Introverted People -- How To Exercise Charm And Eloquence

Most people who consider themselves eloquent are mostly

Taciturn people.

They listen much, speak little, and the key is not to say.

Therefore, I think that to practise eloquence, we must first practise the courage that we dare to speak.

The establishment of personal courage should be based on good self-confidence.

1, get up every day and read eloquence.

A I am the best speaker in the world.

B my eloquence is getting better every day.

C I have good communication skills and more and more friends.

D I have great charm and good temperament.

E I can deal with all kinds of people freely.

(10 times per sentence) enter the subconscious!

2.

Looking for 3 different people to talk everyday

3.

Read a few colloquial articles every day, and read them aloud.

The most important thing is: stick to it! Stick to it!

How to do in life and social situations

Self introduction has always plagued many people. Many people are afraid of introducing themselves, and feel that they do not know what they introduce, but what else they can say besides their names.

In fact, self introduction plays a very important role in our life. A good self introduction can make a deep impression on others, whether it's from accumulating connections or working life.

Many students often come to ask me how to design self introduction, today I sort out my thoughts, write a few simple points, analyze and analyze, hoping to help you all.

When we introduce ourselves to different situations and different environments, we should prepare ourselves for different occasions. We need to spend a little time to prepare carefully. It is necessary for you to design your self introduction for at least a few years. When you use it, you will not worry about how to introduce it.

The self - Introduction in life and social situations should be concise and concise, usually in about 10 seconds, and sometimes with handshakes.

For example: Hello! My name is Liu Gang, Liu is Liu, just a rigid and gentle, coming from.

Organization (nice to meet you).

This self introduction is divided into three parts: Part I: name; second part: simple explanation of name (for others to remember); third part: where to come from.

As a life and social occasion, such self introduction is enough. Sometimes you can also remove the second part according to the situation. It is directly your name and where you come from.

How to introduce yourself before the public?

Self introduction before the public and self introduction in social life are different. It can't be as simple as self introduction in life. After all, you stand on a stage, and now that you stand up, let everyone know more about you, and you can seize the opportunity to publicize yourself.

Self promotion is actually a very important thing. Just like where Ma Yun goes, he will talk about his Alibaba. Wherever Niu Gensheng goes, he will talk about his Mengniu. Wherever Yu Minhong goes, he will talk about his new Oriental. We should learn to constantly publicize ourselves, let more people know you and be impressed with you.

For example, dear friends, good afternoon, everyone! My name is Liu Gang, Liu is my Wen's Liu. He is just a fresh and flexible gang. He is from Chen's institution. I am very glad to know so many excellent friends here today. So every friend who wishes to be here is happier and more successful in his career since he knew Liu Gang. Thank you! (time: 30 seconds or so).

The most important thing to introduce oneself is to let others remember your name. I have seen many people speak a lot when they come to the stage to introduce themselves. When he is about to step down, the people on the stage are very anxious. He asked, "friend, you haven't told me your name!" before the public took 30 seconds, do not talk too much about hobbies and interests. (if time is three minutes, you can talk about Hobbies), you only have one purpose in 30 seconds, that is, let others remember your name.

How to introduce yourself in job interview

The self introduction of job interview is usually three minutes. This self introduction is that the examiner tries to get as much information as possible in three minutes in order to get to know you better.

Job interviews are generally divided into the following parts: names, where they graduated, what positions they had held, what they were responsible for, what experiences they had, and what aspects they were good at.

Speaking of these six parts, we already have a basic understanding of you.

Of course, the six part introduces myself, but I think it's a better way. If you have other better ways, you can do it.

Practising eloquence must first practice listening.

Many people think that the concept of population that can be talked about is not right.

For example, scolding the street, she can curse in the street all day, and can't stop talking, but it really needs to be used. When she gives her a scene, she may not be able to say it.

A good eloquent speaker is not many words.

To speak incisively, we must first listen carefully, and only by listening well can we speak well.

In listening, we should listen to others' meaning and listen to others' words.

There was once an old man who went early. He felt lonely, so he wanted to find another old man. But he was embarrassed to tell his son directly, so he said to his son, "Alas, it's really cold to sleep alone at night."

