You Should Increase Your Life Skills.

1. people tend to remember the first thing and the last thing. The middle thing is not clear. So, if you want to introduce yourself, you'd better be the first or the last. The same is true during the interview.

2. if you work in a bar or front desk, put a mirror behind you. In this way, when a customer loses his temper, he can see his ugly face from the mirror. A mirror can significantly reduce their probability of making trouble.

3. after the offer, no longer speak. If you do it Sales work This technique is very useful. In other areas, this technique is also very useful. I used to work in a gym selling membership cards. There's an old guy who guides me like this. He said, once you have finished greeting with customers, you have reported your price. From this point on, the first one will lose. It seems to be groundless, but it does look like this. Usually there will be a long time of embarrassment and silence, but in the end, customers will buy it.

4. if you ask someone a question, then they answer half, you wait, they will finish. Just wait and keep eye contact. In the end, they will finish talking.

5. when speaking in public or before bungee jumping, chewing gum will be fine. It is said that when people are in danger, they will stop chewing (eating) automatically, so they are safe when eating. That's what the brain tells you. It worked for me anyway.

6. people will eventually remember not what you said, but how you made them feel. Almost all people like to talk about their own affairs, so ask more questions.

7. when you learn something new, try to teach your friends, or ask them to ask you questions. If you can teach someone a glass of water, you will surely have a bucket of water.

8., if you see someone, be happy and be happy, then they will dance to you later. It may not be the first time, but the second time must be.

9. the response of the body to stress - breathing acceleration and heartbeat - is the same as that of courage. So it's good or bad. It's all in your mind. Anyway, your body is ready. You can do it.

10. pay attention to the feet of others. When you join others' conversation, you find that others just turn the upper part of the body, and your feet keep the same direction. That means they do not welcome you. Similarly, when you talk with your colleagues, you feel that he is concentrating on talking with you, his body is also facing you, but his feet are not directed toward you. He may have already been unable to endure this conversation.

Eleven Pretend to be bull Until you do it; confidence is more important than knowing. Don't be intimidated by anyone, life is not easy, all depends on acting, and those who frighten you are also acting.

12. you pretend to be what you will become. If you pretend to be compelled to strive for benevolence, you will never forget.

13. though it is not for you to frighten people, if you must stare at someone with impudent gaze, gather your eyes in the middle of their eyes and wait for them to be shy. If they move away, they will not look at you again. At this time, you can stare at their eyes unscrupulously. At least 45 seconds.

14. establish networking. Become the source of information for friends, of course, they will also be your source of information. It's good to have a drink with your former colleagues.

15. if the car in front of you is as slow as grandpa is driving, you can't wait to kill him. Pretend he's your real grandfather. Then your anger is gone.

16. stand straight. No slouch, no hand pockets and high head. Don't think this is cliche. You will feel good about yourself, and people around you will feel your confidence as well.

17. do not say "I think" or "I think" unless it is really necessary. These words will make you feel less confident, and it will do you no good.

18. when you are anxious, clean up your home or work table. You will be happier and more sensitive than before.

19. the first meal, the first wine, please. You don't know how long you feel good about yourself.

20. for parents, please note: give children the right to choose, let them think they control their own lives. For example, when I want children to wear their shoes, I will ask him, "do you want to wear those stars or sharks?" It is worth noting that this is also good for adults.

21. attitude determines action, but action determines attitude. As my former teacher said, you can dance because you are happy, and you can also dance deliberately to please yourself.

22. when a group of people laugh, people will immediately look at the closest people in this group.

23. if you want to establish a close relationship with someone, or get someone's trust, learn from his body. posture 。

24. Benjamin Franklin effect. Those who lend money will remember more clearly than others who owe money to others, and they will automatically feel good about borrowers. Flirting is also very useful. "Lend me a pencil, mate." Or joke to ask the girl to buy you a drink. This is a thing of three birds: you get the advantage; she will like you more subconsciously; in the future, she will be even more burdened by your "help".