you are a father, you have been faced with children with a severe face. After a long time, the child naturally has an estrangement with you. The generation gap also arises. Once the child has any problems, he will not turn to his father or discuss with his father. Mentally immature children are easy to make a wrong decision, many times until the child is out of trouble, when his father starts to regret it.

Three, men are not born with children.

Some fathers also feel that their participation in family education is very important, but they think that they lack the motherhood of their mothers, and feel that they are careless and unable to take care of the children. They try to give their children the whole time to their wives, and mistakenly believe that even if they work hard, children generally prefer to stick to their mothers, so they simply give up their busy work and get along with their children less and less.

But I do not know in the eyes of children, you do not accompany me is that you do not love me, I naturally do not kiss you.

Four, daddy sing black face, mother sing white face.

In Peking Opera facial make-up, black faces are severe.

In family education in China, this role is usually played by the father; the white face expresses harmony, and the mother plays the role in the family, and "strict father and loving mother" is the educational idea of many families.

But in fact, a black faced person is often unable to establish good parent-child relationship with their children. In the past, children used to have a sense of distance from such a father. At the same time, they would take different ways to treat their parents, closer to their mothers, and more estranged from their fathers.

Five, firmly believe in the model of "filial piety" under the club.

Some fathers are very concerned about their children's education. They take a strict attitude towards their children's learning and life. Just like Shimode Takako, they habitually deny their children.

I remember a child once asked the child education circle, "teacher, do you think I look good?" Xiao Bian said, "you are beautiful."

She said, "but in my opinion, I am a very ugly girl. No one will like me." Xiaobian was very surprised. Later, it was learned that her father was very cold to her from small to large, and no matter what she did, she thought she could do better and never praised.

The little girl's academic achievement is pretty good, but it is a little self abased and introverted.

Six, this is for you, you must listen to me.

Many parents like to adopt the way of sermon.

But in fact, the power of example is far superior to sermon.

Psychological research has found that if a child has impulsive control problems, his father's behavior is always very impulsive. His father is a learning example for his children. If he does not do well, he always asks his child to do that. The result is that the child is too annoyed to get better education results.

Seven, "to take care of your father's life" is the dream of the next generation.

Most of these fathers have a common feature: "boys are more boys than girls". Girls indulge in indifference, but boys have to shoulder big responsibilities.

For example, the father did not realize his wish, and forced his life goal to be imposed on his son.

Xiaobian once met a dad who was not admitted to a famous university when he was young, and he instilled this idea from his childhood: "you have to go to this university, and your father's hope is always on you."

Children bear great psychological pressure from childhood. Every time their performance is slightly unsatisfactory, they feel that they have failed their father's hardships. The anxiety in the past has been accompanied by him for a long time, and the whole person seems to be very angry.

Eight, the habit of "packaging" oneself, become the hero of children's mind.

Every child has a heroic complex. His father's tall and magnificent image is also the most adored object in childhood, and it is understandable to set up this image in front of the children. But this kind of father obviously has done a bit too much.

In order to be an example to their children, they pretend to be in front of their children, just like Zhou Puyuan, father of Zhou Puyuan in the thunderstorm.

Of course, Xiaobian does not mean that this kind of father is as bad as Zhou Puyuan, but it can be hidden to the point that when a child finds out that his father is not always perfect, and when all kinds of unreal feelings appear, the child is easily injured or even no longer trusts his father.

Nine, the sense of superiority is overflowing, and habit shows itself in front of everyone.

As parents are the closest children, many words and actions will deeply affect their children.

When Dad talks with his children's teachers or parents, he likes to reveal his family's sense of superiority, full of superiority, habit of raising his eyelids to look at people, and at the same time spoiling his children too much, so that his child can feel a very different feeling from others. For a long time, the child also starts to breed pride and vanity in this environment, and becomes like his father to show off to his classmates. Slowly the children begin to be excluded from their classmates, and their interpersonal relationship is in crisis. Parents are anxious that their children will not make friends at school, but they do not know that their behavior is "pit" with children who have learned.

Ten, men should be male chauvinism.

Whether a little man is a little man who has been formed since childhood is not known, but some of his father's male chauvinism is serious. In the present words, it is the late stage of straight man's cancer. He thinks that "three wives and four concubines" are all men's common dreams. Their private lives are indiscreet, they are fond of playing with emotions and reveal all kinds of bad information to their children. There are studies that most of these men have a derailed father in their childhood. Such a generation influences the generation, and the children receive all kinds of information pmitted by their father except for their quarrelling parents all day long.

Fromm, a German philosopher, said: "father is one of the children's mentors. He refers to children's way to the world.

Although father can not represent the natural world, it represents the other pole of human existence.

Whether the star son or the "good son of China" in ordinary people's homes, even with superior material environment, the absence or anomie of father education is harmful to the growth of children, and may even lead children to the path of crime when they grow up.