5 Characteristics Of Immature People, Have You Been Shot?

Mature and immature people have nothing to do with age.

Mature or immature, is whether you can stand on the other side's perspective to see things, that is, can you turn my world into your world.

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The first characteristic of human immaturity is immediate rewards.

He did not know that only spring sowing, autumn will harvest.

Many people just pay a little bit when they are doing anything, and they will be rewarded immediately.

(learning piano, learning English and so on, at first, it was difficult to find out, and immediately gave up.

A lot of people start doing business. They start to fail. They want to give up. Some people give up a month, some give up for three months, some give up half a year, some give up one year, I don't understand why people give up easily, but I know that giving up is a habit, a habit of a typical loser.

So you need to have a vision, a bit farther to see, and a vision to see the future.

To those who give up their habits in life, there is a saying to you: "winners never give up, and those who give up never succeed."

Why do many people do things easily? Napoleon, Hill, a famous American successful scholar, said: "the poor have two very typical states of mind: first, never say" no "to opportunities; two, always want to get rich overnight.

If you put all opportunities in front of him today, he will say "no".

It is very successful for you to open a restaurant today. You tell your friends and relatives to tell them about your successful experience in opening a restaurant. Can you guarantee that everyone will open a restaurant?

So this is a very typical mentality of the poor. He will say, "you can do it, I can't do it!"

The expression of getting rich overnight is that when you talk to him about any business, his first problem is "earn no money". When you say "earn money," he immediately asks second questions, "easy not easy," and you say "easy". Then he asks third questions, "fast and unhappy," and you say "quick!" when he says, "OK, I do!"

Let's think about whether there is a kind of "money making, easy and fast" in this world. No, even if there is no chance of us, so we must know how to give in life.

Then why do you have to pay? Because you pay for your dreams.

People are living for hope and dream. If a person has no dreams and no pursuits, he will have no meaning in his whole life.

You have to pay what you want in life.

If you want to get time, you have to give time first. If you want to get money, you have to give money first.

If you want to get a hobby, you have to sacrifice your hobby first.

If you want to spend more time with your family, you have to spend less time with your family.

However, one thing is clear: your efforts in this project will be doubly rewarded.

Like a seed, after you plant it, watering, fertilizing, weeding, killing insects, and finally you harvest dozens of times, hundreds of times the return?

In life, you must know how to give. You should not be so eager for quick success and instant benefit.

There is no such thing as a free lunch. You can't succeed easily.

We must know how to give first!

Second characteristics of immature people: self discipline

What are the main manifestations of self discipline?

1, do not want to change themselves.

You have to change your way of thinking and behavior. You have to change your bad habits.

In fact, there is not much difference in ability between people. The difference lies in the different ways of thinking.

When something happens, you ask the winners and losers, their answers are different or even contrary.

Our failure today is due to the failure of our way of thinking.

A good formula is: when you plant a seed of thought, you will have the harvest of action; when you plant the action, you will have the harvest of habit; when you plant the habit again, you will have the harvest of individuality; when you cultivate your individuality, you will decide your fate.

But if you plant a failed seed, you will get a failure. If you plant a successful seed, you will succeed.

Many people have many bad habits, such as watching TV, playing mahjong, drinking and dancing. They also know that such habits are not good, but why do they not want to change? Because many people would rather tolerate bad lifestyles than endure the pain brought by change.

2. I would like to talk about others behind my back.

If you like to talk about others in your life, one day it will be passed back. There is an old saying in China.

3, negative, complain.

What kind of people do you like in your life? Those who are all worried and complaining all day, or those who are happy all day long.

If you are the complaining and negative people in your life, you must change the flaws in your character.

If you don't change, it's hard for you to adapt to the society. You can hardly cooperate with others.

In life, how you treat life, how life will treat you; how you treat others, how others will treat you.

So you should not be passive and complain. You must be positive and always be positive. That's the saying: successful people will never complain, and complainants will never succeed.

The third characteristics of immature people are often influenced by emotions.

Whether a person succeeds or not depends on five factors:

1) learn to control emotions;

2) healthy body;

3) good interpersonal relationship;

4) time management;

5) financial management.

If you want to succeed, you must learn to manage these five factors.

Why put your mood first and put your health in the second place? Because in time, you have a stronger body. If you are in a bad mood, it will affect your health.

Now, a person wants to succeed, 20% depends on intelligence quotient, 80% depends on the EQ, so you must control your mood, the mood to the human influence is very big.

It's not good for people to fly into a rage just for a little bit of small things.

So in life, you have to develop the mindset of "three no" and "more than 3":

"Three no" - no criticism, no complaints, no accusations.

"More than 3" -- more encouragement, more praise and more

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You will become a popular person.

If you want to make your partners more excellent, it is very simple, always encourage and praise them, even if they are really wrong.

What should I do then? Is it right to give them advice? In your life, you will find such a phenomenon. When someone gives advice to others, others can accept it, but sometimes others will be angry.

In fact, the most important way to recommend is Sandwiches: praise, advice and praise.

Think about it. You praised a few people a day.

Some people may think praise is flattering or flattering.

There are differences between praise and flattery. There are four characteristics of praise.

1) sincere;

2) is from the heart.

3) accepted by the public;

4) selfless.

If you have a strong purpose to praise, it is flattering.

When you praise others, you have to speak out loud. When you want to criticize others, you must bite your tongue!

Fourth characteristics of human immature: no

In fact, there are many similarities between human beings and animals. Animals are more aware of their self-protection than human beings (infants and piglets), but the biggest difference between humans and animals is that people learn and people think.

People must learn continuously. You must never bury your talent potential.

We must learn. We must have an empty cup mentality.

Who do we learn from? We learn from successful people directly.

You should always learn positive things and not listen to negative ones.

Once you absorb those poisonous thoughts, it will corrode your mind and your life.

In this era of knowledge economy, learning is your only passport to the future.

In such an era of speed, change and crisis, you will never be abandoned by this era unless you continue to learn.

We must have the mindset of learning and returning to zero to see the good points of each individual. "Three people go, there must be my teacher."

The fifth characteristic of human immaturity: to do things is not to rely on belief, but to rely on others.

We believe that belief is the starting point and persistence is the end.

Many people do not rely on their beliefs, enjoy listening to what others say, and have no 100% confidence in what they do.

Belief and belief are two different concepts. Belief is visible and belief is invisible.

Belief is an attitude of mankind.

But many people do not rely on conviction, but listen to what others say.

You must climb up the mountain to ask those who climb to the top of the mountain.

This is not to say that other people's advice is not to be heard, you can refer to it, but you have to remember that you are doing this business in order to realize your dream and realize your own value.

Other people will not care about your dreams. Only you will care about your own dreams. Only you can care about your own success.

This is the most important thing. As long as your choice is right, never care what others say.

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You have to compare yourself with the five characteristics, which feature is what you have. You must correct it in the shortest possible time.

As long as you believe that you can overcome your immaturity, you will gradually grow up and mature, and you will get the kind of life you want. You will realize your dream of free time, financial freedom and spiritual freedom.