Sick Child, Eight Chengdu Hurt His Heart.

I feel very sick about emotional illness.

Because I don't know how much this will affect the children, many children with serious illnesses are basically caused by the bad atmosphere at home.

I now encounter more and more children's problems, which are actually related to the atmosphere of the children's home.

Do parents have an old attitude of anxiety, is it stressful, and so on?

If children are in such a family atmosphere, if they are affected by exogenous factors and other factors, they may easily develop to the wide and deep areas, some of them are tic disorders, others are other diseases.

1. parents' bad mood and pressure will make children spleen deficiency.

Parents' bad mood and pressure will make

In addition to the frequently seen examples in reality, Chinese medicine also had great foresight in theory.

In the theoretical system of Chinese medicine, the five zang organs and the five elements correspond to each other. Among them, the spleen and stomach belong to the soil and the liver is the wood. What is the relationship between wood and earth?

Wood is earth like, like trees in nature can fix and control soil. Planting trees can prevent soil erosion.

The liver is a tree. It grows like a tree. If a person is always in a bad mood and has nowhere to grow, he will feel uncomfortable and depressed. Then the liver will feel depressed and stagnant and then burst into other directions.

Lengthwise, not lengthwise.

What will happen?

That is to say, a person's bad mood will lead to a defect in his spleen and stomach system. This is the relationship between Chinese medicine and Chinese medicine.

Many people with poor spleen and stomach are caused by anxiety and nervousness.

Why do some people get angry when they are eating, the stomach is in pain, and the stomach will also ache after getting angry again. This is actually the emotional disorder that causes the disease of the spleen and stomach system. It is the result of the liver and the trees that oppose the spleen and the spleen.

So, in a bad mood, many people will feel their own.

The stomach is also uncomfortable; there are people who want to go to the toilet and diarrhea every time they take the exam, which shows that the spleen and stomach are actually closely related to emotions, and some even say that the gut is the second brain of human beings.

In the process of training children, if you give children too much pressure, make him anxious and nervous, then the child's spleen and stomach system will be abnormal, after abnormal, the body's ability to absorb nutrients will decline, growth and development will easily be a problem, triggering various diseases we will talk about later, because the spleen and stomach can not absorb food nutrients, it is lack of righteousness, righteousness is not enough, resistance is not enough, it is easy to get sick.

So, sometimes you find that your child has been under intense academic pressure recently, and then he has caught a fire, and then he caught a cold. Why?

If you do not understand this reason to treat, the effect is often very poor.

But if you can regulate your mood well, relax your liver, or use a little bit of liver fire, your spleen and stomach function is normal.

2. parents may be sick if their parents disagree.

I once met an old man who came to me with her eighteen year old grandson.

The old man told me, "the child is sweating at night."

At that time, when I saw the child sitting there, I knew he was not simply a night sweating, because he twitched all over the body every twenty seconds or more than thirty seconds, especially his mouth and neck. He would wriggle to the side and jerk and twist again. The child's eyes were straight and his expression was stiff and not rich at all. His grandmother said he had this problem when he was young.

I said to the grandmother, "I have seen many such children. There are many causes of the disease. But the most important psychological factors are three points: first, children's parents are not feeling well, and quarrels and fights will affect children.

Second, the relationship between mother in law and daughter-in-law in a child's home is not good. This tension will affect children in the long run.

Third, parents are very strict with their children, for example, how many points are required for children to learn in academic studies.

After listening, grandma did not speak, and a woman who came along with them called out, "Oh, you are still more divine than the fortune teller. Oh, my God, all these three points in their family are all occupied."

I said, "this has nothing to do with fortune telling. It's not magical at all. I've seen too much. It's almost all related to the three."

Of course, there may be only one or two pieces in the three, but I didn't expect all three of them to be together.

At that moment, the child's grandmother sat silent on the side. The woman who came together said, "since childhood, the parents have not taken him out to play with him. They are all taking him out alone. His parents do not live together, fight or divorce, but they have not left."

