Bad Tempered People Read Well, Really.

The moment of anger, intelligence quotient It's zero. It will return to normal after a minute. The key to human elegance is to control your emotions. It's the stupidest way to hurt people with your mouth. Our freedom is usually due to bad feelings from the inside. A man who can control bad emotions is stronger than a man who can take a city. The depth of water is slow, but later is the most expensive. It took us two years to learn to talk, but it took decades to learn to shut up. It can be seen that speaking is a kind of ability.

The art of speaking

　 1. urgent business, speak slowly.

If you are in a hurry, if you can sink your mind and think clearly, then don't rush to speak clearly. You will leave a steady and impulsive impression on the listener, so as to increase the trust of others.

2. little things, humorously speaking.

Especially some Goodwill The reminding of a joke can not make listeners feel stiff. They will not only accept your reminder, but also enhance their intimacy.

3. be unsure about things.

If you don't talk about things that you are not sure about, people will think you are hypocritical; if you can speak out rigorously, you will feel that you are a trustworthy person.

4. don't talk nonsense.

People hate people who make trouble. If you never assume anything or nothing, it will make you feel mature and cultivated. It is a conscientious and responsible person.

5. don't talk nonsense.

As the saying goes, "no diamond, do not live in porcelain." If you do not commit yourself to what you can't do, it will make the listener feel that you are a man of words and deeds, willing to believe you.

6., we must not hurt people.

It is not easy to hurt others with words, especially among people who are close to each other, without hurting people. This will make them feel that you are a good person and help to maintain and enhance their feelings.

7. don't tell anyone when you are sad.

When people are sad, they have the desire to talk, but if they see someone, they will easily make listeners. Psychological pressure Too big, you have doubts and alienation. At the same time, you will give people the impression that you are not thinking about others, and want to pass the pain on to others.

8. other people's affairs, be careful.

People need to have a safe distance between people. It is not easy to comment and disseminate other people's affairs, it will give people a sense of security.

9., listen to what others say.

You should listen more to the outsider's opinions, one can give people the impression of modesty, and two will make you feel that you are a sensible person.

　　 10. listen more and speak less.

Older people often do not like young people to comment too much on their own affairs. If young people talk too much, they feel that you are not a respectable elder, modest and eager to learn.

11. the matter of husband and wife.

Between husband and wife, the most feared thing is to blame each other when they encounter things, and mutual consultation will produce the effect of "Empathy" and enhance the feelings of husband and wife.

　　 12. children's affairs, enlightened.

Especially adolescent children, very rebellious, adopt a moderate and firm attitude to enlighten, can not only let the children have a good opinion of you, willing to become friends with you, but also can play a convincing role.