The Longer The Father Takes The Child, The Better The Child!

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"Five" appealed to parents' children's lives. The reality show shows the growth of adults and children's doubts, giving, cooperation and other aspects. The program can enlighten children how to deal with people when they are in a strange environment. Adults can also interpret family ties and understand family ties from other parent child dialogues.

In family education, the more fathers participate, the better they will achieve in school.

Why is there such a big difference in sex between men and women? The more fathers participate, the more complementary they can be with their mothers to make up for the bias of women's education.

Mothers are sensitive to their feminine feelings, conscientious and careful in their work, and gentle in character. They can give children a lot of care and care through telling stories, singing songs and playing toys.

However, the lack of male education often makes the child show sentimentality, cowardice, timidity, eccentric personality and inferiority.

Male education just makes up for these shortcomings.

Men are characterized by tenacity, boldness, determination, self-confidence, forthright and independence, which are slightly weaker for women. This shows the role that male education can not replace.

What is the advantage of taking a child with dad?

First of all, how to educate children.

Heart is more than mom.

Most mothers have high expectations for children, but in practical education, mothers often seem to have no plans.

But those who prefer to take care of their children at home are more purposeful in educating their children.

In order to nurture children's qualities and develop their talents, fathers usually have plans in mind, and mothers are worse off in this regard.

Secondly, in terms of educational content

Father's knowledge is also more extensive than that of his mother, and his father is often better than his mother in history, geography and philosophy.

Therefore, the father told the children more historical stories, customs, heroes and so on.

Mothers usually tell their children fairy tales, which are less related to history, geography and philosophy.

This is slightly worse in broadening children's horizons and enriching children's knowledge.

Third, the way of education.

Fathers generally encourage their children to do things by themselves, while mothers prefer to help their children to do what they can; fathers are generally more hardworking towards their unreasonable demands, while mothers are often soft.

The father took the children to the streets and saw more food and snacks. Mother took the children to the streets and didn't see much food, but they ate a lot of snacks.

Fourth,

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Don't keep it clean.

Therefore, children often play a supportive role in playing dirt and digging sand.

British scientists have found that children are too clean to be good for their health. Their research concluded that dirty children are healthier.

This is because if people are too clean and seldom touch bacteria and viruses, they can not produce antibodies in the body. Once a large number of germs are intruded, they will be knocked down. Therefore, "spotless" is not a good thing for children to grow up.

It seems that men's relaxed attitude towards children's health will help their children grow up.

Movement

Like to take children to run, swim, rock climbing, playing ball, not only to develop the child's exercise habits, good for health, and virtually exercise the willpower of children.

Fifth, the cultivation of character.

Mothers always want to protect their children from harm.

They do not allow their children to take part in a little dangerous activity. They are always worried that their children will be careless, fall and tired. They will make the children weaker and daring, but their fathers are different.

Self reliance

Men like the feeling of self-reliance, so they will educate their children to support themselves.

Fathers often do not encourage children to deal with problems independently, but are less likely to indulge children.

Sometimes the child fell down and did not cry, but the mother hurried to run up and help the child up. It was also a clap of earth and rubbing, and the child's tears were rubbed out.

Fathers often do not do this. They will say, "why don't you pay attention to your feet?"

The child did not cry. Instead, he stood up and walked forward. His father clapped his hands in the back and said, "really brave! Really brave!" so that the child is full of confidence.

Dare to take risks

Men are adventurous, so fathers encourage their children's risk taking behavior. If a child jumps from the high platform, his mother will often criticize severely, but his father will not do that. He will stick out his thumb and say to his child, "great!

Exploring spirit

Men like to explore, and children often engage in exploratory activities.

If a child disconnects a toy, his mother often scolds him.

But his father often disagrees, and even disposes toys with his children to satisfy his curiosity and then teach him to put the toys on the table.

In addition, fathers are more interested in new things, which will also stimulate their interest in new things.

Men generally prefer playing chess, playing checkers, military chess, chess and go together with their children, which can cultivate children's logical thinking ability.

Practical ability

Compared to the mother let the children do housework is sweeping the floor, wipe the table, father loves to deal with equipment - and children together with tools such as hammers, knives to repair things, making toys, cultivate children's various practical ability.

Endurance

Such as difficulties, hunger, fatigue, and so on, think these are the experiences of life, children encounter these difficulties is not great, should let him overcome.

This kind of bad stimulation is very beneficial to children's growth.

It is good for a father to bring children, but in many families, the role of father is missing.

There is an interesting phenomenon. The visitors to family education consultation are basically mothers. This shows that there may be a phenomenon of "Yin Sheng Yang Yang" in the education of children.

Family education in China accounted for 50% of mothers, 20% of whom were fathers, and 30% of them were equal.

Many fathers push the responsibility of education baby to their mother, but they hide themselves idle.

When asked about the reasons why some fathers faded out of family education, some answered that they were too busy to manage their children, and others said that they were not good tempered, and could not be angry with their children.

It seems that they all have reasons, but they have forgotten the old saying that "the father does not teach."

Lack of male education, children's character, emotion, will, way of thinking will be affected.

Our children are getting enough maternity education now. When they are babies, they are mostly mothers who feed and take care of them. Kindergarten is all the education of female teachers; primary and secondary schools are basically female teachers; lack of male education often makes children show sentimentality, cowardice, timidity, and being eccentric and self abased.

Father's absence makes it difficult for children to make up for their defects in time. When the child needs his father's advice, he pushes the child to a helpless mother.

In the long run, if the baby feels that his father is not responsible for him, when he doesn't ask his father for advice, his father's prestige will be lower and lower, and his character defect will be more and more difficult to make up for.

Fathers are lazy for a while, but they may regret it for a lifetime.

At this point, the author thought that in the first big house door, Bai Jingqi and his wife Huang Chun had a son named Bai Jingye on the seventh night.

When my father disciplined the child a little bit severe, mother Huang Chun always cherishes the child too much. He always says, "the child is still young." he can not bear to punish, nor can he take the method of discipline.

When he grew up, he was a cowardice and was totally different from his father. Maybe that was the truth.

The proper way is to not indulge or tyranny two of the parents. They should be human nature and principles. Moreover, the two people must unswervingly carry out a unified set of principles.

Father's love is like a mountain, motherly love is like the sea. Father and mother have their own advantages in family education. We must balance yin and Yang, so as to benefit children's growth.

Mothers occasionally let go and let fathers take care of their children. Fathers should take the initiative to participate. Apart from making their children better, they can also make family relationships more harmonious.