It is true that such a long time of conflict at home almost every day, will definitely affect the mood of the child, hurt his heart, and finally lead to abnormal blood and gas, and the body has such a big problem.

I told them: "Chinese medicine believes that the twitch is internal movement of the liver wind, is a problem with the spleen and stomach, in short, the body of a variety of rebellion, are related to emotional disorders."

So how do I adjust? I told them that after coming home, parents, grandparents and other parents must have a meeting. They should unify their thoughts and adjust their children's emotions. Otherwise, the child's illness is very difficult.

3. families are not good at life, but children are born with strange diseases.

When a child was sick, how serious was his illness? He was not a general twitching. He was twitching and shouting. It was like Bruce Lee fighting and shouting and screaming, and convulsing and shouting every thirty seconds.

At that time, we were in a restaurant, and there were only a few guests during the day. These people ran away in a moment.

Such a small boy, I sat on the opposite side can not give him a pulse, because the child can not control himself, twitching and shouting, the voice is particularly horrible.

His mother said that the child would do magic tricks, and the child was very quiet and methodical in the process of making magic for me. There was no problem at all. After the magic trick, he put the props on the table and began to scream.

I therefore judged that the child's illness was not a physical illness, but an emotional illness.

I looked at the child's face again, all green, with a dull complexion.

I said the child was not good at home. What happened? His mother didn't tell me. I said, "well, you may not be able to tell me, you can write an e-mail to me."

Later, I received an email to see, my God.

Why do I say that bad relationship between parents leads to serious illness for children?

The boy's father was having an affair with his mother and divorced.

The mother, with her child, put all her hopes on her children, and demanded strict discipline. She had to learn a few exams before and unconsciously put all her anger on her children.

Before the child, the body was very good, and now the strange disease is getting worse and worse.

How do I deal with this situation? I said to my mother, "you have to adjust yourself to a good state. If you don't adjust well, your child will get heavier and heavier."

His mother said, "can I give up? I can't bear to send my child to the orphanage." "why?" "the child goes to bed at three o'clock in the evening and keeps twitching. I can't sleep."

Do you know what medicine the western medicine gives him? You know it? It's a medicine for psychotic patients, just to get him to sleep. "

In fact, this kind of medicine has no children's disease at all.

I advised her: "the way of conditioning Chinese medicine is very long, but the effect is very good. If you have confidence and strong will, you need to adjust yourself first, and then treat your child. There is still hope."

I've had too many contacts like this.

Even the other children were brought up, but because their parents' relationship was not good enough, the child had such a serious illness.

4. do not scold children again.

There was once a cross talk actor who told me about a friend of his children. His parents were usually very good to their children, but once the father became angry and went up to do a child's action. His face was very grim, and the child was scared at once.

From then on, the child convulse every few minutes.

Although the child has learned to drive now when he grows up, if someone takes his car, he will find that when he drives, he will tremble to the side in a moment, and even the people sitting next to him are afraid.

The description of crosstalk actors may be slightly exaggerated, but I believe the general situation should be so.

The child was frightened by being kicked once. It could be an accident.

Well, what do I see more? It's the parents' long-term family atmosphere, such as the anxiety that their parents have accumulated in their work units. Although it's hard to tell how to pass them on to their children, as long as you bring anxiety home, even if you are laughing at your child's face, the bad mood will be passed on to your child.

Children's physical and mental problems caused by parental discord are too many, and the consequences are often suffered by parents and children.

I saw so many human tragedies that I could not enumerate them one by one.

Many parents simply can't imagine what kind of bad influence their bad mood will have on their children, but a responsible medical worker will see the reasons for the results and link them together.

Let's see how this kind of disease comes. It's a problem between parents, which leads to their emotional problems and finally pferred to their children.

The influence of parents' emotions on children is far beyond our imagination. We must treat children with a special peace of mind.

To understand how much effort you take in raising your heart, how much happiness your child will have in the future.