Communicative Language Is The Lubricant Of Interpersonal Relationship (1).

1, calling and greeting, "1", "calling", "calling" is regarded as an anxious pioneer, and a barometer of harmonious interpersonal relationships. In real life, some people worry about holding the scale which is not allowed to be called. Xiao Wang, who has just been to work, has been suffering from embarrassment. On the day of registration, she received the thought of the Minister of the company, but the 40 year old was as young as twenty five or six years old. The first time he met, Xiao Wang respectfully shouted "Hello, Minister!"

The minister listened, Hei hei happy, very easygoing, said: "don't be so serious, call me Xiao X."

In the face of the minister, his mind turned seven or eight corners, still did not know how to address him, and his colleague Xiao Li also encountered how to address each other, precisely because he could not call his colleagues, and the cat was in the office all day, and did not dare to go out.

For fear of meeting a colleague who does not know how to address him, there is still a real leak in the rain. The more he does not want to bump into such a situation, the more he lets him catch up. Even if he goes to the bathroom last time, he will bump into a colleague who can not be sure how to address him.

In real life, addressing is a problem that no one can avoid.

In fact, Xiao Wang and Xiao Li can only observe the names of others, but keep consistent with others. Following this point, they will not make too many mistakes in general.

There is no need to worry about distraction.

Generally speaking, appellation is a kind of gradual and casual change with the increasing friendship.

In the near future, the whole family name is called.

In the near future, we can be brothers.

However, people often get to know the joke on the address.

For example, some people are not sure about the marital status of a woman. Madam says that it is no harm to miss a lady. If you call a lady a lady, you will not be embarrassed. If you call a young lady "Miss", it is easy to be understood. Western women think it is a pleasant mistake.

In social occasions, men usually call him mister, ladies, ladies and ladies.

A married woman is called a lady. The unmarried woman is collectively referred to as a young lady.

Just like some young women who are "girls" who are unacquainted with their elders, they will be very happy in their hearts.

When you address each other, you should follow the order of superiors, subordinates, senior elders, first ladies and men.

(2) to greet people with greetings, to greet people with greeting people.

It's impolite to pretend that you don't see someone who greets you or someone greets you.

1., "did you eat?"

This is a relatively common greeting in Chinese history.

In the long feudal society of China, what most labor demands is to have enough to eat.

Therefore, asking the other person to eat is a concern of the other party.

With the improvement of the living standard of our people, the problem of eating has been solved. However, the greeting of "have you eaten" has been handed down.

But now, this greeting basically has no original meaning.

It is just a form that no longer contains the original content. "Is it what you eat" is merely a greeting, which means, "I saw you and greeted you."

As for the other party, it is irrelevant that they really muddle through and do not eat.

Therefore, in the economically developed areas, "you have eaten" questions gradually replaced by new greetings.