This son is also very filial. When he heard Daddy say that he slept cold at night, he went back to buy an electric blanket.

The uncle looked at the electric blanket and was unhappy, so he said, "well, no one scratched my back when I was asleep."

As soon as he heard this, he immediately understood the meaning and ran to buy a scratching device for him.

One day, the old son decided to get married. The old man then angrily said to his son, "marry, buy an electric blanket, and scratch your back."

Many people will say that I know, but I really do not know how to listen, I can not hear the meaning of others.

Here, I will give you some advice.

First, listen attentively.

When communicating with others, don't be absentminded, improve your attention and listen to what others say.

Two, think positively.

After listening to think, to think about why others say so, why he said so, what he wants to express and so on, may be unexpected at the beginning, but as long as you keep your mind in mind, after a period of time, you will slowly understand the meaning of others, and then go to the heart to understand, to sum up, if the next time you encounter such a situation, others may be expressing what they mean, and gradually, your ability to listen to the implied meaning will become stronger and stronger.

Three, communicate with people who are thoughtful.

People who are thoughtful, often say something that will remind you of them. From these memorable places, you can understand what they mean, and you can also learn how to express your ideas very skillfully.

Three beliefs about practicing eloquence

1. The importance of faith to our eloquence.

I often hear people say, "my growing environment is bad, so I have no chance to practise eloquence."

"My working environment is really bad. I don't have the chance to exercise at all."

Even some people will say, "my eloquence is not good because my parents can not speak."

In fact, whether a person's success or not is not much related to the environment and birth. Our Chairman Mao grew up in the countryside. A turbulent social environment did not create our great new China. Because of his poor family background, Hua Luogeng dropped out of school after reading junior high school, and did not become a famous mathematical love. Andrew Carnegie, the father of the iron and steel king, was born with hand woven linen cloth, while his mother used sewing shoes as sideline. The family was very poor, but through his own efforts, he created the myth of starting from scratch.

There are too many examples.

A person's thought determines a person's behavior. One's behavior determines one's habits. One's habits determine one's character. One's personality determines one's fate.

We often succeed in the person we imagine.

If you think you can't practise your eloquence well, then you will never be able to practise eloquence. If you think that eloquence is practiced and do not practice bad eloquence, it is only a matter of time before you have good eloquence.

A person's belief in things often directly determines our fate.

Two, let faith enter our subconscious.

Bohn Tracey, the master of world potential, once said, "the power of the unconscious is more than thirty thousand times greater than that of consciousness."

Let faith carry on our subconscious mind, only through continuous self suggestion.

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Three, three beliefs about practicing eloquence.

1, as long as I have the opportunity to speak, I will speak.

2, as long as I have the opportunity to take the stage, I rush onto the stage.

3, as long as there are opportunities for practice, I will practice with my heart.

These three beliefs of practicing eloquence, if you can really apply to life, I think, in less than a month, your eloquence level will surely have a qualitative leap.

Have a broad mind to have good eloquence.

A person must have broad mind to have good eloquence.

If a person speaks, he should take the overall situation into consideration and take the overall situation as the emphasis. If his mind is not broad enough, he can only speak for himself and speak well and perform well in his eloquence.

In interpersonal communication, if we can deal with the contradiction with others by tolerance and humility, we should tolerate each other with a tolerant mind.

Lin Xiangru was the late Zhao people in the late Warring States period. He was originally a guest of the Miao official in Zhao state. After returning to Zhao and Mianchi, he became the upper Qing of Zhao state.

Lian Po is the upper Qing Dynasty of Zhao.

Lin Xiangru came back to the top and made Lian Po very angry. He thought, "I used Zhao's generals to go all the way to death. I had a great battle against the battle of the city." but Lin Xiangru did not stir up his three tongue, but he was on top of me. It was hard to accept. He said angrily, "if I see it, I will be humiliated."

From then on, whenever he went to court, Lin Xiangru always claimed to be ill in order to avoid competing with Lian Po.

On one occasion, Lin went out with the door guests, and he saw that Lian Po came face to face and hurriedly turned his car around.

The door visitor said to Lin Xiangru, "we follow the gentleman, but we admire him.

Now you are in the same position as general Lian Po, and you see him as a mouse sees a cat.