Commentary: How To See "The Old Man Is Forced To Kneel And Apologize To Women"

Earlier this month, Zhang Dexin, a shoe repair old man in Hengshui, Hebei, accidentally stained her shoes on shoes for a woman.

After negotiations failed, the old man was forced to kneel down to apologize to the woman.

But the old man's behavior was not forgiven. Finally, the woman took away the old man's 30 yuan and swallowed away in the condemnation of the public.

(according to Yanzhao Metropolis Daily)

Over the past few days, this news has been widely reprinted by the major websites, attracting the following messages.

These messages, or criticisms, or exhortations, or anger, or condemnation, or insults, or personal attacks, are directed at the white shoe lady.

For a time, the saliva is flying, the bricks are clown, and the mood is strong.

If you read the news and have a conscience and conscience, you will think that the woman has gone too far and has acted too badly.

It is also reasonable for this matter to arouse public condemnation and netizens' public indignation.

There is a common saying in the world, that is, it is reasonable to have three points, so that we have to forgive and forgive.

For people to do things, to get reason not to let people, often make things towards the opposite side of the desire.

Moreover, the elderly are not intentional and have enough sincerity to show compensation.

Why do we have to kneel down to apologize and hurt the dignity of the elderly?

Calm down and think about it, don't you dirty your shoes? Why do you make such a mess?

However, we do not need to be convinced that this woman is evil.

In life, maybe she is not a well respected woman. She may also be a good wife and good mother.

Maybe she is just too concerned about dressing up, not to be stained with white shoes, as if a bird cherishes its feathers.

Therefore, in a hurry, this act is excessive, and in the eyes of the public, the willful spirit makes things reach this point.

Perhaps it was her willfulness that made her a matter of reason and changed qualitatively, and the result was exactly what she did not want to see.

Perhaps she turned around and regretted her actions.

When things happen and there is calm, things tend to become smooth and less.

Regretfully, the woman was more irritable than before, and the result was not enough.

It is also regrettable that our netizens seem to have lost the calm.

The "shoe repair elderly" and "white shoes woman", poverty and wealth, kneeling scenes and women's manner and so on, in the mind of a quick comparison, compared to the difference, more angry than the angry.

In the virtual moral court of the Internet, it is a pleasure to cut down too much, but it is more than enough.

Forgiveness is human virtue.

Tolerance is to treat others, forgiveness is for things, to educate people and things.

The woman did not know how to forgive and lost her life.

However, we can not afford to forgive her or lose her life.

Tolerance of other people's intolerance and forgiveness of others' bad deeds embodies a higher level of moral state and reflects our own civilization quality.

It is not only a matter of no benefit, nor a civilized man in modern society.

Tolerance is not connivance without principles. It is not for those ugly, vulgar social phenomena.

The author also has no intention of refuting the woman and ignoring her misconduct.

It is the attitude we should adopt in the face of those unhealthy phenomena.

We should rationally criticize bad phenomena, and forgive them with magnanimous heart.

With such prudent attitude, we can jointly create a civilized network environment and promote social civilization and progress.