Do You Know The State Of Speaking?

In life, everyone has their own way of speaking, but there are tens of millions of failures in life, but successful life is different.

If we say "from the heart" is a person's face can see the character.

A person can often listen to this individual's ability to do things if he speaks with his mouth open.

Realm.

Opening the door is killing people.

In this world, there is a kind of person who speaks straight away and has no obstruction on the mouth. We call this kind of artificial gun barrel. The person who talks this kind of gun often does not seriously think about what he wants to say. He does not divide the field with the place, nor does he divide men, women and children. He does not even consider whether he or she accepts the other party, and wants to shoot off the gun.

Unlike a straightforward person, straightforward people do not deceive or play tricks on others, though they do not beat around the bush.

And the people in the gun barrel are talking and attacking others irresponsibly, regardless of their influence.

This kind of person talks only with his mouth pain and happiness, regardless of the pain of others.

Talking in the barrel

When you encounter different kinds of images, there are two kinds of results.

If the person who has been hurt is a person who is very well trained, he usually ignores him and will not be familiar with it.

But after getting along, they often take a far away attitude.

But if the injured person is a real or bad tempered person, he will often argue with the person who fired it tit for tat, and he will become a friend.

The so-called "friend" is not suitable for solving, but the way of speaking on killing is only two kinds of results: either a real friend is missed, or an enemy is left without any reason.

There is a joke: a fat woman came into the clothing store, and the salesgirl said to her, "aunt, you are too fat. We have no clothes you can wear."

The lady was trying to refute, and the young lady added, "in fact, it's better to be overweight."

The woman was so angry that she didn't know how to attack. At this time the boss came out from the back. The lady immediately said, "who did I get into the shop today? How did I get into the shop, and I was said to be fat and old by your salesman."

The landlady was very embarrassed to apologize quickly, but it was two degrees of injury, because she said, "our shop assistant is from the country, especially not speaking, but it is true."

People who go straight to say that they are telling the truth are not bad intentions, but they are also easy to hurt people.

In real life, many people's character is straightforward, no mansion, never beat around the bush.

Sometimes such a person will be very popular, because people feel that he is straightforward and easy to communicate, but sometimes such a person is very troublesome, because he always hurts others unintentionally, often makes people fall into the stage without being aware of it. You blame him, he does not intend to; you do not blame him, he has repeatedly annoyed you.

Such a guy is really a headache.

In fact, speaking skill is higher, it is higher than the word "Li".

Speech must be reasonable, so that others can accept it. It must be credibility and unassailable.

The final word of the dragon was able to convince the Empress Dowager that he was willing to arrange the Changan monarch to become a hostage in Qi state. The key is that he can convince people by reasoning on the basis of emotion.

Those who do not love their children and love their children must consider the long-term aspects of their children. Let them have their own foundation and not rely solely on their power and parents.

From the point of view of objective facts, the dragon is induced by step by step, by beating around the Bush, with the truth and the truth, all conversations without a word involve hostages, but they do not leave hostages.

The twists and turns reveal the language mystery, and it is necessary to follow the guidance.

When a person speaks with his life.

People of this realm seldom say or need to say anything.

You only stay for a moment by his side, he doesn't say anything, and his voice doesn't come out.

But in your future days, you will find that he has said a lot.

In fact, he is not far from persuasive, but the former is tied up for sale, the latter is free, and when you get something, you don't know.

When you know that you have benefited and want to thank him, he has gone away.

He doesn't even want to give you anything. He doesn't even know what he has given you. So you can think of all this as your own feelings.

This is like a good movie, everyone will have different feelings and experiences after reading, but in the movie, there is no reason to impose these feelings and actions on you.

The highest state of speech is "harmony between man and nature". True masters should communicate with you from a deep spiritual point of view. It is a kind of emotional communication. At this time, language may be the most common and obscure, but also the most simple and touching. It is called true water without fragrance and true love without trace.

This is like a realm of returning to simplicity. Maybe his language is not fancy at all, but it can directly penetrate into the heart of people, and can express appropriately, without unnecessary redundancy.

They are experienced, highly educated and savvy, and can push themselves forward. Their words are out of their own accumulation, a kind of promotion that enables the people around to listen and be convinced.

In short, people are willing to listen to anything.