Courtesy In Conversation

The expression of the conversation should be natural, tone and cordial, and express appropriately.

When you speak, you can make some gestures, but don't move too big. Don't dance with your fingers.

When talking with people, you should not be too far away from each other, but do not get too close.

Don't spit in conversation.

When you join others' conversation, you must say hello first, while others are speaking individually.

If someone needs to talk to someone, he should wait until others finish.

Someone who speaks with his own initiative should be willing to talk.

If the third party participates in speaking, they should welcome them with a handshake, a nod or a smile.

Someone who wants to talk with himself can ask for help.

When a conversation is in urgent need to deal with or need to leave, greet each other and apologize.

When more than three people live on the floor, they should talk with everyone present from time to time.

Do not talk to one or two people, but ignore others.

Don't talk to others about two people only, but ignore the third.

If the problem is not accessible to others, it should be found elsewhere.

When speaking in a communicative environment, they should give others the opportunity to express their opinions. Others should also express their personal opinions in a timely manner.

We should be good at listening to each other's conversation and not interrupting others' speeches.

Generally speaking, it is not related to the content of the conversation.

If the other side talks about some problems that are not convenient to talk about, do not make an easy statement.

When we talk with each other, we should gaze at each other as a sign of concentration.

When the other party speaks, it does not look left and right, is absent minded, or looks elsewhere, impatient appearance, also do not look at the watch, or make careless movements such as stretching and playing things.

The contents of the conversation are usually not related to illness, death and other unpleasant things, but to some absurd, sensational, and pornographic matters.

Generally do not ask women's age, marriage, do not directly ask the other person's resume, salary income, family property, clothing prices and other private life problems.

Talking with women does not mean that women are fat, healthy and well maintained.

Do not ask questions that the other person does not want to answer.

We should apologize for each other's disgust or pfer the topic immediately.

Generally speaking, they do not criticize senior or senior personnel. They do not laugh or satirize others.

Men generally do not participate in the discussion of women's circles, and do not stop talking with women.

To talk with women, we should be modest and prudent, not to joke with them.

In polite conversation, you should use polite language, such as: Hello, please, thank you, sorry, disturb, goodbye...

Okay?

Wait.

In our country, people used to see each other and say, "have you eaten?"

"Where are you going?"

And so on, some countries do not use these words and even think it is impolite to say so.

In the west, when you meet, do you say "good morning", "good night", "hello" and "good health"?

"How are you recently?"

"Is everything going well?"

"Long time no see. How are you?"

"How is your wife (husband)?"

"How are the children?"

"Have you gone on vacation recently?"

The new acquaintance often asks, "is this your first visit to our country?"

"How long have you been in our country?"

"Is this your first time in a foreign country?"

"Do you like the climate here?"

"Do you like our city?"

They often say, "I am very pleased to meet you and hope to see you again."

"Good bye, and have a good weekend!"

"Good night, please greet your friends."

"Please ask the family!"

And so on.

In social occasions, you can also talk about weather, news, work, business and so on.

When you talk in social situations, you usually get entangled, do not argue loudly, and can not hurt or speak rudely. Even if you quarrel, do not rebuke or criticize.