Special Treatment For Children To Write Homework Dawdling Trick, Mom And Dad Hasten Collection!

1, what are you doing when your child is doing homework?

Wrong way: watch TV while watching.

Keep your mouth shut and say, "write faster."

"Don't dawdle."

"Don't watch TV, study hard."

Result: the child is unhappy: "why can you watch TV? I can't see it. It's unfair."

The right way: adults read books, do not disturb the children, create a strong atmosphere of family learning.

Results: the children have a calm mind and a good mind.

2, children write homework, loitering, dragging, not concentrating, should go to bed, homework is not finished.

The wrong way: scolding the child: "you're pissing me off. Why didn't you finish it? I can't watch it for a while. Write it quickly! I'll look at you."

Result: the child is not in a hurry and is still looking at it slowly.

Right way: solemnly and calmly, the child said, "children, homework is your own business. You have to be responsible for your own affairs. If you don't finish writing, you can't write it. You should go to bed and go to school tomorrow to explain it to your teacher."

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Some consequences.

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As a result, the child realized his mistake and regretted it. He thought to himself, "this is over, how to tell the teacher, it seems that we should hurry up tomorrow, otherwise we will have to be criticized."

3, children watch TV all the time, do not sleep nor do homework. How do you do it?

The wrong way: turn the TV off with rage and shout to ask the child to do homework or sleep.

Result: the child went belly full of displeasure. He hated you and said you were a tyrant.

The right thing to do: calm to the child and say, "children, you should write your homework. If you can't finish it, you will be criticized.

"How long do you want to see it?" the child: "can I look at it for another 10 minutes?"

Each side takes one step back.

As a result, when the time is up, the child voluntarily turns off the TV, goes to bed or writes homework.

4, children's homework is scribble, how do you do it?

The wrong way: get angry: "how can you write so messy, you can't write well?" or even angry to tear the child's homework.

Result: the child was at a loss and at a loss.

The right thing to do is to say to the child gravely and calmly, "my child, I have already said that it is not neat to rewrite, because the teacher can not see clearly because it is not neat. You see, this is a" regulation "and can not be destroyed, so you must rewrite it.

You see, you should write like this.

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Children, you just have to write better than you did just now, do you have confidence?

As a result, the child understands the importance of "rules" and thinks, "it's easier than the word just now."

Children will have confidence in themselves.

5, the child failed in the exam. What do you do after you see the report card?

The wrong way: scolding the child: "look at you, take a test, so you don't feel shame. If you look at the family, who will be able to test one hundred? You are stupid!"

And even harder to kick the children's feet.

Result: the child was in a bad mood. He thought to himself, "I am finished. I am so stupid, I can not learn well, and I can not learn how to learn."

The right thing to do is to comfort the child: "I know that your heart is not comfortable," he said. "I didn't think it was good at a time."

I believe you will make progress next time. "

Results: the child seriously looked for the reason, and thought to himself, "I will try my best to live up to the expectations of my parents."

6. At the parents' meeting, the teacher tells the child that you are suffering.

What will you do when you get home?

Wrong way: once you go home, you throw your anger on your child and beat and scold the child.

Results: children do not have any confidence or learn to be violent or timid, dare not say a word, learn to lie, and dare not tell the truth with their parents.

The right way: first, talk about the advantages of children, then analyze the reasons for the lack, encourage children, believe that children will make progress next time.

Result: children will surprise you!

7, children do not greet or ill manners when they see people. What should you do then?

The wrong way of doing it: scolding the child in public: "Why are you so rude? You can't even say hello. I used to teach you.

Results: the self-esteem of the child was greatly damaged, and he felt ashamed.

The right thing to do: give the child a step down: "my child is a little embarrassed, slowly, he is usually very polite."

A polite example. "

As a result, the child knew it was wrong and thought, "this time we did not do it well, we must do it next time. We can not let our parents down."

8, the child asked a question, you won't, what will you do then?

Wrong way: unhappy: "do not ask blindly, do well in learning, do not know what to think every day."

Results: the child thought to himself, "Oh, no, I always say that learning and studying is boring."

From then on, we encountered a rough outline of our problems.

The right thing to do: happy to the child: "child, you can ask such a difficult question, prove your brains, good.

But I won't. Let's study and study together, OK? "

Result: the child is very happy. He will be persistent when he meets a problem.

9, children do not get up in the morning, how do not wake up, then how do you do it?

The wrong way: get angry: "why can't you get up? Be late!" hand in hand two slap, rush to the children to find clothes and clothes.

Result: the next time is still.

The right thing to do: calmly, "I'll call you once, my child. If you don't get up, you'll be late, and you'll be criticized. It's your own business. Deal with it yourself."

The child didn't get up in time, didn't have breakfast, and was late.

Result: get up next time!